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    It was May of 1994, and I was desperate to stay the summer in my college town. There was just no way I wanted to go back to mom and dad's. My friend felt the same way so we set out to find jobs for the summer. We probably applied at every restaurant, grocery store, coffee shop, and retail store in town. No luck. We couldn't get hired to save our lives, there were just too many other college kids in town trying to do the same thing.

    At one point we were going down to the plasma bank twice a week to sell our blood. Talk about desperate! Throughout all of this we joked about going to the local strip club and getting a job. But it was just a joke, I never thought I would/could actually do it. Plus I had no idea what it was all about.

    After a month went by we became desperate. On a Monday we said that if we didn't get hired somewhere by Friday we were going into the club. Well, Friday came and went and we decided to go in and have a look at the place. It was a tiny bar, but it seemed huge to me. There was this tall, voluptuous blonde on stage dancing, and I thought she was a goddess. I felt like a troll.

    We asked the manager what we needed to try out and he said we needed "t-bottoms." I'll be honest, we didn't really even know what they were. Sooooo, we went to Wal-Mart and got some plain black cotton thong panties. I'm sure they were lovely. haha. At this point we were still treating it like a joke, because we were exceptionally clueless about the whole thing.

    Monday came and we showed up at the club. I can't remember the outfit I wore, but I remember the two inch black heels I wore along with my cotton t-bottom. My friend, who, by the way, was not that attractive, wore something similar. The manager kind of eyeballed us and told us to pick out some songs on the jukebox. We were to dance together on stage.

    I picked "Like a Prayer," by Madonna. There were about two customers in the place, along with five or six dancers. Strangely, I wasn't nervous at all. One of the girls asked me what my name was going to be. I hadn't realized that I needed a stage name so I said the first thing that popped into my head, Andy. This same girl stood in front of me and adjusted my bottoms, telling me, "You need to pull them up over your hips."

    The music started up and we got on stage. I couldn't tell you what moves we did, but I'm sure they were pretty bad. After we got off stage the manager pulled me to the side and told me that I was hired but that my friend was NOT. No problem, she was pretty mortified at the whole thing.

    And that was it. I started on the day shift the next day and the rest is history.

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    The long and short of it: Here in Australia the 9/11 attacks happened on the 12th (since we're 10 hours ahead of you in the USA). Therefore the whole day I knew something big had happened however for one reason or another didn't manage to catch the news about it all. It was only when I was at work (my first night) I learnt of the 9/11 attacks.

    I was the fourth or third girl in total working that night .... and there were hardly ANY patrons. I was nervous as hell! I had no social skills at this point in my life... well.. I didn't know the art of bullsh*tting so much back then (aka small talk)... and would wait for the guy to initiate conversation.

    So ..yeh.. I will never forget my first night for a loooong time to come!

    Forgot to mention that the club I worked within would be considered a "dive" bar nowdays. I pretty much asked to work and that was it. There is more to the story however this is the general gist of it all.
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    My first was at a DIVE - a place I'd never dance in these days. No manager, no bouncers, no anybody - just the bartender and a juke box. There were three other girls on rotation and we all changed in this little area back behind the bar. I was so out of place. I am the tiny blonde with no tattoos and no attitude. They had been around a bit. I had gotten hired just by showing up. The bartender (female) thought I was really hot and she called some regs to come check me out. I got a lot of attention and I'm suprised the other girls were as nice as they were to me. They all played Metal for all of there sets and I never new what to play. I think at one point I put on a Gwen Stefani song and the tattoo'd dancer on the other stage threw a fit. Oh ya, the stages - they were so torn up. You couldn't do floor work because you'd get splinters and slip in the puddles of beer. My stage name was Angel! And I remember this one guy telling be to dance really close to him because he forgot his glasses and couldn't even see what I looked like. And, I believed him!! I know!

    And oh god, I changed into a new outfit after every stage, all night long! Not just my outfit but my shoes and jewelry - I'm sure the other girls thought I was ridiculous. Anyway I worked that one night and then went on to a bigger club. But I made a few hundred bucks that night.

