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    Im looking for some new tips - Im not all that experienced in giving hand jobs and my new boyfriend is really into foreplay Ive heard that lots of lube is a good thing but what is the best way to give him a hand job that will blow his mind and make his toes curl?

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    Learn the parts he's sensitive the most at. Steer clear of those areas and brush them from time to time but not methodically, gauge his reactions, just as he starts to show enjoyment, stop... then repeat have fun with it. Hand jobs are too mechanical to be really in the spur of the moment, so make sure you are careful to not break the ambiance.

    Hope it helps!

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    I've found that every guy likes something different. My current beau likes me to stroke just the head. He also seems to like the suction that a lot of lube seems to help create.
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    It's all about the presentation. A hand job doesn't just require your hand.

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    I am a personal fan of the Shower Handjob. When you're taking a bath or shower together, take conditioner (not soap; it will irritate his skin) and put a big glop in your hand when he's not looking. Kiss him deeply and start stroking him with the conditioner hand, twisting your hand around to get him all lubed up. Go from there.

    You could use lube if you'd rather, but if you're working on the spur of the moment, conditioner is good. Baby oil is great for this too - I always have baby oil in my shower anyway, so if you do too, use that. But if you use baby oil, make sure you wash it all off before having intercourse, as oil will mess up your vagina.

    I like to get him nice and turned on by the lubed shower handjob, then kneel and introduce my lubed-up breasts into the mix, rubbing all over him and "fucking" him with his cock in my cleavage. Then you can move up to oral for the grand finale!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I am a personal fan of the Shower Handjob. When you're taking a bath or shower together, take conditioner (not soap; it will irritate his skin) and put a big glop in your hand when he's not looking. Kiss him deeply and start stroking him with the conditioner hand, twisting your hand around to get him all lubed up. Go from there.

    You could use lube if you'd rather, but if you're working on the spur of the moment, conditioner is good. Baby oil is great for this too - I always have baby oil in my shower anyway, so if you do too, use that. But if you use baby oil, make sure you wash it all off before having intercourse, as oil will mess up your vagina.

    I like to get him nice and turned on by the lubed shower handjob, then kneel and introduce my lubed-up breasts into the mix, rubbing all over him and "fucking" him with his cock in my cleavage. Then you can move up to oral for the grand finale!
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    Holy shit that would only be a start to a sexual evening you only had control in starting.

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    Gee, I don't know what to say except thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I am a personal fan of the Shower Handjob. When you're taking a bath or shower together, take conditioner (not soap; it will irritate his skin) and put a big glop in your hand when he's not looking. Kiss him deeply and start stroking him with the conditioner hand, twisting your hand around to get him all lubed up. Go from there.

    You could use lube if you'd rather, but if you're working on the spur of the moment, conditioner is good. Baby oil is great for this too - I always have baby oil in my shower anyway, so if you do too, use that. But if you use baby oil, make sure you wash it all off before having intercourse, as oil will mess up your vagina.

    I like to get him nice and turned on by the lubed shower handjob, then kneel and introduce my lubed-up breasts into the mix, rubbing all over him and "fucking" him with his cock in my cleavage. Then you can move up to oral for the grand finale!
    Holy shit I bet that would work!

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    Lube you can never have enough lube in life.

    Also massage his balls, or put a vibrator up his butt while while giving him a hand job
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    If you do the shower thing, it's fun to let him rub the conditioner all over your tits and lube them all up while you're stroking him. That way you're all nicely lubed when you take things further. Also, if you're debating which shower product to use, it has been my experience that conditioner is the smoothest and washes off easily. Baby oil feels good, but is much harder to rinse off. Soap or bath gel will feel really great at the time, but will leave him with dry, scaly skin for several days after. Conditioner not only feels good, it also moisturizes!

