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    alright i don't know what to do. My hubby is having family problems he always have but right now he is not talking to his dad becuse they had a fight over money and some other issues. His older very rude and nasty sister sent him a letter which she dose from time to time we call them nasty grams she was saying somethings in the letter that i agree with and have been trying to tell him but it was mixed with not so subtle jabs at me and him. My husband has never had a good relaship with her but i am sick of his familys shit makeing me feel tons of stress and i hate the stress it puts on my husband. He is going threw alot right now with money and work and dose not need this. Should i throw the letter out and say we never got it when if they mention it to him? I would like to write a letter to her and tell her about whats going on with husband and that we don't apprecaite her writeing but that won't do any good. help thanks.

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    Just ignore it. She's spewing her venom and you're willingly receiving it. If his family is causing this much drama and stress, just don't deal with them. I know it's easier said than done, but you have to take care of yourself and your family first. Let them have their issues and dramas to themselves.

    Sorry you're feeling so stressed out.

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    I agree with VG you just need to roll with the punches here . Time is the best healer in these situations not when you are all agravated. I didnt know people wrote letters still lol postcards perhaps .Deal with you own issues before you face the rest of the family drama . I think that not showing your husband a letter that was sent to him is maybe not a good idea - at least I wouldnt want it done to me .

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    i am going to give it to him i will just say nast gram from your sister came today do want to read it. most likely he will say no. we will probaby just ignore it.

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