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    Default Danced for first time, wasnt as scary as i thought.

    Hey girls i finally did it. I got booked to go dance at a club for 4 nights. It wasn't as bad as i thought it would be. Anyways i just have a few questions. My stage show isnt that bad for a newbie but ive found that my first show is always the best and that is usually near the beginning of the night when there are only a few custys there. I dont know why but when i go up for the second set i just dont do as well i dont know if it is because i am more tired or if its because im more nervous when there are alot of people there. i just cant seem to get into the grove of it for my second show. Any tips on how to keep your energy up for the second set? Also what do you do when youre talking to a guy and another girl is winking at him and making eyes. I found that it happened to me alot when i was talking or sitting with a customer it just seemed that the other girls were watching just waiting to pounce, one girl even came right over when i was talking this guy up and sat on the other side of him and started talking him up too. He was still trying to talk to me too but she kept flapping and of course just then the dj came over to tell me i was up next. I politely ewxcused myself and told him i would see him after my show, he said he was going to watch me but when i got out there i didnt spot him and when i got off stage he was nowhere to be found. Oh well i guess this is really a very competitive industry. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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    Blahhhh girls will attempt to do this. When i first started, this girl did that to me a few times and i was so new and nervous that i practically let her steal the guys from me. She would come and sit on the other side and start chatting him up. Finally i learned my potential! One night, She used her sammmme words" i am just bored and would like to relax a little." It was then that i gave my customer a playful squeeze on the arm and whispered to him to ask if he was ready for a hot dance in the back. He immediately got up, we walked hand-in-hand to the couch room, and the look on the other girls face was PRICELESS. She was so pissed.
    Now, if both you and the guy notice the other girl giving him google eyes, just say"wow that girl seems interested in you, i can see why,,,,would you like me to show you in the back?" Basically, try to say any lines you are comfortable with(all dancers have comfortable flirting styles that vary)...Basically,,,you need to close the deal and make a sale. It is important that you do this quick when you notice other chicks are trying for him to...but also in a sexy flirty way so the customer does not realize that you are just trying to rush him in the back for a quick sale. Also, make sure you are spending enough time with the customer to get to know him a little, but not too much time to the point where ya's are just chatting and not getting anywhere near a sale. Too much time on customers will backfire...just try to feel out the situation to see how you and the customer click.

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    Congrats.

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    Congradz and good luck!

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    Off to a great start.
    "Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins

    "I just can't get over how much babies cry. I really had no idea what I was getting into. To tell you the truth, I thought it would be more like getting a cat." -- Anne Lamott

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    Yay! Good job on getting yourself into the strange yet prosperous world of dancing. lol

    My advice about your 'stage fright' is to pick some really amazing songs that you love and just forget that there are people watching. Eventually you will start to 'feel' the music and get involved in what you are doing to a point where you kind of zone out and your body takes over. THEN you can start making eye contact and getting those big tips.
    I noticed that some really awful girls take advantage of newbies when they don't know any better. The advice that Silky gave is really good. You would think that guys would notice the 'evil' in these types of schemes but sometimes they enjoy being in the middle of a cat fight and buy dances from the girl who tries the hardest. It's stupid, really, but it does happen.
    Another thing you can do is once she sits down and starts pitching her sale to your custy, get closer to him physically. Put your hand on his leg, massage his hand, or drape your leg over his - make LOTS of eye contact and smile even though you might be pissed off. The closer you are to him, the harder it will be for him to detach himself to buy a dance from Ms. Bitch. Definitely try to close the sale as soon as you can and don't cave in to these girls and give up. Don't get discouraged and let them have their way or they will think they can keep doing it to you.
    And if all else fails, say something to her in the dressing room later on. Be cordial, but let her know that you are not stupid and you don't appreciate her trying to move in on your territory.

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    lol pm me.. tell me who it was and I can tell you the best way to approach her about it.

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