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    At the end of April my wife and I decided she should go dance. She has expressed interest in it before and we needed $$$ fast. For few days she was kind of??? About it. After that for about a month she "loved it" making good $$$. Then one day she changed. Talking about how all men are pigs and stuff like that. How she hates her life. One Saturday a few weeks ago; after her attitude change a girls arm was broken by a customer. The same night my wife was pinned to the floor and bit on the neck. That night the main bouncer didnt show up, and all hell broke loose. I was PISSED off, shit I would have been there in a second to help.
    She is in a very deep depression, and won't talk to me about it. All she says is she wants out but she "can't". Why? All men are pigs I hate my life Any ideas as to what is going thru her head? Please help I WANT HER OUT OF THE CLUB!!! But she wont quit. i have only asked not demanded she quit

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    Default Re: help something is wrong with my wife!!!

    Your wife is pretty hardcore to put up with all that and not quit....perhaps she's a masochist?

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    no she's not...but i think shit like that is what is eating away at her...poor girl...i don't have a poblem with the job. i think it is cool, but when it effects her like this i am saddend by it. all was great when she liked it, we talked all the time the bam she shut down...

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    If I was a man and this was my wife her safety and mental health would overide everything. I suggest you go to the club when she is working. You will get to see what's going on. Yes, the club, and she won't like you there and if she is asked to leave take her to another club to check out. (she probably has had her confidence ruined too much too change clubs but you need to show support)
    I fully understand the "stuck" comment.This is a very hard industry to get out of once you are in it. The money can be good, even if it's not, a $50 at the end of 8 hours work is still $50 more than you had at the start. The other attractions of the job is no qualifications needed, the hours are flexible. When girls do try to get out they find when trying to get a new job you have the problem of either being honest about your previous job or spinning a tale about why you haven't had a recent job. Add to that the clientele at this club seem pretty shoddy and have probably destroyed your wifes self esteem. Encourage, no, make her leave and do some study or volunteer work that will give her skills and qualifications for a normal job. I think you will have to show some tough love and lots of support.

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    Thx I Own A Resturant So I Could Just Have Her Say She Was Working For Me During This Time. And Yes I Have Been To The Club And Some Shady People There. The Manager Is Cool But He Had Befiended Her And They Talk Alot On The Off Time. I Thougt About Going There Tonight To Just Tkae Her Out Of There. I Don't Wanna Get My Ass Wooped. A Girl Just Got Fired For Meth, So I Don't Know If The Club Is Clean Or Not...maybe The Girl Got Fired For Being To Open About It?

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    Tell her you hate worrying about her safety and she really needs a new club. Seriously the fact she stays at this club is sickening... even throw out a worse case scenerio.. tell her you dont want to recieve a phone call some night saying your wife was killed at work.

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    I agree she needs to get out of that place PRONTO. She is addicted to something (which may or may not be drugs) that makes her "need" to go back, even though she obviously hates it and it's causing her a lot of mental and emotional stress. IMO her well-being and safety need to take a front seat and you should do whatever it takes to get her the hell out of there. She may not appreciate it at first, but if she's got any sense, she will later. Hopefully she hasn't gotten herself hooked on some drug - that is a possibility considering her recent sudden change in behaviour and mood, and what you say about the place. The sad fact is, strip clubs, like any other nightclub, have a lot of drugs moving in and out and it's EXTREMELY easy for someone to get caught up in it.

    I wish you and her well. I hope you can get her out of there and help her back to normal on the double.


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    I think its the 'this is the first club i've danced at' syndrom. I had a hard time leaving my first club even though it was a whore house and crazy customers... something about it makes you feel like you cant leave sometimes. Its like a safety net for her...

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    I had a hard time leaving my first club too. It wasn't dangerous there, but it was a shithole with prostitution going on *sighs* why not take her to visit some other clubs on her nights off. If she likes dancing enough she might want to get up on stage. get her talking to girls from a differet club, get her out of that place, and have her take a self defence class

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    Wow, what a scary sounding situation. I've never worked in a club that was that bad, but I'm sure the exisit somewhere.

    She may not be on drugs, it could just be the alcohol. In any case she is exhibiting self destructive behavior. She needs to go to a dr. to determine if she is chemically imbalanced.

    Only you can get her the help she needs. She is not likely to seek it herself.


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