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    Default Thank you Strippers and SW for your therapy

    I was brought to SC's for much needed therapy after ending a long and incredibly abusive relationship. Without going into too much details about said relationship, it was both physically and emotionally abusive. The levels of emotional abuse were quite deep and left me quite paranoid about women in general.

    The need to thank the strippers who have helped me get through a host of issues has been building up for a while. I have come to realize that I no longer need SC's now so I would like to thank the pink side of StripperWeb as well as the Strippers who have brought me to where I am.


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    My early days of SC'ing involved being one of those customers who just sat there for an hour or so watching, occasionally tipping the stage and maybe getting a couple of dances. It took me a while before I allowed myself to discuss anything personal with the strippers who kindly shared some time with me.

    Through SW, I knew that I was a frustrating customer who many gals wanted to be nice to or sell dances to, but they couldn't figure me out. During this stage of my therapy, I was learning to be attracted to women again as well as to not be afraid of them.

    Thank you very much to all the pleasant gals who plopped down on my lap or in the chair next to me to talk for a song or two. I wish there was some way other than paying you for your time to thank you. I hope my respect and appreciation came out during our conversation and helped you get through your shift a bit happier.

    And thank you to StripperWeb for helping to realize where I was in my own personal therapy.

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    Looking back on my progression, I would call the next stage of my SC'ing my touch therapy and arousal stage. I began to accept one way contact dances from gals who established a good conversational rapport with me and thoroughly enjoyed the dances from these gals who were also able to establish a good physical rapport with me as well. You helped me start to see that there was some light somewhere in the fog of my fears.

    I still did not share any of my personal problems with you to not try to play on your sympathies. Thank you so much to those gals who are dedicated therapists who obviously knew why I was there but respected me enough not cross the line into my personal life. I could tell that a few of you were confounded by my ability to get multiple dances from you while being evasive to all your personal inquiries. To you, I wish there was some way beyond my tips to show my gratitude. I hope you took my general unresponsiveness and lack of advances as a sign of my highest respect for you.

    Thank you to StripperWeb for teaching me how to be respectful.

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    The next stage of my SC'ing I'll call my exploratory stage. Knowing that my first few dating experiences would be tortuous rebound experiences, I found myself purposely dating women who I absolutely knew were emotionally incompatible with me. I relied upon them for the source of touch therapy and to bring me back into to world of real sex.

    While dating, I brought myself to SC's for two reasons: 1) I was open with my dating partners about my SC trips to re-assert our understanding that our dating and sexual encounters would not last and 2) I allowed myself more needed therapy.

    I was married to an emotional terrorist who was also a bigot and a snob. She had trained me to avoid all contact with a long list of female types by being very vocal in her public humiliation of various stereotypes in my circle of friends.

    During my exploratory stage, I challenged myself to get dances from strippers I wouldn’t have been allowed to talk to during my marriage. I enjoyed randomly choosing strippers without reason to see if I was able to establish a connection with them. I’d always give them two dances to see if it was possible. With some dancers, I could tell they were just having a bad day or for whatever reason they may not have found me interesting at all. While I still kept my personal issues private, I started to come out of my shell. I really enjoyed the fun and funny conversations I had with the gals with whom an outside the club relationship would have been mutually comical. Of these gals, I know those who were also able to establish a physical rapport appreciated my obvious arousal and lack of advances as a sign of respect. You usually kissed me on the forehead before I paid and tipped you.

    Thank you to StripperWeb for letting me appreciate all the ways customers and strippers are able to enjoy each other’s company.
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    I haven’t figured out how to label my latest stage of my SC’ing so I’ll have to just describe it.

    I became completely comfortable with the club staff and enjoyed playing the role of good vibe customer who’s role it was to help get the club going in a positive note. I would find the dancer who just spent some time with a handsy or obnoxious customer and enjoyed acting as temporary therapist to lighten their mood by talking about happy non-personal things and politely getting a dance or two. I was the guy who during the dance was focused on trying to find a very unique way of complimenting you on your attitude and appearance.

    I could tell the veteran dancers appreciated this and took my comments in stride. Unfortunately I stumbled upon a few new dancers who I confounded and confused. They took my very personal compliments as advances and were either offended by them, or more often opened up to me about their personal lives and were hurt by my policy of politely and carefully answering any personal questions without sharing my reasons for being there. I paid you for your dances but didn’t tip you so as to not confuse you more.

    Thank you to StripperWeb for teaching me to be a good customer.

    Finally, I’ve found myself unable to avoid sharing my story with the veteran dancers who have gotten too curious and have found ways to politely confront me about my story. Thank you for not treating me as a customer, but as a friend. After giving me dances, you sat on my lap and didn’t accept my money until I answered all your questions and finally were able to get me to open up while sharing your story as well. I appreciate you knowingly foregoing future lap dances from me because you truly care. I wish there was some way of repaying you for your kindness.

    And thank you to StripperWeb for helping me through my therapy and extending the SC experience beyond my trips to the club.
    Last edited by azcustomer; 07-10-2006 at 12:45 PM.


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