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    Default Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    then I thanked him and started to get back up to continue my dance. He looks at the $20, then loudly calls me back over to the side and says, "Hey, I meant to give you a $1, not a $20" and demands it back! Then he pulled out a $1 and stuck it in my thong. I was so embarrassed!

    Anyone ever had something like this happen? Geesh.

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    i would say that your garter does not give refunds for stupidity. i wouldnt have let him have it back....

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    He would have gotten a "tough shit" from me. Cheapass bastard.
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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    I've had that happen. Stuff like "Hey, I wanted change". It seems like THEY should be embarrassed, not you.
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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Wow, what an ass. I did that before when I first went to a sc. Instead of giving a $5 I gave a $20. I didn't call out and just played along with it. I would have been more embarrassed for being cheap and asking for my money back. Who does that, anyway?

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    it happend to me once i gave him the change. I was also emabarresd it made me feel i was not worth the 20.

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Quote Originally Posted by dallasdiva
    then I thanked him and started to get back up to continue my dance. He looks at the $20, then loudly calls me back over to the side and says, "Hey, I meant to give you a $1, not a $20" and demands it back! Then he pulled out a $1 and stuck it in my thong. I was so embarrassed!

    Anyone ever had something like this happen? Geesh.
    This just shows how strange we humans are. The idiot who made the mistake should have been embarrassed, not you. Someone puts money in your thong, how are you to have any concept that that is NOT what he wanted to tip? Are you supposed to question every tip you get thats not a dollar?

    Honestly, he should have sucked it up. It just made him look like a huge douchbag. You should not have had any embarrassment because he made such a mistake.

    Ive done that - tipped more then I planned at the moment. I screwed up - I deal with it. Its not the dancers problem.

    IF he really wanted to get his 20 back, he should have done it quietly. Thats just basic politeness and decency. Being in a stripclub, whether you are a dancer or customer, should not absolve one from acting like a decent human.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dallasdiva
    "Hey, I meant to give you a $1, not a $20" and demands it back!
    He's lucky it happened with a nice girl like you... I'd have said, "Sorry, dude, no refunds "

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    WHAT?!!?! I would kept it! told him his loss!

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Yeah I try to act like supreme royal bitch in front of customers, well not a bitch but I don't let people fuck with me like that, it makes you look like a push over and if other people see you getting puppeteered (sp.?) like that, they might try to screw with you too. Next time call him cheap in front of everyone and roll your eyes.
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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    I would have said, "how about you let me keep it and I give you a free dance when I get off stage"

    you don't want to alienate a potential customer. Just because he didn't give you a $20 tip, it doesn't mean he's cheap.

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Once he tips you, it's *Your* money not his.Don't get embarassed at someone else's screwup.It's entirely up to you whether or not to give it back.

    If you choose not to give it back, be sure not to get drawn into an argument or shouting match while on stage, that looks very bad in the eyes of other customers.
    If this happens, let the Bouncers handle it and continue your stage set.
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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    That is the tackiest and most rude thing I've EVER heard. What nerve.

    I read your post to my boyfriend and his jaw dropped. He responsed by saying "Wow."
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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    This is why a concious SC consumer should learn to separate his/her singles from the larger bills, and to take it easy on the alcohol so they don't make a "mistake" like this. There's a big print number in the lower right-hand corner on the back of US currency (notes $5 and larger) for this very reason.

    Although I have my doubts that the incident the OP stated was a mistake in the least. I've witnessed shit like this all too often, and not only is it rude to the gal on stage, its not exactly pleasant for the rest of the audience trying to watch.


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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    I wouldn't have given it back to him and instead turned it around into a possible sale.

    "Please forgive me ... I do not give refunds... instead.. I keep the $20 and use it as payment for a lap dance. " If he still insists on having the $20 back, I will then say that it is regarded as extrememly rude to ask for a tip back and give something less in return (yet still not give it back).