    Anyway, the idea is to keep it from just being a mechanical jerk. He can do that himself. Bring your whole body to the party and let him play too, and you can't go wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    If you do the shower thing, it's fun to let him rub the conditioner all over your tits and lube them all up while you're stroking him. That way you're all nicely lubed when you take things further. Also, if you're debating which shower product to use, it has been my experience that conditioner is the smoothest and washes off easily. Baby oil feels good, but is much harder to rinse off. Soap or bath gel will feel really great at the time, but will leave him with dry, scaly skin for several days after. Conditioner not only feels good, it also moisturizes!

    Anyway, the idea is to keep it from just being a mechanical jerk. He can do that himself. Bring your whole body to the party and let him play too, and you can't go wrong.
    You really are a goddess those are amazing ideas thank you.

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    Anytime. As long as SOMEONE's getting laid, I suppose I'm happy. Five more days, five more days...

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    In 5 days Im sure that someone will be very happy!

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    Yek, I've always had shower fantasies, you just sent me into overdrive! I have never ever convinced the SO to get it on in there. Well at least in a good way. She just does not get it! Grrr argh, raraw! I start, then she wants missionary on the floor…. Grrr, no longer worth it for me to even try that one.

    If you can do the shower, anything in the shower is worth it! Please don’t get me started on all the fun that can be had in a shower! A breast job is a wonderful gift if you have enough to do it.

    I think you could just take Yekhefah’s advice and do very well!

    This is from my experience with my S.O. so here it goes.

    Use lube, of some kind even if you have to spit in your hand.

    A dick is not a meat puppet, treat it nicely, don’t give me friction burns, and don’t jerk it off. That is don’t try and rip it off. Even I don’t play that rough with it. I want to be able to piss normally when you’re done.

    Squeezing it like a tube of toothpaste does not work either.

    Using your fingers would be nice, that is twisting them around it, lightly. Fell the whole shaft please, not just the tip. You can use two hands if you like. Don’t do it super fast, take your time, slow wins the arousal race.

    Do not shove a vibe up his ass. I think I’d file for divorce immediately if the S.O. ever tried that on me. Another less experienced partner would be lucky to leave with a dirty look. There are other issues than homophobia, and many men will not discuss it.

    Often a man is so happy to have some sexual service they will not tell you what you are doing wrong, because they don’t want to ruin the service, and never have it again. So keep a look out for his reactions.

    Some balls are very sensitive, and some guys don’t want to be touched there, or on some parts. Ask or gauge the reaction.

    Letting him touch or kiss parts of you would also be wonderful.

    I think you can sum this up with just know your man, follow Yek’s advice and that sexual discovery requires communication.
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    Here's another good one, if you have the coordination. Every time I have ever done it on a guy, he comes in about two minutes the first time. I have been with my guy for a year and a half, and he STILL pops in about three minutes if I do this intensely.

    Have him lay on his back, with his legs spread a little. Either kneel between them, or sit on your butt and put your legs on the outside of his body.

    Now it's time for Mr. Lube, your new best friend, and his new mistress. Get plenty. Put it between your palms, and rub your hands together gently (gets it warm for him). Lightly rub it up and down his shaft, so he's nice and slick.

    Here comes the part that sounds tricky, but trust me, you'll get the hang of it. Put your weak hand (for most, that's the left) on the bottom, wrapped around him. Put the strong hand on top (probably your right) wrapped around him directly above. If he's small, and it's more like a hand on the bottom and half a hand on top, don't worry, it doesn't matter.

    Now, you're going to start working your hands. Basically what your are doing is rotating back and forth, in opposite directions, as you go up and down. Bottom hand stays firmly wrapped around him, and you twist right, as your hands go up. Simultaneously, top hand goes left, hands going up. On the way back down, do it oppositely. You'll get the hang of it. It blows a man's mind, gauranteed, every time.

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    i think the best way to learn how to give handjobs is to watch guys masturbate. if you can get him to do it in front of you, maybe while you do yourself in foreplay you can get a feel for how he likes to be touched. then you can add some things to it from all of your aquired advice.


