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    Im sitting here nursing a headache., and went through the clubs and reviews section

    a few clubs have "bed dances"

    okay now obviously to a person that's never see or heard of one ... one would assume its a dancer grinding on a guy thats laying on the bed.

    or fucking them.

    These seem to be more in full nude joints then in just topless.


    so what gives? what is a bedance exactly?

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    I used to give bed dances at the last nude club I worked at. There was a 6 foot rule which meant the custy had to be 6 feet away whenever the girl was nude. The bed dance consisted of me dancing nude on a bed with the guy sitting in a chair 6 feet away. Some of them would try to jack off but many of them were ok to just watch.

    I auditioned at another club where they did nude bed dances and apparently both the customer and the dancer were on the bed together. I have no idea what those dances were like.


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    ive never heard of that either...they have actual beds in the club?

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    I've heard of a club that has this...I think it's in Georgia or North Carolina? I've never seen it though. I can imagine guys coming into the club full force to take advantage of that offer lol.

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    There is a club in Nashville that has bed dances, and they don't follow the lame ass 3 foot rule we have here. It's the guy and the girl on the bed, she dances on him while he is lounged back/lying down. I don't work there so I don't know the details, but I have been in there and that is what I saw.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee
    There is a club in Nashville that has bed dances, and they don't follow the lame ass 3 foot rule we have here. It's the guy and the girl on the bed, she dances on him while he is lounged back/lying down. I don't work there so I don't know the details, but I have been in there and that is what I saw.
    All right. That's crossed the line b/t stripping and something else. I hope the girls are getting an extra few hundred for that.

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    They do them in the Louisville Deja Vu, but I've never gone in to see for myself.







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    I've never partaken of a "bed dance" myself, but I've had couch dances where I was reclined back at least 45 degrees. The dancer pretty much works over the top of the customer, sometimes straddling him. In some cases there is significant grinding and in others, the dancer sort of hovers over the customer with minimal contact at best.

    I would assume a bed dance would merely be a extension of this where the customer is lying completely flat.
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    There is a club in SF on Broadway, the south side of the street -- I think it is Centerfolds? When I was there last fall they had at least one private room with a bed instead of a couch, and it seemed to be the preferred place for the dancers to take a new customer to hustle. The dance was basically a couch dance, except that the customer is horizontal, not just leaning back at 45 deg.

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    Default Re: bed dances??

    i asked this question a couple months ago do a search there is more info there.

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    Weird. I had honestly never even heard of that until now. Googling.



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    rainbow has the best shit

    at first i thought you were talking about the avator lol

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    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ght=bed+dances


    Here's a link to a similar discussion.


    Some of the clubs near St.Louis but in Illinois have bed dances. You basically lay down on the bed and the dancer does her thing. Some dancers will ask for you to remove your belt and some will even take off your shirt especially if its a nice one.

    I swear that the contact level is not much different than a couch dance. But then again the level of contact for any dance is probably higher in this area than some of you ladies would be comfortable with.

    Most of the dancers have you lay down and spread open your legs. This gives them a some free space to stand and dance over you and also room to move around. Some dancers will basically turn it into a dry hump session, others use a wide variety of moves and keep the cock grinding to a minimum.

    Bed dances can be great with the right dancer. There was one dancer at the Hollywodd Showclub in Washington Park IL that gave absolutely fantastic sexy dances without relying only on grindage. Unfortunately she no longer dances.

    I'll probably catch hell from the other guys for saying this, but the problem I've seen with bed dances is there are too many lazy dancers who get in the cowgirl position and grind away for most of the song or songs. Its like they are okay with grinding on my cock but don't want to getter closer than arms length from me too. I like it when a dancer gets up close and personal with ME not just my penis. I think with bed dances its easier for dancers who want to avoid that type of face to face intimacy.

    My recent couch dance experiences have been soley with my fav, her club doesn't have bed dances. I do believe she probably spoils me to a certain extent. In the couch dances she is up close, personal, intimate. Her hair is falling in my face, she's leaning over or on me, our eyes meet, noses might rub...i'm such a pl...lol.

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    jannisary is correct about bed dances. They have them at my club over the river from St Louis. They really aren't any more miliage than couch dances--they just sound dirty. And boy do new guys' eyes light up when you say "bed dance".

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    A few hours west of St. Louis, I worked in a club that had bed dances. It wasn't as bad as you think, but the dances were only $35. There were about 6 beds and two loveseats in a big open VIP room. We had a bouncer there the whole time who was dead serious about the 15 second rule. We could do what we want but only 15 sec. at a time. The guys could touch if you let them, but not what was covered with the thong.
    I actually enjoyed working there. The managers were awesome and the girls weren't allowed to be catty.

