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    Ok, sorry I couldn't think of a good title lol. Ok at my club the way all the girls work is they are really snobby and won't talk to their custies. Htey will pretty much just "make the rounds". Walk by each custy and ask if he wants to dance, they say no, she moves on. Would it be better for me to conform to this or try and keep my more personal approach(sit and chat, come back often, etc.)? I have been thinking about conforming and doing what the other dancers do because they spend 10 second at a customer and get to everyone within a couple minutes, so if there is a guy who just wants a dance, she will get it while I'm still chatting it up. But then again custies like it when a girl is personal and appealing and spends her time with them. Which method should I go with???
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    it depends. Some clubs you can get away with "wanna dance?" and if it's one of those clubs, then you are probably wasting time by talking for free. However, if those girls are sitting with nothing to do most of the time, then your approach is probably better.
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    Default Re: Me vs other dancers..??

    do what makes money you are to make money not make every guy fall in love with you you could be right you are passing money over while chatting it up for one dance.

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    I say try both ways a couple of times and see if there is a big difference in your money. If not, just do what makes you feel better.

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    Default Re: Me vs other dancers..??

    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    it depends. Some clubs you can get away with "wanna dance?" and if it's one of those clubs, then you are probably wasting time by talking for free. However, if those girls are sitting with nothing to do most of the time, then your approach is probably better.
    Exactly, this is how my club was. When I started, I was a conversationist. I would sit and talk with customers and get repeat dances from maybe 3-4 men per night, whereas my co-workers would make rounds around the room. I was getting a decent amount of money in my approach but I kept getting this nawwing feeling that I coudl be making more if I did the "wanna dance" It took me a month before I could get those 2 words out..and I've been doing it ever since. If it's dead, then yea I will sit. But I've learned that my club has a great deal of regular clientele so they already know what the deal is.







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    The best approach is probably a combo of both. Some men will be put off by wannadance. But then again, who wants to waste time talking when there are men who simply will take a dance. Go around the room and say, "Hi, I'm _______how are you? (wait for answer) Would you like to join me for a private dance?" Much better than 'wannadance', especially when done w/a smile. If they say no but seem interested, then ask if they would mind if you came back in a few minutes and sat with them. Do this on every guy in the room until you get a dance. If you fail to get a dance, then go back and sit with the guy who seemed the most interested. Only sit for 2-3 songs or less if it is busy. Time management is crucial. You will need to modify this if needed depending on the customers. If the room is slow, then it may be better to sit before asking for a dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenna78
    I say try both ways a couple of times and see if there is a big difference in your money. If not, just do what makes you feel better.
    exactly what i was going to say.

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    I'd say just try what there doing for alittle while and see if it makes You more money. If not then just go back to doing what You'r doing....

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    I just don't see it that way. I work with some snobby girls now that make fun of me because I actually have rhythm and all they do is shake their girl in a guys face. I'm doing all nude in pgh.
    In LV you can pull that wanna dance number but not in NYC unless it's a crazy busy night.

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    I once read somewhere on here that your hustle should vary according to the man's age: for the younger guys the typical, hi, how are you? Let's go play, or wanna dance? should work and for the older, mature men they usually like conversations. I've had LOTS of older gentlemen just want to sit an chat with me instead of buying dances (of course if they just want to chat then you should get tipped for your time).

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    You should do whatever works for you. I've done "wanna dance" in clubs where it was just as effective - customers will never tell you that they "like" this because they don't - there is nothing to like (I don't mean in terms of it being hateful, just a blank slate). Some customers want to be sold, but you get mostly guys that have no intention of buying a dance who just want to suck up your time for free (and that just bugs me). There is a whole class of customers that go to stripclubs for that exact experience. Seriously. They LOVE non-snobby girls. I do a a hybrid that is mainly just whatever I feel like at the time.
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    Since men pay by time here 'wanna dance' works horridly, mostly. They wanna know they can easilly spend 3min-1hour+ with you before they buy. Of course, young men always buy less (15 min) and wanna dance works well in this situation.


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    sit! most guys really like it, espically if they are getting asked "wanna dance, wanna dance" ahhh i could see it being really annoying. just ask to join them ask how their day was what did you do? chit chat a little til the convo runs dry and then say i would really like to dance for you. if they say no say ok, well i hope you change your mind cause after chatting with you i think your a real cool guy. leave but go back for sure.

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