I don't know if I am posting it the correct post, but here it is anyway and I really need advice. I started dancing behind my boyfriends back. I want to dance to make extra money so we can move and so I can pay off my car and actually have a savings account. Plus for some reason it boosts my self esteem, I love all the attention and socialization and hustling. I need to get it out of my system before I am too old and out of shape to climb the pole. Anyway, I did come clean, because he totally flipped and thought I was cheating. after a day of taunting me he said I can do it, he was just pissed I didn't consult him first. I know If I do, I will cause problems. I have married guy friends at work who go to the strip clubs three times a week. I wouldn't feel so well if that were my man, I would think something was wrong with me. I have no intention of cheating or messing up on my boyfriend I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just have no direction in life and this what I really want to do. Should I risk my relationship to dance or should I try again to dance behind his back, because now he'll be more suspicious??![]()



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