So I was at the dog wash (it's a dog grooming place where you do the work yourself, and just use their tubs and dog shampoo and stuff), when I noticed that a girl was kind of staring at me. I said "Hi" and we started talking.
It was really strange because I thought she looked familiar but I couldn't place her. It turned out that we had actually taken our dogs to Puppy Preschool at the same time, 3 years before. I had actually told her about the dog washing place that we were at.
We had had good conversations when we were at the Puppy Preschool 3 years ago, but at the time she was 17 and I was 19 so I never really wanted to ask her out. Plus I think she had lost about 20 pounds since I saw her before, probably from 140 to 120. So I was interested and got her phone number.
We went out for coffee one time and when we started talking about work, she said that she worked hard, but wouldn't tell me what she did. It took me about 2 seconds to guess she was a Stripper, and she acted like I was a psychic or something.
I found out what club she works at, and I wanted to hang out with her more. The problem is that we both work really hard, and the only times that I could take her out were friday and saturday nights when she is working. After about 3 weeks of not being able to get together, (honestly it was more my fault than hers), I decided to visit her at work when some of my friends wanted to go to a strip club.
So I go to the club and I asked her for a dance and she said "No". (well actually she didn't say it, she just shook her head) I am really confused. Is this because she likes me? Or because she hates me?
I was worried about the chance it was the second for some reason, and I didn't want to come across as weird or stalkerish so I didn't ask her.
She hasn't called me since. But she did give me a hug when I went to leave the club.
Right now I have called her a total of 3 times, she has called me 4 times, but she hasn't called me since I went to the club which was last Saturday. Should I call her again or just move on?


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