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    Friday was supposed to be my first night of work besides my audition night. I was ready to go, then when my husband got home we got into an argument. It wasn't over dancing or anything. I was just being too moody and upset him. Then I didn't physically feel well. I had diarehha and had had it all day. I wasn't sure if it wasn't just my nerves. Then I got ready and headed towards the club and I was so sick to my stomach. I couldn't even eat my dinner on the way. When we got there, (he was just dropping me off this time) I didn't even want to go in. I was so nervous. It was the combination of having just been so emotional, being sick and being nervous all at the same time. But after about an hour I summoned to courage up to go in. To make a long story short, I got in there, changed and walked out, there were only 4 custy's there to like 25 or so girls. All the girls were just standing around, some were being nice, some weren't. There was no way to get away from all of them, no custy's to talk to and I knew my husband was only going to be outside for another 1/2 hour. I had no way to get a hold of him after he left. There was a girl in the locker room laying on the floor crying and freaking out. It was kind of disturbing to watch. And I didn't know if I could take being there all night. I was afraid if I couldn't take it I would be alone and stranded. So I got my clothes on and walked out. The dj and bouncer wanted me to stay but I just felt like I couldn't handle it, they told me I had done a really good job. I really didn't feel like I was in the right frame of mind, I physically felt bad too. I just didn't feel like myself. I wish I would have just stayed. Actually I should just have never went in. I knew I didn't feel right. It wasn't like I was on the schedule or anything. I could've made an excuse.

    I really liked that club. There were a lot of nice girls there. Should I try to go back and face the embarrasment of walking out or should I just try another club and start fresh? Do you think the club and girls would understand and give me another chance. They all knew it was only my 2nd time ever dancing?

    Thanks for any opinions.

    Amanda

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    Unless you made a scene about it, leaving is no big deal. It happens all the time, girls need to pick up their sick kids, a shoe broke, period started and you only had 1 G with you....besides if they already had 25 girls and a dead crowd...really no big deal.

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    I didn't make a scene at all. I just changed and left. Very few people even saw me leave. I made sure the DJ knew I was leaving so he could take my name off te board. But I wasn't upset or rude. But I couldn't find the manager to tell him I was leaving. And I didn't want to make a scene and have everyone asking me what was going on so I just made a small quiet exit.

    Thanks for the advice!
    Amanda

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    Cool. Then by all means, when you're ready to give it another shot, head back to that same club. Maybe this time you will feel more familiar with everything and won't get so nervous. Good luck!

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    Great Thanks! That makes me feel better. I think I'm going to wait a week or so. I've come down with a nasty cold and I feel like crap!

    Do you think I should call ahead or just go on in?

    Amanda

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    i was scheduled to go in for my new job this past weekend and i didnt because other things came up that were more important.. i remember when i auditioned, the manager made it seem like if i didnt work the weekend of my first day, then i dont get the job at all..

    well i didnt trip or anything bc its not like i dedicated my life to them u know, there is plenty of otha places.but i had some important things to do.. anyhow i called the club and told another manager that i was unable to show up and he was pretty cool with it..he just told me to go back this weekend..

    With any job i have.. i always like to make a good impression for the managers..so i would call in to confirm just in case.. but thats just me.. either or is cool actually.. some managers probably wouldnt mind someone talkin to them in person than over the phone.. but it just calm my nerves down more when im on the phone LOL.

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    Thanks I will probably call him tonight. Thanks for the advice!

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    You are fine sweety. I have done it many times.... and not always in the best moods or a professional manner.... i.e. muttering bullshit under my breath, freaking out with pms ( note PMS makes me...insane... I can't help it.)


    You will be fine. They will welcome you back.

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    I walked out on my first night of dancing but didn't go back to that club. I realized that club wasn't for me. I tried another one closer to home and now I just love it! Give it another shot.

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    Well I called the club last night and the manager wasn't there. So I guess I'm just going to go in tonight, if he says no, I'll just go audition at another club. I have 2 others in mind that I like too.

    So wish me luck!!!

    Amanda

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    Good Luck sweety!!!!

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    Good luck again & have fun!

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