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    Default How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    Ladies, how long do you usually wait to give up the poon tang and gentlemen, how long did the love of your life make you wait?
    I try to wait until at least the third date because even he's putting on full court press and there's an electric storm of chemistry he will wonder if you give it up for everyone so soon. Scarcity commands respect.

    Also if you care to share, what is your most embarrassing intimate moment. I won't tell you my MOST embarrassing, but I will say this:

    Love is when you can't get your tampon out and your boyfriend acts like it's no big deal when he has to remove it for you. At the time I was with him I was so sure he wasn't "the one," but most of all the guys I dated, I look back and wonder if I should have tried harder to be happy with him.

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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    I didn't even reach the second date. This was after some careful thought on my behalf.... and finally consulting the guy himself. Then again, we both wanted a mainly sexual relationship not a 'real' one (as such). At the time, it worked well for me.

    My usual rule of thumb is third date as well or the equivalent there-of .....

    I don't have an embarrassing intimate moment as no moments between two partners can ever be truely embarrassing .... if you're embarressed in front of the guy in intimate moments then.. well... how comfortable are you really with yourself and the relationship I have to ask. Besides, my memory is crap.... none of them have been that embarressing that I remembered them.


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    I think Dea and I made it to the second or third time we saw each other. By our second true date she was preggo so...I can't think of anytime that I would think of as embarrasing whilst banging my love, but I have fallen asleep a few times.

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    Scarcity commands respect.
    Scarcity is relative to the quantity of the commodity available on the open market. Not to shock anyone, but to paraphrase Chapelle, the market for pussy has long since plummetted.

    The bottom line for me is that arbitrary and capricious guidelines for initial sexual experiences are counterproductive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    The bottom line for me is that arbitrary and capricious guidelines for initial sexual experiences are counterproductive.
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    ^ Dude, you know I'm saving myself for marriage!

    <<< Just look at me...

    I mean, I need a woman that can really love me in all of my putrid corpulence.
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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    My last GF, we lasted 2 months seeing each other more often than once a week, and getting into some pretty heavy foreplay.

    Anyone imagine an 18-hour mutual massage session without getting any sex?
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    And here I was thinking I was skanky for sleeping with my guy after a week of nonstop dating and hanging out. And I found out that girls who give the milk for free still get married. Woot. I have *got* to stop listening to my Mormon friends.

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    I used to wait a year. Now I wait a few months.
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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    When it happens, it happens. Nothing made me want to give it up like a really engaging conversation of the portrayal of grendel in Beowulf vs. the one in Grendel.

    All I am saying is that chemistry, respect, and comfort decide this act. Manufacturing or being impulsive only leaves a greater risk, fear of regret, and even worse, the regret itself.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    It varies. It's 2006-if you sleep with a guy on the first date, most guys won't think that you're not relationship material just because of that. Just go with whatever feels right. I slept with my ex-fiance the first day I met him and we dated for two years after that. I'm the one who broke it off. But there have been times where it just didn't feel right, so I held off for a while. It really depends how attracted I am to the guy and how horny I am.

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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    Quote Originally Posted by FireTiger
    how long did the love of your life make you wait?
    When I meet her, I'll let you know.

    But if she's that good, I say she's worth waiting for. Un-testosteronly as it might sound, I would not object if a gal whom I had that good an emotional connection with made me earn my way into her panties, (just as long as there IS a certainty that I will get there). It would make the consummation that much sweeter.
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    I have a three mounti rule. If they can wait that long, they deserve it.


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    Um..not really sure. I "gave it up" within 4 hours of meeting my husband...my first real boyfriend (besides the 14 year old kind) didn't really have a chance to make someone wait after that.

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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    I agree with blondhotti, I've slept with guys on fisrt, second, or third dates and that's never stopped them from having long term relationships with me. I just play it by ear...

    However, Big Boy (aka the love of my life) and I waited for about a month before we got physical.

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    Default Re: How long to wait to give up the poon-tang?

    If I really am attracted to someone and feel the chemistry I have a hard time waiting. I don't have a rule. I'd like to say I'd make someone I'm really attracted to wait, but when it comes down to it it could still happen and I wouldn't want to stop it. Right now I have no man but with my ex I knew him as a freind for a while sort of long distance and I guess we actually slept together before we even had an actual date. And then we were together over three years and I broke up with him.

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    Pretty much the day I meet them.

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