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    i just had the worst night ever - not one dance. zero - zip - nada - NOTHING. started a little late but i was feeling good about going into work tonight. so i get myself a drink to cut back on the time it takes for me to actually start working. head to the dressing room - makeup, clothes, hair, smoke...on the floor. some guy is checking me out so i go over. chit chat, 'mind if i join you?' talk some more - ask him for $1 because the girl on main stage isn't being tipped and she's hot, it's slow and the song playing is 'love you long time' - extra benefit. he gets distracted - i politely and perkily (i hope that's a word) remind him...he is offended with my persistence...starts talking shit...okay - i just want to interject that i know the difference between playful and vindictive...about how i am so persistent and greedy for the $1 that i am about to give someone else. i am sitting there staring at him and i do what i figure might make him calm down, bat the eyelashes, smile, giggle and then apologize for my eagerness and telling him he was being rude (didn't i mention that?). he cops an attitude and i am stunned, but there are 2 other guys at the table. so i am still playful. then his friend tells me that's his way of flirting (single ladies, this man is for you!). so he dares me to say, 'i want a drink motherfucker.' so i do cuz at this point i don't care since he was being rude and 'but your friend said...'

    stupid jackass ruined my night. and i know i need to suck it up - take a deep breath and just let it go but i couldn't for the life of me get back into any positive mindset all night.

    dammit dammit dammit - people can be such jerks.

    anyways - just needed to exhale.

    thanks.




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    What a shitty way to start the night! I know how it is. The first part of the night can really set the tone for the rest of the evening, can't it? I've been able to shake it off on occasion, but it really is hard to shift gears after a rough beginning.
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    I hate when I get an asshole first thing in the night. It can completely fuck up my night, too. I'm getting better about it now though... I'll walk away from him and tell myself, "The night is young. Many more customers will walk through that door tonight, and they're ALL going to be better than him. There's nowhere to go but up." That helps.

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    Dont let one mofo fuck up your night. It sucks that it happened in the beginning but you gotta be tough. At least you know your asshole of the night was at the beginning and like Yek said theres more coming through the door. Good luck on another night. Chin up.
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    maybe you have a gf or somebody you can call for a pep talk when things like that happen?.... a 'lifeline' who can help get you back on track....

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    My way of dealing and getting over it is "showing him" that I'll find someone awesome and dump his ass. It's like the concept when someone tells you you can't do something you are then determined that you can and will do it. WHen someone's a jerk to me, I'm determined to find someone awesome and show him what an ass he is and that I could care less about him!

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