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    Boring moves ?

    Hey guys !! Im pretty new to this board although i've been dancing for about 2 months now. I can do about 5 pole tricks which kick ass, thanks to my friend liana and another very nice dancer, but when im actually dancing, i feel so boring , like im doing the same things over and over. I dont know how it looks to other people, so i assume. Any advice on different things i can do to get someone's eye or just not look boring ? I know the typical arch your back (guys like that , it reminds them of a female enjoying "sex") make eye contact and all that jazz. Just curious to hear your opinions. Thanks a ton in advance.


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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    You've probably heard this dozens of times already, but when in doubt, SLOW DOWN. Make eye contact before you approach a guy and walk or crawl slowly to him. Make a big deal out of every motion. It doesn't have to be elaborate choreography with great variety if you break down each movement - even making that eye contact and THEN slowly letting a naughty looking smile spread over your face. Then circle your hips (or whatever). Then lean back. Then (slow-motion) spread your legs. Then bite your lip. And so on and so on. You get the idea.

    Think of taking at least one or two lines from each song to do even the non-dancy movements (smiles, lip-biting, running your hands through your hair, etc.) You can throw quick accents in here and there - especially on musical cues - but don't let it accelerate the overall pace of your movement. That way the accents catch their attention even more and keep you connected to the music. Even if you're a booty-shaker or quaker or whatev, this can still work (slow . . . slow . . . slow . . . SHAKE!SHAKE!SHAKE! slow . . . slow . . . ) in principle. Think above all that you are hypnotizing them.
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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    yea i feel the same way. my ass is tiny, so i had to learn all of these pole tricks, and to me, they get old after awhile. i know how to seduce, slow motions, etc...it's just frustrating. i like learning new shit. i need some videos probobly. =P

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    Get lost in the music, pretend your not on stage that your at home seducing the
    sexiest man you have ever wanted to get screwed by. Treat the pole as a silent
    dance partner, Learn non pole moves, check out the floor this can be very
    erotic. Remember that when you touch a specific part of your body
    (hip, boob, bum, hair, i'm not big on drawing attention to my coochie but it draws
    attention to that part of your body you touch. Watch the crowd, if all eyes are on
    you and the guys sitting around the stage can't seem to make a complete sentence
    and are trying to get talk to another dancer you know you're doing the job
    Play with the crowd, they love it when they get a little attention.
    When we don't have enough dancers it goes to 3 song stage sets and I feel
    your frustration with the what the fsck do I do next. I try to not use more than
    2 tricks in a set and save the super cool ones for when the club is hopping.
    Pose, I agree with the slowing down as mentioned above. I had a friend
    walk up to me the other day and joke with me while tipping me. Due to
    how slow i was moving she's like "You are a conceded bitch" we both
    laughed because I do show off on stage, it is one of the best places to
    promote yourself. Then again maybe I take my stage shows too seriously

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    Ive been dancing for a little less than 3 months. My pole tricks bite. I spend a lot of time wasting time. If your running out of other stuff to do, try doing it facing the other way, or on the other side of the pole.

    I like to play with my hair a lot. Sometimes in the middle of a stage set, ill kinda take a little rest against the pole, (looking really cute) then just start up with the music again.

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    i don't think that much is boring.. if you're a cute girl taking her clothes off.. guys arent going to get bored. but you could always ask the other girls to help you out.

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    Porno eyes and mouth - if u dont know what I mean watch one.

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    yeah looking at them with hungry eyes will make them curious about you.
    don't try too hard to be sexy though you might end up looking silly.
    laying on the floor lifting the small of your back up and pulling your hair back is also very sexy and eye catching. when i want to be funny and tacky lol when the crowd is really really boring i act like i'm jacking the heel of my shoe off. I have never gotten the wrong impression from that move it makes them laugh, and I have gotten tips from that one even when no one else is tipping!! it does look tacky i will admit that.

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    try coming up with new variations on old moves or different speeds, and yes "Lose yourself in the music the moment"

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Porno eyes and mouth - if u dont know what I mean watch one.
    Sorry, as a custy I have to veto this -- obviously "fake" anything (face porno eyes/mouth, and especially fake purring -- yech) is boring. Whatever your moves are, if they are you, and you really look like you are having fun and enjoying entertaining these men, they will not be boring.

    And for sheer entertainment, non-sexual really, nothing can beat great pole work.

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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    Jazz up what you have...change you leg positions on the pole, learn floor moves. For the most part, guys are not bored unless you are!

    Take a peek at my gallery, you might get some more ideas for pole moves!

    If you can't get them...I teach online!

    http://www.polejunkies.com/gallery.php
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    Default Re: Boring moves ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Sorry, as a custy I have to veto this -- obviously "fake" anything (face porno eyes/mouth, and especially fake purring -- yech) is boring. Whatever your moves are, if they are you, and you really look like you are having fun and enjoying entertaining these men, they will not be boring.

    And for sheer entertainment, non-sexual really, nothing can beat great pole work.
    Well it works well for me so whatever

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