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    Maybe I am oversensitive, but this infuriates me. When I'm dancing, doing my slow, sensual undressing thing, and the guy grabs my thong and yanks it down. And this happens a lot. Sometimes it's less of a yank than a tug, but still. I am the stripper, let me strip! Should I just say this? I get so angry about all these little things in my head, but I never say so. I do want them to get another dance, but this kind of thing screws with my fragile sense of autonomy. How can I correct this behaviour (among others) without offending the offender? I just want to find a way to rationally defend myself without losing all my customers.

    And anyway, is this just me? Does this happen to anyone else, where they grab off your clothes during the song if you apparently don't get them off fast enough yourself?

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    Ah, the pleasures of stage-only no-touchie dancing... I couldn't deal with that all the time. I'm sorry that's happening to you though- and can understand how it'd make you feel a loss of control.

    But if it did happen to me... well, maybe say something cutsie like, "Hold on there, cowboy!" or something to that effect. Lame but guys... don't seem to care as much.
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    Maybe something cute along the lines of "its alot sexier when I do that".
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    I do a cutesy, "hey! let *me* do that."

    I was dancing across from a girl the other day though who said in that total bossy-momma-in-charge voice, "hey! Let me have control here!" and "Stop that, your going to hurt me!" She's one of the top money makers, and she's soooo abusive to the guys. I just don't get it.



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    I make sure the boundaries are established at the start of the dance even if it takes 2 minutes to explain these boundaries.... including: sit back, relax and let me do all the work


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    I'd freak out if someone did that to me. It's one thing if I invite them to help me untie my top or something, but I would not react favorably to being manhandled like that.
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    That's illegal here, but alot of guys ask if they can help. After reading the original post im thinking - "At least they're polite enough to ask!!!"
    Im usually pretty sarcastic in my answers, I just can't help myself, lol.

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    Default Re: When they pull off your clothes

    Molly, I was just thinking about that. Last night I had a custy take me in the back and try to rip off my clothes 20 seconds into the dance. I gave him the whole "I'm the stripper, let me do the stripping"
    Then the moron tried yet again... thats when I told him that if anything was ripped, he would have to reimbourse the cost of what I was wearing... he stopped after that

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    Wow, this has never happened to me. If it did, there would be a violent reaction.

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    Default Re: When they pull off your clothes

    I always say something like "Hey! That's MY job". But yeah, that irritates me too. I usually find that guys who get that aggressive are a pain in the ass and I don't want to dance for them anyway - always trying to get more more MORE

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    Ughh! I hate this.. Last night I had a guy like give Me a damn wagey with My thong!! What are these's guys thinking?!

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    Default Re: When they pull off your clothes

    This happened to me on my birthday at a topless club, I was really upset, I thought I was going to get in trouble. The 70 year old man who did it was kicked out but came back in for his dollar. It almost happend again at a nude club but I caught it in time and immediately put my 7 inch stilleto to his chest, pushed him back, gave him a naughty look, and said " Your supposed to let the woman do the work, mind if I?" He went for it.


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