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    Ok let's say I'm trying to hustle a guy into letting me dance for him. Well I ask him, say whatever I say at the time lol, and he just looks at me but doesn't respond, or he doens't even look at me. There is that awkward silence.....I hate that. Or if you say something like "Hey I give a really good lap dance" and they say nothing because they're too stupid to realize it's an invite and they say nothing. What do I say???? I'm just stuck there looking retarded.
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    That's when I poke them and smile saying, "so how bout it babe"







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    hmm maybe yo could modify your line to: "Hey, I give a really good lap dance, may i show you"

    therefor you offer cannot be mistaken




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    ^ What she said.
    Don't ever let them make you feel awkward. You are the one in control. You have the power to turn the situation around and make them feel retarded for not paying attention to you.

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    That is true! I have a talent for making people fee stupid lol! But I just try really hard not to put myself in that position, so I'll just try making sure to word my sentences in the form of a question, that way they can't ignore me.
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    Just say, "I didn't mean to leave you speechless...that's usually what happens after I start my private dances."

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    Quote Originally Posted by pookie
    hmm maybe yo could modify your line to: "Hey, I give a really good lap dance, may i show you"

    therefor you offer cannot be mistaken

    Be carful with that. A girl at work was telling me 2 days ago that she asked a guy if she could offer him a dance he sad yes. Then wen;t to the private cabines and he was like You'r paying right??

    Just beucase she said can I offer You a dance he thought SHE wanted to pay!!

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    That guy was stupid! Haha, why would you go to a strip club and get PAID for a dance lol. The whole point is spending money on the dancers lol who doesn't know that. That makes me laugh, but yes I suppose I should be careful on how I word it(there's a lot of dumb guys in the world haha)
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    You could also try asking open ended questions to break the ice. You are in control and have to lead the conversation in the direction that you want. People love to talk about themselves, especially men. Men crave attention and if you ask questions about them it helps to build immediate rapport and grab their attention.

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    I usualy make up something stupid just to get them to laugh. I'm a fan of obsurd dry humor so most of my stuff I say with a straight face untill they smile or laugh then I smirk at them and start up a conversation. You could also try the old: "Have you heard any dirty/lame jokes lately?" I love getting into telling bad jokes with my customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candie00
    Be carful with that. A girl at work was telling me 2 days ago that she asked a guy if she could offer him a dance he sad yes. Then wen;t to the private cabines and he was like You'r paying right??

    Just beucase she said can I offer You a dance he thought SHE wanted to pay!!
    What an idiot!!!! I've had a few guys say that to me and it just makes me want to punch them in the balls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    I never ask. I tell them it's time to dance, harder to say no.
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    I haven't had any guys think I wanted to buy THEM a dance, but I've had like 2 or 3 guys ask me "Do you want a drink?" then they don't move. Then they motion for ME to go get it, as if I am going to buy THEM a drink. This isn't a singles bar, this is a strip club hon!

    Sorry just wanted to throw that in there. I've been watching this thread for any tips on awkward silences, too I hate those and unfortunately, they seem to be quite common with me (I can be a little shy at times).

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