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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire
    Rhia, I forced him to come clean about this. I love SW and I dont want his manipulation ruining it here for me. The IPs match because his and my computer are usually in the same house. I came over after a date we had tonight and asked him to clear this all up. I am still living at my parents for now, so yes Bella, we are separated.

    MY laptop is at my parents, his still at the other house. He didnt even tell me about any of this until tonight. 82Candy is Rob collaborating with some woman he met in Jersey years ago, that moved to Georgia now who's name is Becky. She is bitter about stripping because it caused many problems in her life. I dont know anything but that about her.
    Damn. Well, CF.. I'm just hoping that you can distance yourself from all of this. It's not a good situation. I wish you luck in sorting it all out. I'm glad you convinced him to come clean on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally
    People with Multiple Personality Disorder do weird things... who knows...
    You of all people....you should know better, Im suprised that you think it was me

    Ive talked to you more than anyone here.

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    I think she had nothing to do with it.I feel for her with all the shitty remarks she is getting.Gosh that would be sooo embarassing.Hopefully thiese wildcats lay off with the "crazy" lady comments.I believe ya.Good luck and hope things work out for you.

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    Thanks.

    I didnt even believe when he told me at first. I was wondering why this woman was coming to attack me everytime I had a problem with Rob. I guess whenever we got in fights, he contacted her. But the last few days apparently she was writing quite a bit of stuff on her own; turns out she was getting angry at Rob for getting back with me to work it out, we believe she really wanted him for herself. The woman sounds scary to me...

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    I think you need to get rid of him, seriously. That is just plain pathetic.

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    He expected that to be said Cally and so did I. All I can say is thanks for the support, and we're going to counciling TOMORROW

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    ^^^^^Well, at least you agree on something!

    Wow, this is deep! I've never seen something like this. Pretty weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire
    He expected that to be said Cally and so did I. All I can say is thanks for the support, and we're going to counciling TOMORROW
    hrm, 82Candy used to word "councilor" in the first post.....odd misspelling for two different people to have.

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    So neither of us can spell a word.... big deal.

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    Oh goodness gracious...Alright, time for bed kids!







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    Egads not another RD thread....


    CF, I hope it all gets ironed out... for everyone's sake.....
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    Can i just add that I wish we were along the lines of

    either a paysite

    OR xamount of posts to qualify for certain areas etc.

    There was a forum I use to read a long time ago where it was those two options ( i think the post count had to be 1000 or something close to ...)


    OR you were verified from a long standing member or mod.

    its a huge hassle but it helped keep shit private.. and more so here in the ladies only. I really really wish this is a part that NOT everyone could view etc.

    I have 3 stalkers on here... and man do i wanna talk shit lol but i can't because they'll read it.

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    Tart, this has ended up in the lounge, so that is the only reason I'll reply.

    I've often thought ladies only should be locked down. However every method I have considered has a very easy counter measure. Some times there are also very worthy topics. I keep my nose out of there as much as possible. It is a mater of respect. I'll walk by the ladies restroom/lockeroom, but I don't want to go in it.

    Passwords for women will not work, they'll just sign on as a woman, and get the password. The amount of police work required to verify would also be hard to maintain. I could, develop strategies for hours, and knock them down in minutes. You can only block a bad IP if you know it to be bad. K-line a whole ISP and you may cut of the very people that need help.

    Maybe an “I'm being stalked forum?” Apply to the mods for access, and explain who needs to be kept out. This is a good solution, but people that could help, may be left out. The important part of this forum is that posts in it would not be visible on the main board. Still it would be hard to police.

    As much as it would be a pain, maybe disable some functionality of the search. If you really wanted to you could find a wealth of information that is left lying around. As I said respect of privacy is necessary. Perhaps if all of us used code words and vague terms rather than specific there would be less of an issue. I would advise that a stage name you use should never be used openly, or your username. Furthermore, the place your work should be the same.

    Also I have often referred to the ability to view a profile and do a specific search on a member's posts as post-stalking. While it can be very useful, to an innocent or good individual, it can also lead to a database of personal information being accessible to a stalker. Even I have thought of taking details out of some of my posts.

    It is a pity to have access to a site full of inspiration, and beauty (fully, not just body wise) and have it marred by bastards. It is also a pity to have one of the few places I feel safe posting my stories marred by this.

    Maybe it is all this heat out there (in the US) bringing out the stalkers?
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    Oh, for christs sake.

    Well, I guess my argument that you can be nice and immature is still valid.

    Moron.

    CF, "Be afraid, be very afraid." Anyone who would do this has some SERIOUS mental problems.

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    CF, this is reallly insecure and controlling behavior on his part. especially since he got so involved in it...if he had put that time and energy into working things out with you it would have been more productive. don't let him make excuses in counceling....and be very careful.

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    Fucking over-compensation.

    I wish we where a pay site.
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    And then we could pay to keep some people off. Like the paranoids..

    Shit ... go to go... someone is watching me..

    My one comment is that some people who complain about stalkers are like spiders who complain about the flies in their web... you can put out the bait and complain too much about what is attracted to it.

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    I don't see why making it a pay site would keep the lunatics off.

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    very true emily i don't think thats the answer either going pay could elimante some of oue beloved regs ans till have trolls i don'yt know what the solutuion is. maybe elimitatun personal photos from the site but i don't know.

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    What kills me... Is that in the thread about the seperation, HE called HER manipulative. That just blows me away.
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    I don't care for Rob's actions...... this situation is full of creepiness.... CorsicaFire, I think you're too good for his childish antics.... I believe you're much older than him right??? Well he certainly isn't acting his age... His behavior is immature and shady.... I don't see this marriage going too far if hes gonna behave like this... I hope you do the right thing, whatever that may be....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    I don't see why making it a pay site would keep the lunatics off.
    Emily,
    Well, it wouldn't! but at least they wouldn't be anonymous and they would be paying lunatics...

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    The paysite idea only works I think for sites that start out that way. If that makes any sense. There have been forums I've been involved on and they went pay ( usually due to the owners greed.) and people dropped like flies. No one wanted to be apart of it anymore.

    BUT., if ladies only ...was really just that ( people couldnt see it etc unless they were somehow permitted by means of post count., vouch etc. ) it would really nice.

    OR you could do a pay members area...basically with the option to donate etc .there would be members only channels ..I hate to use a certain site for reference..more so because the site is skeevey but lol sfredbook does it . I just think its a good option.

    And yes there are such things as stalkers ..aka people that show up to your work...sit there and watch you.. emails..fake profiles... the list goes on. it happens.

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    We do have a couple of forums already that are for Platinum Members only.

    Unfortunately, there is no way to keep anyone out of Ladies Only. We've discussed it many times, and weighed different options. None of them would work out. It's a bummer I know, but it's something that we have to deal with.

    While a paysite would be nice too, that's not what Stripperweb was intended for. True, it would cut down on the trolls and crazy ass people, because let's face it.. Who would want to screw around if they were paying? But, making everyone pay wouldn't be a good option, as mentioned. We'd lose a lot of really good contributing members.

    Every forum has its drama, and we're definitely no exception. We've got it coming out of our ears here. But we just have to deal with it as it comes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne
    I don't care for Rob's actions...... this situation is full of creepiness.... CorsicaFire, I think you're too good for his childish antics.... I believe you're much older than him right??? Well he certainly isn't acting his age... His behavior is immature and shady.... I don't see this marriage going too far if hes gonna behave like this... I hope you do the right thing, whatever that may be....
    Actually, hes much older than me

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