Okay I think it is time we talk openly as strippers about what it means to be a dancer and what are responitly is as far as how are actions set the tone for how we are treated by the custmer and how dose how the other girls actions in the club effect our treament as well as mangements responiablity for setting tone in the club. I just moved to a new area from ga to ky and i noticed that the clubs here are not what i am used to my eyes have been opened to a whole new outlook on things. This got me to thinking what dose it mean to be a stripper are we enteriners to provide a fanstasy or is the club a place to for a custmer to get more then a show or to solictie prostition. I know what stripping is supposed to be have been in the clubs that run beutifuly it was not till recently i have seen the other side of the game. I have noticed the debate on stripper web about nasty girls and up until recently did not relize it was this large of a problem. I am suggesting we talk on here about what is okay where do we draw the line at making a dollar. Do we as dancers set the tone for how get treated in vip i mean if you let a guy put a dollar down the front of you thong and then get pissed he trys to grop you in vip do you share in some of the responsiabily for that becuse of the way you carry yourself? dose the mangement share in the respoiablity in how there dancers are seen by custermers and what there custys expect when the come to there club? What part dose the custmer play in all this what makes a custy think its okay to suggest to a dancer that they play hide the weeni in the vip room somewhere he got the idea that was okay to suggest?
I am not putting any judgements in my post i simply belive we should talk about these issues becuse right now i am at a loss for words at the club enviroments i have recently been in all insight is welcome.



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20 bucks! Jesus Christ. And of course all the guys who see her do that stuff are dissappointed with any lap dance we give because we're not masturbating for them! Ok, done venting lol
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Uggh! What Susie doesn't realize is if we all drew a line..some contact okay, but no freaking "extras"...the guys would stop expecting that. (sure they will still ask, but if we all said "eww gross, I'm not a whore") They'd get the point that those things are truly unacceptable in a strip club, and settle down a bit. They'd still come in and spend their money...but keep it on an entertainment level!!
I wish it were different but sadly I'm just along for the ride. I still appreciate the great income and freedom this job gives...

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