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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryripeboy
    Do not shove a vibe up his ass. I think I’d file for divorce immediately if the S.O. ever tried that on me. Another less experienced partner would be lucky to leave with a dirty look. There are other issues than homophobia, and many men will not discuss it.
    many men will also not discuss their desire FOR some kind of anal play because they are too embarassed. i don't think anyone should "shove a vibe" in their partners ass without knowing they want it there. however, i think you'd be suprized how many men like it. it's just not something a lot of guys bring up "at the water cooler at work".

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    I keep having to print out this thread.
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    Don't always concentrate on his cock. His balls are there, and definitely need some love. Fondle them gently with your fingers, cup them in your other hand, kiss them, lick them, even suck on them a little. I always enjoy watching the scrotal sack expand and contract as you play with it.

    Many guys are not averse to you playing with the taint at all ('t ain't the balls, 't ain't the anus), and if they really like some stroking on the section of skin, chances are good that they'd be up for a little anal play. Just like it generally takes most women some work to warm up to a good ass-fucking, boys' bums require a lot of play before you can even think of putting anything up there. Some light stroking with a lubed finger is a good place to start, especially if you keep it in rhythm with what your othr hand is doing; if you're really dextrous, you can pet his asshole with one finger while you cup his balls with the rest of that hand and strock his cock with your other hand. If he really likes it, you can use a vibrator to play with the outside of his ass, his balls (gently!) and his cock. You need to start really small if he wants any penetration, just a fingertip (cut your nails first), and don't try sticking a vibrator up there at all if it doesn't have a flared base, for safety's sake. And if your guy says he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. My boyfriend is a bit of a butt-pirate and enjoys having the attention returned, but this sort of attention may send some guys running from the room shrieking in terror.


    I definitely need to test drive some of the other advice in this thread. Rowr!
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    And Now.... I can't wait until he gets home from work!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChloeTheRed
    Many guys are not averse to you playing with the taint at all ('t ain't the balls, 't ain't the anus), and if they really like some stroking on the section of skin, chances are good that they'd be up for a little anal play. Just like it generally takes most women some work to warm up to a good ass-fucking, boys' bums require a lot of play before you can even think of putting anything up there. Some light stroking with a lubed finger is a good place to start, especially if you keep it in rhythm with what your othr hand is doing; if you're really dextrous, you can pet his asshole with one finger while you cup his balls with the rest of that hand and strock his cock with your other hand. If he really likes it, you can use a vibrator to play with the outside of his ass, his balls (gently!) and his cock. You need to start really small if he wants any penetration, just a fingertip (cut your nails first), and don't try sticking a vibrator up there at all if it doesn't have a flared base, for safety's sake.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    I keep having to print out this thread.
    lol. yeah, any new talk of taint usually requires a re-print.

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    Seriously, Penny, I'm totally looking at this as contestants, and I'm like the Simon on the judge's panel...

    Yek is totally making it to round two... but she's going to have to up the ante if she's going to beat chloe in the next round of StripperWeb Hand Job Idle.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexystephani
    Im looking for some new tips - Im not all that experienced in giving hand jobs and my new boyfriend is really into foreplay Ive heard that lots of lube is a good thing but what is the best way to give him a hand job that will blow his mind and make his toes curl?
    Never never never use a cheese grater while doing a hand job.

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    Prester_John -stop reading Mission Earth, that series is way too screwed up. Using a cheese grater on a man's private parts actually happens to the main character. Not sure how he survived, and it is not like I'm going to go an re-read that crud.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryripeboy
    Prester_John -stop reading Mission Earth, that series is way too screwed up. Using a chees grater on a man's private parts actually happens to the main character. Not sure how he survived, and it is not like I'm going to go an reread that crud.
    You shouldnt read anything by L. Ron Hubbard anyway

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