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    How do you know and do you trust that feeling? Is it wierd to "just know " ???????????

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    I think that's the only way to know. You just know.

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    When just being with that person is more important than what what you do together, then your almost close.



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    You quit boinking--even wanting to boink--other people.

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    ^^^ Not necessarily true.

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    Boinking!? Haven't heard that in a while...but when I am really in love,the thought of another man touching me makes me sick....FUCK. I might be in love!

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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ
    Boinking!? Haven't heard that in a while...but when I am really in love,the thought of another man touching me makes me sick....FUCK. I might be in love!

    Im the same way twister, I think I have only really been in love 3 or 4 times in my life. But each of those times, the thought of someone else touching me, etc. just was not appealing. You sound perplexed though??? Is this something you are not sure of? A new guy maybe? I have always believed, when you know, you know. For me, it doesnt even come down to the sex (which better be good! ) but more that I am with someone that is caring and loving. We can all hope right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ
    Boinking!? Haven't heard that in a while...but when I am really in love,the thought of another man touching me makes me sick....FUCK. I might be in love!
    For me personally, that's how I know too.

    Other than that, enjoying each other's company...whether you two are in a box, it wouldn't matter bc you two are together.

    You see a future with that person. That person is not only your lover, but your best friend too.

    Also, trust and respect.

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    The fact that everytime he comes home I feel like my life is complete. And that seeing his face automatically brightens me day, and all he has to do is touch me and I still get goosebumps from when we first met

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    Everytime I think of him my heart skips a beat... everytime I see him I just want to jump him... everytime he touches me I melt inside... and I just cant stop thinking about him... thats how I knew I was in love.

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    well i am very deeply in love with my bf of 3 years, and i still want to fuck other people. i would just never do it because it's completely not worth it. i can't even imagine not -wanting- to have sex with someone i find sexually attractive. i think it's very normal to still want other people sexually when you are totally in love. i've been in other serious relationships, but this is the first time i've ever felt like i wouldnt be able to move on if we broke up. that's how i know this is different. i mean, i'm a realist, so i know i'd live and i'd go on with my life. i just can't imagine myself being able to be this close to anyone again. i never have been before and i think i would be so jaded if i lost this.. that i wouldnt be able to try again. also, i think there's all kinds of love and all kinds of things that arent love like lust and infatuation. i personally do NOT believe in love at first site. i think you can have a feeling or know there is potential, but i don't think you can be in love with someone untill you truly know them.. and that takes time. i know i'm truly in love with my boyfriend because i'm still lust for him sexually, our sex life has only gotten better, even when we arent having sex i'm totally content with us, i still "miss" him when i'm gone all day, and i never get tired of talking with him.

    jesus.. *knocks on wood* lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexis123
    Im the same way twister, I think I have only really been in love 3 or 4 times in my life. But each of those times, the thought of someone else touching me, etc. just was not appealing. You sound perplexed though??? Is this something you are not sure of? A new guy maybe? I have always believed, when you know, you know. For me, it doesnt even come down to the sex (which better be good! ) but more that I am with someone that is caring and loving. We can all hope right?
    Muah. Lexi
    Yes it's a brand new guy and he gives me the warm fuzzies and I can't stop thinking about him and we haven't even had sex yet ! After I saw him yesterday, it was hard to do my job because I just didn't want any other men touching me or looking at me...and I just don't get like this. These types of feelings scare me because they always get me into trouble.....The last relationship I had was a disaster and I had sworn off relationships all together. I almost am thinking OMG I have feelings....RUN!!!!

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    And maybe love is too strong a word but FUCK ....This one just hit me like a ton of bricks out of nowhere and I just wasn't expecting it!

