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    have a problem with this one DJ. He treats me like I'm a leppar. Half the time he won't play my requests, every time I get near him he acts like I've got cooties or something, but is super friendly to all the other girls. I've always tipped well, but started slipping him $5 or $10 everytime I have a request, since I noticed he didn't like me. (None of the other girls do this). Even that didn't help.

    Then he plays this really slow shit when I'm on stage. I admit it's sexy, but he does it all the time. Really I'd like him to try hanging upside down spinning around a pole to Enigma, or Rough Boy(ZZ Top), or Chris Issac. Once or twice a night is fine, but by 2am I can barely move when he does this, and this is not the kind of place where this music is an easy sell. I have to really work it to keep the guys attention, doing lots of slow grinding on the floor, or super hard pole work.
    When I ask him why he keeps playing this stuff he says because he wants to or he likes to watch me dance to it. WTF
    This guy is super arrogant and I would like to continue working there occasionally, so I am trying to not make to big a deal about it. However this stuff is hard to dance to and requires more floor work than faster stuff, my body is killing me.
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    Have him killed, posthaste.
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    Stop tipping him. If he says anything, tell him you will resume paying him when he resumes doing his job. Usually you catch more flies with honey than vinegar, but if he's not taking the honey, then drown his ass in vinegar!

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    Sounds like you've already done as much as you can do with him. Assuming there are other DJs there there that you can work with, is there any way you can just try to work on nights he's not working?
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    what an asshole.. i worked at a club like that.. i was always super friendly and always tipped him appropriately... i think girls were socking his cock.. haaa.... write out a detailed list of what songs you want him to play that night... mabye that will help some..

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    god sounds like the dj at my club. he hates me.

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    He could just mean it - he could just really think that you do better to the slower music. Next time he says that say "thank you, sweetie. But please, please, please, play my music next time?" The fact that he isn't drooling over you or anything could just be that - that he isn't drooling over you, or he could have the idea that you are a little standoffish, and not into it.

    And for god's sake, stop the over tipping. Particularly if he takes your money and then doesn't do what you were paying him for, but even so. There is a line between tipping and extortion and bribery; you don't need to grease up the DJ 10 times a night.
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    maybe you could say something like "I prefer dancing to songs that I know and enjoy, could you please play something off of this list?" and hand him a list of songs?

    and if he doesnt, stop tipping him altogether! who does he think he is taking yr money and not doing anything for it?

    ugh I cant deal with people like this, I would have told him off long ago.....

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    What I would do is I'd smile and tell him that you appreciate his input on music choice, however, you know what you feel most comfortable in and what works best for you. THen hand him a list of songs and say, play the songs that I pay you to play, but do it with a smile and say thanks!!!! I appreciate it!!!

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    that's quite weird to read a post like this bc.. HA! a DJ who just plays music would have shit with dancers???.. my freind actually experienced this at the club we work at.. and the saddest thing is.. he always talking crap about her infront of me for no reason at all..i mean for no reason.. i do not even undersand why he would be bothered by her and we're still pretty new at the club. hell..she even stopped tipping him because she felt it was not even worth it..

    when he calls her name onto the stage..he always gotta say.. yeah "the new chick is in the building..woo woo.. yay.. don't break ur neck girl" like he's making fun of her..

    supposedly he has issues with girls that play gangster/street/rap music...! eeh

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