[QUOTE=TigersMilkGuys will never stop asking for sex. Ever. Being asked for sex on a nightly basis is just part of the casualties of the job. However, it is not part of the job to give into the sexual requests.[/QUOTE]
Exactly.
[QUOTE=TigersMilkGuys will never stop asking for sex. Ever. Being asked for sex on a nightly basis is just part of the casualties of the job. However, it is not part of the job to give into the sexual requests.[/QUOTE]
Exactly.



I don't think You'r bitchy at all. You seem really nice!Originally Posted by metal_n_mitsu



Originally Posted by Miss. Kristina Lee
I agree 100%

Well, honestly, I don't know if it was right but he was stupid and rude enough to give her the money.
I figure if you're that dumb, you probably don't deserve your money.
Formerly Known as "MulattoKitten".



I think the only problem I have is that if by some chance this guy was a cop, you could have been in jail, and that would suck.
If it was me, I would have said, "Well, give me 350, and I'll see if I can make time in my schedule to come hang out with you." If he gives you the money, you didn't promise anything, and it's his own stupid fault. In this case, you did actually tell him you would fuck him, which probably makes him think that you really are a whore, and just decided to not sell yourself for money this time. Anything that makes me look like I'm actually a whore, which could get me put in jail, I wouldn't do. That's just me.
Hahaha........ Good one Metal_n_mitsu!
I recall that major league teams return to the same city several times over the course of a season, so you may be seeing this guy again.
Also, the next day your customer could spread the word to all the local team's players. Word would get around.
He was an asshole, but two wrongs don't make a right.
If I was underage, and tried to buy beer (an illegal act) and the store owner took, and kept, my $$$, would that be acceptable?
If you tried to buy pot, and the dealer took your money and walked away, how would you react.
What goes around, comes around.
There is a proper solution for a guy who asks a stripper for sex. You can ask the bouncer to have him removed from the club, because he is only there to solicit sex and not buying dances, tipping, etc. Problem solved. Just have him thrown out of the club. They aren't supposed to legally solicit for sex anyways, so the club should back you on having him removed.
Secondly, the other posters were right. If that guy had been a vice cop, you would have been arrested for prostitution.
On another note, I'm not surprised this happened in Phoenix as that town seems to be loaded with scam artists, low lifes and meth-heads. No offense to any clean dancers in the Phoenix area, but I don't have a very high opinion of Phoenix. The two or three clubs that I did venture in to for work had some very questionable dancers and some real scuzzy guys. I've heard several reports from guys about being ripped-off in Phoenix clubs by dancers i.e. wallet stolen, money stolen off table, promises for sex, etc. I'm just glad I never bother to work in any of the Phoenix clubs. I don't want any part of that.
I'm sure not all the dancers are like that, but all you need is a few in any one club and it can ruin your reputation fast.



God, don't you think that's being a little harsh?? Jesus.....Originally Posted by azcustomer
Who cares? We all llive our lives, blah blah blah. Everyone makes mistakes too. And IMHO, while I wouldn't necessarily have done the same thing, I would sure be tempted to. And does that make me immoral? Should I be blacklisted for wanting to make some extra money from a total asshole? Please. He was asking for it.
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Wow, what club do you work at? I've only worked at one club that had this policy, and it quickly became a ghost town, as all the customers were 86'ed. (the funny thing is that it is now an extreme extra's club, and the dancers are, how shall I say?? Ummm...NOT classic beauties.)Originally Posted by fiery_lady
I think most dancers who have been dancing for a while, have crossed some kind of ethical line because of jerks like the one the OP encountered. I will occasionally place "curses" on customers of the club that treat me or others badly. That makes me feel better, and it really harms no one. I got the idea from Stephen King, from his book "thinner".
I admit, that I too have run scams. Usually they guys had it coming, and I saw myself as delivering karmic retribution. I've never "cursed" or scammed anyone who didn't have it coming. I also think ignorance is a legitemit excuse for bad behavior.
Metal_n_mitsu's customer was a jerk of the first degree. She was just delivering some karmic retribution that he had coming to him anyway.
The problem is that she rubbed it his face, then posted here in this forum, where customers, managers and dancers alike can read about how this guy got what was coming to him.
Those two actions will likely bite her in the ass at some point.
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!
What I meant was that if this guy kept pestering her for sex and just sat there not buying table dances or tipping the ladies, the bouncers may throw them out. They nor the club will make any money off this guy. The clubs I've worked at care at least that much.Originally Posted by Paris
^^^^^^Originally Posted by metal_n_mitsu
Received no love as a child and doesn't believe in self-improvement
"No good deed goes unpunished" -Clare Boothe Luce
"No wind serves him who addresses his voyage to no certain port" -Michel de Montaigne
I'm really surprised that management is Ok with this...I once had to return a $500 tip I recieved from a drunken customer who I spent 3hrs dancing for in VIP because he (wrongly) ASSUMED that I wanted to go home with him. I didn't and I never said that but management was not happy and demanded that I return the tip because a big spender was so unhappy...What knid of club would allow that to go on? Dancers allowed to blatently steal from a customer? I do agree that he should not have solicited you, but you should have just gotten paid for your dances and moved on. Girls that do that type of thing give strippers a bad name....sorry hon, just my opinion



Hey, I thought it was funny.

Me tooOriginally Posted by funlatina82
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Kinda glad this thread got revived. I've been really tempted to go out to the local SC tonight but this saves me a couple of hundred bucks at least. Not that I would act like that and I don't think scams are that common around here better safe then sorry!
Well I'd say you should just choose where you spend your money wisely. Not all dancers would do this to you. Don't let this post ruin your good time!Originally Posted by Cheif_Bigfoot




Isn't that the plot of a movie from the 80's?Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
On the topic, yep, it's a funny story. I'll second everyone else's stuff: it was morally wrong; he did deserve it; you ought not to do such things; worse stuff happens; etc. Still funny, though.
P.S.
Right from where I'm sitting, typing this stuff, I can see Ms. Wayward's business card.
Well, as to your point that he shouldn't have been asking you for sex in the first place, SO?!
If I ask a gas station attendant to sell me some cocaine, and he tells me damn right he will, but takes my money and no drugs... unethical! And I'd tell all my druggie friends just what a lying son of a bitch he was. Right? Am I right?
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