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    When I started back at an old club I minded my own buisness, was friendly with the girls but didnt get into the bullshit. After being there for awhile now I am being sucked into one girls drama.

    It all started when I went to work last week. This girl who usually gets a ride from me (its an hour and a half) got there and a guy drove her out. Anyways, she asked me if I was going home and I told her no.

    I had another girl with me and we were the last girls to leave the club after it closed, no big deal right?

    Oh no, the next day her EX boyfriend comes in and I see him so I go up and say hi (I dont sit, just go to the table and say hi) he asks whats up with me and this girl I say nothing I havent seen her since last night she left before me.

    He tips me on stage, total about 30 bucks. I get a text from the girl and it goes like this.

    Her-- your dirty to be acting like that, your not my friend.
    Me-- What the fuck are you talking about, cause I said hi to your man?
    Her-- He is your man, and you left me last night. Have him
    Me- I dont want him, Logan is here, what the fuck do you think I am doing and you left before I was even dressed last night.
    Her-- No I was still there ask "so-n-so"
    Me-- Well I didnt see you and we left, either way I am not dealing with this bullshit.
    Her- Fine end of conversation.

    I havent seen or talked to her since, her EX text me the next night and asked if I wanted to go to breakfast after work, I responded with NO!

    I just got off the phone with another girl who he tipped and talked to that night and apparently the EX is pissed at us both and tried starting drama with the other dancer on Saturday, saying it is pay back night and retribution(sp?) day. Because that is HER money and we STOLE it!! WTF!!?

    How in the world do I deal with this..

    A little history on the girl, has been fired several times for violence and once for breaking a mirror and attempting to cut someone with the glass.

    She is a good girl when she wants to be, but she just has some issues.

    I am leaving to go to work and really dont want to have to deal with this shit.

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    Default Re: Drama with another dancer...

    I would try to act like nothing happened. Maybe she was f$cked up when she texted you and maybe doesn't remember. If it goes that way, I would keep a friendly distance. This girl sounds like she's got some major behavior/mood swing problems, like bipolar or manic or a big drug/alcohol problem. If she does start up something, be really nice about it, just say you honestly did not know that she was still there and that you'd as always be happy to give her a ride. Tell her you would've come back to the club after you left if she would've called you. Tell her you're not interested in her man that you have your own (even if you don't). Just say this was all just a misunderstanding. If she still keeps at it, acting like a psycho, just walk away from her and don't give her anymore rides to and from work and stay as far away from her as possible.

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    Default Re: Drama with another dancer...

    ^^good advice.

    Cut off all relationship with both the dancer and her ex. $30 isn't worth the trouble. If he tips you again on stage, just hand him the money back and say something like "I think you forgot this." And walk away.


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    I think it's hilarious that her loser boyfriend is in their tipping dancers. That really says something about their relationship!
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