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    i get ultra paranoid when guys smile real big when i am giving them a dance...why do guys do this? i feel like they are laughing ar me or something. is this a normal thing to feel? do guys just do this? is this the right thread?

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    cause they're thinking...

    "uh hu, duuuhh, i see boobies...huh huh huh (insert beavis/butthead laugh here)

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    ^ Yea. Exactly. They're having a great time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by giada
    i get ultra paranoid when guys smile real big when i am giving them a dance...why do guys do this?
    cuz you are making them happy?

    just a guess

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    Guys do it to Me all the time. I just give them a sweet little smile back =p.

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    yeah, i'm new. thank you for the advice. i knew that they are happy but when i actually see it i seem to forget why i am there. eh, just nervousness and sheer idiocy on my part. getting better though!

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    One thing that you have to remember about guys. We have two heads, but only enough blood to operate one of them at a time...

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    I have a contrary observation. How often do you see frowning, sullen looking guys in SCs? I mean, they look miserable! My sense is they really aren't miserable; rather, this is a poker face, meant to convey a kind of super cool: "Yeah, you're hot 'n' nude and all. So what!"

    On balance, I'd rather see them smiling like stoned monkeys.
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    Recommend getting paranoid only if they are crying, laughing out loud, or snoring.
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    Met a dancer who was in her first week just a couple days ago. She had exactly the same fear. She did a lap dance, saw the big smile on my face, and asked why I was laughing at her. In fact, I was just enjoying myself. I hope she believed me when I told her that.

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    It could just be an awkward "I don't know what to do with my face" smile combined with a really good lap dance.
    I hate when they do that though it makes me want to smile and then I start laughing... not sexy.
    You're probably doing something right though so don't worry about it!

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    Have you ever watched a movie that you were so into that after a while you thought "oh my god I was so into the movie I hope I didn't make a stupid face"? I know sometimes when people concentrate or are really into something their facial expressions take a back seat to their actual feelings. I think those smiles are just the guys' "looking" faces. They can't control their facial muscles when all their blood has gone south

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    Maybe part of it is that some dancers expect the customer to go into a trance and don't know what to do if we -- like -- remain conscious? The customer may go into another dimension if it gets really steamy, but sometimes we just like being with the dancer, and smile accordingly.

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    no worries....the smile is a good thing, it means that he's likely to spend more money, and that he's probably enjoying the experience thus far. it's the discontent frowns that are not fun to deal with....

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    I dunno..for me I'd really rather see a smile/smirk than no expression at all. That makes me feel as if they are totally not feeling it. I usually ask them, " what..I dont make you happy baby" and then the non-smilers start smiling and tell me how fab I am..hahah







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    They love ya baby!! Just go with it!! When they start cryin' - thats when you worry ..... x

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