    It's funny cause I wasn't that nervous either. It's really strange how comfortable I am getting naked. I have to say I love stripping.

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    Well, considering my first time was only about a month ago.. I remember it pretty clearly. I can remember wanting to be a dancer since the first time I ever went into a strip club. That was about 3 years ago. Well, one night, I just decided that I was going to do it.. even though I was petrified. So I went to Victoria's Secret.. I know, I know.. but I didn't know!.. and bought a sexy little outfit.. and that night, I went to a strip club and said I wanted to audition. The guy took my ID and showed me the dressing room. I was back there with about 20 other girls.. none of them talked to me. I spent about 30 minutes "reading the rules" on the wall.. trying to kill time. Finally, I decided I had to do it.. so I got dressed.. put on my 4 inch platforms.. which I'm ashamed of now.. and went out on stage. I basically stood there, a lot.. because there were other girls out there with me. I worked that night, though.. and made about 70 bucks. I danced for about 2 hours and never left the dressing room, except to go on stage. I don't work at that club anymore.. cuz' the girls are crazy there. I love the new place I work.. all the girls are really nice, the mgt. is awesome, and the customers are great! I've purchased more attire since I started working.. and I must say, the heels still hurt my feet.. and they're only 6 inchers. I see those girls with 9 inch platform stilettos and wonder.. "how?".

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    My first time was absolutely horrible. I did everything SO WRONG the first month or so. It was about three and a half years ago, and I just walked in and audititioned during the daytime. I did buy real stripper shoes but I had only 4 terrible outfits. One was a horrid lacy black baby doll lingerie thingie that was about a size too big, a very tacky bunny costume, a yellow 'regular' bikini, and a victoria secret bra/thong set, neither which even glowed in the lights. During my auditon I grabbed onto the pole and just walked around it. There were only about 3 custys, but I was soooo nervous. I fell down the stairs exiting the stage. I got hired and started friday.

    On friday I show up and borrowed a tampon from another dancer. I put the tampon in wrong (I never used them before) and ended up with part of the applicator inside!!! Not comfy. I decide to go across the street to get a box to read the directions. I also spot a bottle of baby oil gel. I think it would look really sexy to give my skin a sheen and so I buy that too. After putting in a tampon properly, and slicking myself in baby oil (I know, I know, my dumb ass) I go out on the floor. I hide in the dressing room most of the night, only get one lapdance, NEVER ask for a dance, and I'm sure all the girls hated me for slicking up the stage, whick I tried to wipe off myself w/ wipes. Ahhhh, the horror.
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    My 1st time wasnt that long ago either. I was so intimidated by the shoes i borrowed that i didnt even wear them! (I know i know LMAO) It was amature night.. I had 3 drinks (stiff ones at that, I was SOOO scared) I even knew some of the ppl there.. my friend whent 1st and then it was my turn.. i was basicly pushed on stage .. didnt even get to pick the song. It was "poor some sugar on me" lol I was in an orangey metalic dress thingy lol I danced and quickly got off stage.. It was a tie between me and my friend (there was only like 3 girls anyways hahaha) the tie breaker was a wet t-shirt contest.. ( dont ask.. ) lol I lost hahaha she won but at least she got us free drinks the rest of the nite. I try to block that night out lol like it never happend hahaa

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    I started when I was fifteen. I was bitching to my mom about how broke I was, so she packed me an old pair of her shoes and told me to come to work with her that night. She and I are the same size, so we just shared clothes all night, and no one gave me any crap, cause I was CeeCee's daughter. That was my first night, and I've been dancing ever since.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    I started when I was fifteen. I was bitching to my mom about how broke I was, so she packed me an old pair of her shoes and told me to come to work with her that night. She and I are the same size, so we just shared clothes all night, and no one gave me any crap, cause I was CeeCee's daughter. That was my first night, and I've been dancing ever since.
    wow only 15!!! I know you came with your mother, but still, how did u guys get away with that?

