Can some one tell me who is in the right?
I was on table tonight when my friend came up to me and said she was going so I said bye and gave her a kiss on the cheak and there were 2 young customers (about 22 - 25) and they interupted (rudely) and said where is mine, and she laughingly said (as a joke) "you can kiss my and slaps herself on the bum" all said politely of course.... the customer takes it the wrong way and says "shut the fuck up you rude bitch" I said excuse you, your in our club be nice, he replied "Shut the fuck up you ugly slut" and I was gob smacked - I have never been talked down to in the club before in my life.... any way I said politely "can you please go sit over there, I do not want you sitting at my table" the guy said no, ignored me, mumbled more rude things under his breath.
I call security, he came over and said to the guy that he needed to move, but also called the dance manager down, then the customer said to the dance manager "She called me a wog" (she being me of course - and I honestly did not) so the manager says get off the table and as punishment I would do a 2:00 am table - knowing the club shuts at 1:45 - 2:00 (every one is out, lights are on) so I said what ever, then she pulls me aside (well still in front of the customer and says don't be racist, which I protest I am definitely not - well being one of the most friendliest girls at the club in regards to bubbly personality etc) any way she walked me to the dancers only area and said your so rude, your so racists etc...
At that point I cracked it, I said to her "Fuck You seriously I work here 5 nights a week normally (after 6 month holiday - been back for 1 week so feeling fresh) and I have never had a customer complain about me, I every night pay my house fee and I am by far racist so what is your problem?" She said you called that guy a wog" I said "I did not call him a wog, he is upset I asked him to leave so seriously if you are going to take his side, your not a good dance manager"
She said "I have danced for 8 years"
I said "Well you should know that it is not an easy job at the best of times when customers are verbally abusing you"
She said "You called him a wog"
I said "Look for fuck sake I did not call him a wog, if you are going to take his side, then you can stick your dancing job, I will not work for a club where the customers word is believed before mine - Fuck You"
She said "The customer said you called him a wog"
I said "Obviously the customer is more important then me, so shows you how good 'club name' treats their girls, even the dance manager sticks up for the customers, that is not part of being a dance manager"
I walk up stairs and go home, she says nothing
I know that the dance manager (big manager) will call tomorrow, what should I do? apologise for my behaviour (of sticking up for myself) or do I tell her that the dance manager did not believe my word over the customers and that I feel I was verbally abused at work by a customer and that I feel that the manager did nothing to assist in calmly sorting things out?
All I asked the customer politely was for him to move after he called me an "ugly slut"???
Sorry for the long post, but I am really confused and I am unsure of what I should do? I am seriously considering getting a job at the competition club!!
PM me if any aussie girls would like the name of the club....
Thanks



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