I know this thread will encompass parts of a variety of forums... but I felt that here would be ok for them all to be here at one time? I hope so...
I have made some of the best pals here on SW. I really have. I love you all to death and beyond. Now I ask for a favor from anyone who is willing to help.
I want to be a better performer. All around. I find it hard for me to focus, follow through, etc... I could use a few words of encouragement from time to time, and some help with self management.
So here's the basics...
I want to be more alive on stage. I need to find new moves, new ideas for little moves and tricks that would catch a tipper's eye. Someday I would LOVE to learn pole tricks, but I think I need better upper body strength for that yet. But some I Dont Want Monster Arms But I Want Strong Arms tips would rock!
I want to learn to be a real hustler. Not a cut throat, or someone who has to be fake to make a buck, but ways that I can still be the real, fun me and still get the dances!
I want to learn how to make and save money so I can get my boob job and still be able to pay bills and have a reserve in case of an emergency.
I need help learning how to do ANYthing with my hair!
I heard the suggestions for curlers and curling irons... but I know NOTHING about brands, sizes, how to put them in, how long to keep them in, what to put on them to get them to stay... I have had pin straight, fine, thin boring hair for FOREVER. THis is all new to me. The most I used to do was Aqua Net a teased up fence in the front of my hair ala 1980s hair bands! Oi!!!
Should I keep going with my Not Goth But Not Very Soft make up colors? I can post examples of what I usually do if you like... Should I try the more mainstream looks? Maybe go for more If I Had A Playboy's Make Up Artist kinda look?
Shoud I try new styles of clothing on stage? I can show you things I have and things that are similar....
Basically, I need help keeping me on track, motivated, and learning how to do these things. You all would be my heros!
Heh... now I heel kinda stupid but... oh hell. I'll post this!



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I believe you Dottie and you have my support 
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