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    Yea thats crazy!!!! 15 is really young and really illegal hehehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    I started when I was fifteen. I was bitching to my mom about how broke I was, so she packed me an old pair of her shoes and told me to come to work with her that night. She and I are the same size, so we just shared clothes all night, and no one gave me any crap, cause I was CeeCee's daughter. That was my first night, and I've been dancing ever since.
    Aw! Thats really awsome! My Mum use to come to My club and have drinks with Me when I was living in the same Provance =p....

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    Every time I think back to my first night I cringe.
    I was on a years working holiday visa round Australia and was travelling with my boyfriend. i'd always been curious about stripping, being an exibitionist - always wearing the bare minimum clothing when I went on a night out, and pretty much always drawing attention to myself.
    My money had started to run out after spending aboout 3 months in a weed induced haze in Byron Bay and I'd chummed up with this crazy American girl who told me about Spearmint Rhino in Melbourne. She'd already worked there and said she'd be happy to go back for a couple of weeks.
    Looking back, my boyfriend really wasn't given much of a say in the matter, I simply announced that this was something I wanted to try and went ahead and booked a flight to Melbourne.
    The plan was that we would check into a hostal, go and audition that night then work our arses off for 2 weeks solid.
    What I hadn't realised was that my crazy American friend hadn't bothered to tell anyone before she left the club the last time and as soon as the manager saw her face he was like "no way".
    I was quite disheartened as I knew I only had 14 nights to get as much money together as I could before heading back to Byron. Also, I felt quite pressured to be successful so I didn't give my b/f or any of my other backpacking friends the chance to say "I told you so".
    In desperation we went to audition for one of the other clubs, just as a quick fix. I planned that I would go back to Rhino alone and audition another night, that way the manager wouldn't associate me with the girl who just left without telling anyone.
    So we go into this club and basically got the once over by this guy and had our photos taken. It was a g-string only club and my friend who although was a very attractive girl, was also quite heavy refused point blank to wear a G saying she wouldn't feel comfortable.
    The manager was like "sorry babe but it's G- string only, maybe you should go and try somewhere else"
    Why we agreed to seperate I have no idea. But off she went, leaving me on my own.
    I lied my arse off to this guy telling him that I'd stripped my way round the UK and was quite happy doing the job - what a fool I was to think no one would notice.
    I was all smiles and confident to begin with, it was only as I began reading through the list of club rules that alarm bells started to go off.
    One of the rules was "Dancers groin should be no further than 10 cm from the customers face when G-string is off...." I was like "shit 10 cm, thats like.... oh, shit..."
    I admit now that I was sooooo naive. I was totally thrown in at the deep end and how I got through that night is a mystery to me. The other girls were AWFUL really hard faced and not friendly at all. When I voiced my concerns about feeling vunerable to the girl at the mirror next to me she was just llike "Well if they touch you they'll get thrown out, whats your problem?" All I could think of was that regardless of the punishment afterwards, once they'd touched me it was too late.
    I think I made about 100 dollars that night , infact the only dances I did were for people who actually asked me - I didn't even approach anyone, I was so scared!!!
    Then at about 3 am this HUGE fight broke out on the stairs and a guy sent me flying across the floor. I just burst into tears and one of the customers I'd danced for took me to the bar and got me a drink.
    I RAN out of that club and never went back.
    I auditioned for Rhino 2 days later and had the time of my life for 2 weeks. Infact I loved it so much and made so many good friends that I kept returning again and again right up until I left back to the UK.
    I'm still dancing now and I LOVE it. I have to say though that clubs in the UK are so TAME in comparison to what I was used to - I spent the first few shifts getting fined for being too raunchy and full on!!

    Ahhhh its all good !!