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    Jenna, what do you think about the "intimacy" level with bed dances compared to couch dances? To me it just seems like some dancers don't make a lot of face to face or above the shoulders contact when doing bed dances. Of course maybe those dancers wouldn't get up close like that during a couch dance either. Maybe I'm just picking the wrong dancers or I'm at the wrong club.

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    jannisary, I think what you are looking for depends on the dancer. Unfortunately for you, finding the right one means getting alot of dances that don't work for you first! Good luck!

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    I did bed dances. The guy is laying down on a bed and we do our usual lapdance only a lot more intimate. It's $50 a song where I worked.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenna78
    jannisary, I think what you are looking for depends on the dancer. Unfortunately for you, finding the right one means getting alot of dances that don't work for you first! Good luck!

    Thanks Jenna, I think you're right. Just one more good reason to stick with my fav...but variety is the spice of life....or something like that!

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    Yes, these bed dances exist just across the river from St. Louis. Depending on the club, prices range but are usually the same as a normal private couch or lap dance. The "bed" is usually more of a platform (higher than a normal bed) with a pillow for the guys head. As stated above, contact depends on the club and/or dancer. I don't go to the seedier clubs where "extras" are offered. At the better clubs the dances are normally done topless. Many dancers just do a straddle and grind. Others will be more intimate and allow touching anywhere not covered by thong....Some dancers also will do lots with eye contact, breasts in custy's face, and moaning/blowing in their ears. A few will push up a custys shirt, rubbing their chest....and a some will do several positions (cowgirl and reverse cowgirl most common). A very few may squat near custys head and slide their thong aside for a close up view (in total nude clubs) or rub their faces in the custys clothed crotch area.

    The bed areas in the better clubs are well maintained, with patrolling bouncers. One wrong move on a custys part results in being physically removed from club.

    The Illinois side of the river across from St. Louis is a total nude area. The respectable clubs that offer bed dances range from $25 to $40 per song. Hollywood Show Club charges $25 per....the girls never run deals for multiple songs.....they seem to do very well. Larry Flint's Hustler Club charges $40 plus $5 wrist band, but the girls will deal on multi song dances. I think some of the PT's chain clubs here also offer bed dances in the $40 range.

    I imagine that the seedier clubs that offer bed dances offer more than just private dances.

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    I work in a club that has only bed dances... haha of course, it's called a "couch," but the guy is lying down and you're straddling him naked, sooo.... full contact, good $$ possibilities, girls generally do pretty well because it's a small, intimite club with a lot of regulars, upscale customers, BUT the only problem, esp. since the rooms are semi-private, is that it creates a LOT of competition in the "extras" market... you really have to hustle your butt off if you want dances but won't give hand-jobs, blow-jobs, let guys lick you, etc. 50 bucks a dance, (us-30, house-20), the guy is often expecting something major. Apparently it didn't use to be like this, about 2 yrs ago, but then one girl starts doing more, and many others feel pressured to follow suit if they want to make $$/retain customers. oh well. I think the $$ is better, but it does get a little old when you're telling your 5th guy that night to put it back in his pants. plus the guys are allowed to take their shirts off, and it's generally not a pretty picture. but whatever- it's their fantasy, not mine.

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    Ah, I worked at ecstacy too.


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    haha no kidding? the place is small- i know every club has some degree of turnover, but a fair amount of the girls stay a while there. what turned you off, if i may ask? (p.s.- you are so lucky about the lesbian bachelorette party!)

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    I got fired for extras. Ha! I didn't even do them and the bartender backed me up. I know which girl started the whole thing too. I was there nine months.


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    at my club
    which was full nude
    our thongs must be on at all times unless we are ON the STAGE
    and we had beds

    sooo
    we danced top less on a guy laying down

    usually i would start rubbing my boobs down his face, slide down, grind on his crotch, slide his hands up to touch a boob or my tummy, flip over to wehre my ass was in his face and use my arm or tits to rub his crotch (i ALWAYS have some sort of crotch grind contact - never with hands or mouth though, ew), slide down to grinding again but its like im laying on him backwards, scoot up like reverse cowgirl and other variations of grinding and ass slapping and shit. pull down your thong for a sec (keeping it on) so he can see some shit.

    always always always make sure you never get too close to where he can lick you. or grab your crotch. a good technique for this is blocking your crotch with your hand with the appearance that you are rubbing yourself. it makes him think youre enjoying it when really youre just protecting yourself.

    in any case, if a guy gets too frisky which does happen, be firm but polite but if he persists get the fuck out slash report him to management or security.

    also - always be on top. never let him on top. that's bad news waiting to happen

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