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    She seems less crazy.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ
    Yes it's a brand new guy and he gives me the warm fuzzies
    ah, the warm fuzzies! those were the days. Take it in stride, for me, it seems lately that I just keep falling for the wrong guy! I have learned to take things slowly and not get myself to high, the higher you go, the more it is going to hurt if you fall. That is my motto anyway. Be cautious, guys are pigs, but if you have those feelings yay for you! If you like him, you like him, you seem troubled by it? How did you meet him? hes not a custy is he???? that is never a recipe for a good thing. I have learned from experience! what do you friends say? they are always a good opinion. At least mine are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    well i am very deeply in love with my bf of 3 years, and i still want to fuck other people. i would just never do it because it's completely not worth it. i can't even imagine not -wanting- to have sex with someone i find sexually attractive. i think it's very normal to still want other people sexually when you are totally in love. i've been in other serious relationships, but this is the first time i've ever felt like i wouldnt be able to move on if we broke up. that's how i know this is different. i mean, i'm a realist, so i know i'd live and i'd go on with my life. i just can't imagine myself being able to be this close to anyone again. i never have been before and i think i would be so jaded if i lost this.. that i wouldnt be able to try again. also, i think there's all kinds of love and all kinds of things that arent love like lust and infatuation. i personally do NOT believe in love at first site. i think you can have a feeling or know there is potential, but i don't think you can be in love with someone untill you truly know them.. and that takes time. i know i'm truly in love with my boyfriend because i'm still lust for him sexually, our sex life has only gotten better, even when we arent having sex i'm totally content with us, i still "miss" him when i'm gone all day, and i never get tired of talking with him.

    jesus.. *knocks on wood* lol


    I am right with you... I think finding someone attractive and thinking about having them, or being happy that you could is alright. Crossing that line and betraying the trust and love....of the one you are with... NOT alright!

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    i know i'm truly in love with my boyfriend because i'm still lust for him sexually, our sex life has only gotten better, even when we arent having sex i'm totally content with us, i still "miss" him when i'm gone all day, and i never get tired of talking with him.
    awww, that is so awesome! The only person I've felt like that about he dumped me after 3 months. But I love hearing about people who have been happy for a while because it gives me hope.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    She seems less crazy.
    Am I missing something here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexis123
    ah, the warm fuzzies! those were the days. Take it in stride, for me, it seems lately that I just keep falling for the wrong guy! I have learned to take things slowly and not get myself to high, the higher you go, the more it is going to hurt if you fall. That is my motto anyway. Be cautious, guys are pigs, but if you have those feelings yay for you! If you like him, you like him, you seem troubled by it? How did you meet him? hes not a custy is he???? that is never a recipe for a good thing. I have learned from experience! what do you friends say? they are always a good opinion. At least mine are.
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    No he is not a customer. We met through a mutual friend. And I know guys are pigs and this one in particular is a catch so I guess that makes me a little nervous. He's the type that girls throw themselves at...I almost don't want to like him but the chemistry is undeniable.

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    well, all i can say, is be careful. You only have to worry about you. My rules are simple, NO customers and NO athletes..ive dated both and it is just not a good idea. But to each their own, everyone is different. my situation is crazy right now because i have a good customer who has turned into a friend and it is driving me nuts. You can read about it in "friends with a custy" i wont bore you with it here. I guess for me, I kind of think of my friend as someone I could be with because he is good looking but not as good looking as me (god that sounds so vain). But it just seems with the type of "guy" that has women throwing themselves at him is a recipe for a broken heart. It may not be, but it would be a rare occurence! Good Luck.
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    When she gives me 2-4-1s at the tip rail, I know it's true love. Ah, sweet romance...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I think that's the only way to know. You just know.
    I agree its not just something you can describe or at least I cant in so many words .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexis123
    well, all i can say, is be careful. You only have to worry about you. My rules are simple, NO customers and NO athletes..ive dated both and it is just not a good idea. But to each their own, everyone is different. my situation is crazy right now because i have a good customer who has turned into a friend and it is driving me nuts. You can read about it in "friends with a custy" i wont bore you with it here. I guess for me, I kind of think of my friend as someone I could be with because he is good looking but not as good looking as me (god that sounds so vain). But it just seems with the type of "guy" that has women throwing themselves at him is a recipe for a broken heart. It may not be, but it would be a rare occurence! Good Luck.
    Lexi
    Could be but he seems really down to earth. Still I am proceeding with caution....in fact,maybe I will just delete him from my phone....kidding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    When just being with that person is more important than what what you do together, then your almost close.
    Thats pretty close I love that being in love feeling Im in it now with the most incredable man

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    When just being with that person is more important than what what you do together, then your almost close.
    I know just what you're talking about....

    But in a way, you never 'know' you are in love... you feel it.... no it's not infatuation but I don't know if it would be easy to be in love with someone you were never infatuated with... no it's not lust but again, love without any lust? difficult.... when I'm in love it suffuses my whole existance, so that anything good or beautiful reminds me my loved one... I see a beautiful sunset, or a child laughing, and I think of her...

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