    I will only give it back if he complains to management or makes a real scene about it.


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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Does this also pertain to when a dancer does a dance for a customer, like if the dances are $10 each, the customer hands the dancer a $20, she puts it in her garter, starts to walk away and the customer then asks the dancer for change back. Does that money count as the dancers or the customers? I've given the customer money back, although, it irritates the crap out me because dancers are not cash registers, plus it holds us up and usually is the case when it's busy. This one customer did this to me at the very end of the night, they were yelling at the girls to get back to the locker room and he's making me count out $10 for him, which was hard to find when I had $20's, $50's & 100's, then had the audacity to ask me if I'd be interested in meeting up with him after work. Sorry to get off the thread but it was similar and wondering other people's thoughts on it. Thanks

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Prester John was right -- the customer was way out of line, putting you in that position. He should have just accepted the screwup and not spoken up in a way that put you in an embarrassing situation on stage. By treating you like that he made himself look like a not-so-bright cheapskate.
    But that said, you probably did the right thing -- a reasonable customer watching the whole incident would think that the guy was a jerk and you are a decent person.
    If you could turn him around and pull off what Emily suggested that would be pretty neat -- but my assumption is that a guy like that might be a lost cause.

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    Oh my god, I just had this happen to me last week! After he put the 20 in my thong, I said, "thank you very much sweetie!" He then tried to pull it out and we had a bit of a tugging war with it. He said he meant to give me a one. At my club, once the money is in our thong, you CAN NOT get it back! I hate it when guys do that!!!! Also, asking for change at my stage! I find it insulting. I'm not a cashier! Sometimes though, if he has a 20 and wants change, I give him like 15. Kinda like a fee lol

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    I watched a couple sitting stage side stuffing $1 bills into a girls thong. Most of us, after every tip, pull the $$ out of our thongs, let them fall onto the stage, and move onto the next tipper.

    Well, the girlfriend noticed that she gave a twenty instead of a single to the dancer and had her BF reach over the railing and onto the stage to retrieve it when the entertainers back was turned! That's stealing IMO!!!

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    I had a guy do that to me last weekend. He said oops, I meant that to be a one. I smiled and winked at him and said, you should pay closer attention. And I turned around and finished my dance. I thought that if he was being tacky enough to ask for it back I didn't want any more dances from him anyway. I never saw him after that but I still had the $.

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    I would have throw the 20 back at him, refused the $1 and told him to keep them both since he obviously needs the money more than I do if he's so concerned about it.

    Rude and ignorant...period. And I woudnt worry about offending him..who wants a customer like that anyway?
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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    It's ridiculous that the standard for men to tip a beautiful naked woman right in front of them is $1. IMO it OUGHT to be 20! Or at least 5! Sheesh

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    Sometimes if i guy just gives me a $1, after he puts it in my thong, I turn around and pull the other side of my thong out to give him the clue to give me another one and i say something silly like, "I have two boobs so it's two dollars" or "You can get a Sprite from a vending machine for a dollar, you should pay more for boobs in your face!" I know, it sounds kinda stupid, but it makes them laugh and tip me a little more.

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    I don't think you should be embarrased. He should. I had something similar happen. I had a guy tip me 50 during a lapdance, then later that night got falling down drunk, and ask for it back. He said he ment to tip me 20. Uh-huh. Really! He ran out of money and wanted to party more. I just told him I don't return tip money, especially not 2 hrs later.

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    Default Re: Guy gives me a $20 in my thong on stage...

    This kind of thing used to happen to me all the time. I think it was deliberate most of the time; the customer wanted to see what kind of show they could get for a bigger tip, and then at the end of the song they would take back the $5, $10, or $20 and replace it with a $1 and an "Oops!". I learned my lesson and now I always put any bill bigger than a single on the stage, out of their reach. If anyone ever asked for it back I would NOT give it to them, unless it was a regular and I knew it really was a mistake.

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