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    I got shitfaced (I filled a thermos with wine since it was a nude club with no alchohol) before I could screw up the courage and go onstage. I told the DJ I liked classic rock like Zep and what does he put on - but f'ing "She's got Bettie Davis Eyes". But before I knew it my first set was over and I hadn't fallen flat on my ass or on a customer. I did a mini-VIP with a guy who pushed me off his lap suddenly and cut our time short and I was so green I didn't understand what had transpired- I said "Are you feeling sick? Did I do something wrong?"

    I left with $250 dollars and I thought it was soooooo much money at the time. Ha ha.

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    it was so much fun. I was working at this one smallish club as a waitress for a while so i got to know everyone they were like family. I got a little bit tipsy and just did it. It was a lot of fun. all the bartenders came up to the stage to support me

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    little miss natalie. i know exactly what club you're talking about... g-string only...ha! i only lasted one night there too. these days i could go there and be 'one of them' but four years ago when i tried it there, i was sooo intimidated! i ran for the hills and started at a different club.
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    Pretty good I knew everyone who worked in the club anyways because I have been going there with My friend who worked there as a coat cheak girl all summer.

    The only bad part was that I got My period the day before work! This is how I found this site cause I needed to kno how to make the tampon string discert hehe and it worked out fine. I only made like $40 that night because I didn't really wanna ask for dances =p But after a couple of days I started to bank and My frist club was still the best one I worked at and I'm going to go back their when I move back to Newfoundland ....

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    Yes, it was illegal, but she owned the club, and so people knew I was her daughter, but didn't know how old I was, as she was the one who did the ID'ing. I've been a FF since I was fourteen, so I got away with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    I started when I was fifteen. I was bitching to my mom about how broke I was, so she packed me an old pair of her shoes and told me to come to work with her that night. She and I are the same size, so we just shared clothes all night, and no one gave me any crap, cause I was CeeCee's daughter. That was my first night, and I've been dancing ever since.
    Whoa, I'm sorry but I am now very glad I have the mother that I do.
    As much as I'd not want her to bitch about my choice in jobs, it's kind of what they're supposed to do.
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    My mom was fourteen when she had me. She and I have always been more like best friends than mother and daughter. Personally, I'm really glad for my mom. She taught me that there was nothing to be ashamed of about your own body. She also taught me that smart women hold all the power in the club, and smart women that choose to be there can make their own way in the world without having a man to depend on. I'm set to retire at 28. I have my own house and cars and my RN. She did tell me upfront about the bad parts of the club, and the drawbacks - and I chose to be here. Her support has meant the world to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    My mom was fourteen when she had me. She and I have always been more like best friends than mother and daughter. Personally, I'm really glad for my mom. She taught me that there was nothing to be ashamed of about your own body. She also taught me that smart women hold all the power in the club, and smart women that choose to be there can make their own way in the world without having a man to depend on. I'm set to retire at 28. I have my own house and cars and my RN. She did tell me upfront about the bad parts of the club, and the drawbacks - and I chose to be here. Her support has meant the world to me.
    Well I think You'r lucky to have such a great Mum! Fuck the haters!

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    i agree with Candie..even though what your mom did is out of the norm..maybe not typical "mom behavior" if she taught you a good life lesson then good for her!! :-)

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    In winter 99', I moved to OH with my boyfriend who was discharged from the military. There were no jobs in the paper except dancing and cocktailing. I was getting worried about my bills, so I went to the WV club. I was hired as a waitress but hounded all night on why I didn't dance. When a bar customer offered me $300 to become a dancer....I jumped at it. I didn't do so bad for a newbie who wasn't ready, but the next night I freaked out before my stage set. The manager took an hour trying to talk me out of it, but I went home and a few days later drove back to NC without my shitty boyfriend.
    I danced one more night a year later in Wilmington, but got pissed at the manager.
    I didn't try again until summer 03' and started "stranding" myself in different cities to make myself learn to get used to dancing.

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    So sorry to be completely off topic here, but I think you have the most fascinating stories Cherrysin! And it sounds like you have really got it together. If any stripper should write another memoir I hope it would be you.

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