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    Ok please excuse me for this rant. I am not trying to step on any toes at all but I want to know how everyone else feels about it. We already have the older dancer thread, how about a younger one? Seems only fair.

    The new/younger dancers I have delt with (and I am sure I'll see more) piss me off or irritate the hell out of me. I'm 29 and I know that very well. I dont need some newbie dancer coming in to my home club and telling me I'm too old to dance. Especially when I hardly look 21 and they look a hell of a lot older than me. I hate it when they rub it in that they got more private dances than I did. HaHaHa. Little do they know I still make more than them. The ones I have delt with cannot dance and need a lot of lipo! One girl kept pointing out that she had bigger tits than I did and made sure I saw them many many many times, by massaging them 2 feet from me. WHo the hell cares!? Tits arent everything! I dont have big ones and I really dont care. I make very good money because I have a great attitude, I have fun, I smile, and I can have an INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION! Some of these girls look like they are mean and are pissed off when they are danceing on stage, just because its thier turn.

    The worst girl I have ever met, pissed EVERYONE off. Owner, manager, bouncers, and dancers. She stole another dancers phone and since I left earlier, she tried to blame it on me. Now the owner and everyone else including the dancers have known me for nearly 2 years. Plus I have the best damn phone on the market to begin with. NOw what the hell would I do with a good friends phone? They did a bag search but apparently she had shoved it down her pants or something. It was never found. That was round one.

    Round 2. A fight breaks out and I help her off the stage. SHe trips and skins her knees, gets pissed off that the fight is fucking up her set and proceeds to go back out there! The manager had to stop what she was doing and nearly drug the girl back to the dressing room by her hair. Its a rule here that if something like that happened all girls go to the dressing room.

    Round 3. Same girl. I had an appointment to go and look at wedding dresses at 11 am. We were staying at the dancers apt and she kept me up till 6 am by being loud. I finally said something to her and she shut up. I almost didnt go to the appointment but I did and found my dream dress. I went to work very tired but then she comes in screaming that she had no sleep because of me.

    Round 4. SHe bitches that she came to work with $60 and left with $10, when I had 9 private dances. HHHMMMM How much did she drink????? I know she was making money.

    Round 5 She marches over to my stage and slams down her stupid little plastic box/purse and proceeds to harass the customers at my stage. This time the manager did drag her by her arm to the dressing room.

    Round 6 First she says I am the nicest dancer she has ever met, I am good on stage, and I have good advice. Less than 5 minutes later, I am a bitch, I have no right being a dancer, and I have no idea that I know what I am talking about because I am a blonde bitch..............................she was blonde too.

    Round 7 At the end of a VERY VERY VERY LONG night. Yes all this happend within 1-2 days. We are all very exhausted. We were packed. Manager says it looks like I am in a hurry, the way I am haulling all my stuff out. I told her I was because I was on my way home to be with my SO. The dancer I have been ranting about immediatly loudly states that I am in a hurry to leave since I fuck all the customers. Um Excuse Me!?!?!?! SHe said it in front of the manager, bouncers, and a few customers. When asked what the hell she ment and stating that I dont do that, she says "Well, you do porn!". WTF does that have to do with fucking the customers?!?!?!?! I did 2 porns last summer, big deal, who cares. No one could figure her out at this point. We found out later she was the one fucking the customers. We also found out she never bathed. Customers came back later and told us she smelled. Oh yea and we found out she was a tweaker.

    Well needless to say, she was fired. Every employee and dancer refused to work with her. I had a long talk with the owner who happens to be my best friend and told her all of this and everyone refusing to work with her. It was very stressful for everyone.

    Conclusion: I absolutely hate newbie dancers that cause drama. That think they are better than me because they are younger, because they have gigger boobs, because they think they are prettier and better than me.


    FOR ALL YOU NEWBIES!
    Please respect the dancers that have been ther longer than you. Please watch and learn before trying doing anything that might piss a more experienced dancer off. We were all new at one point, we learned from those who went before us, we are teaching those who come after us.

    Anyone else have problems like this?


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    Default Re: My really long rant, no offense

    No offense to newbies in anyway or form. Or to anyone for that matter. I think the main reason most of this happened to just me, is because I'm not into confrontation. I let it go in one ear and out the other. Sometimes though, you just have to get it off your chest.

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    Whoa that girl is crazy! really rude, also. she must of been super-jealous of you. girls are so competive at times..(just like men, but girls are competive over their beauty, not their brawn). and that makes it even worst when theres money involved!
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    I will let a "new" girl mess up once with me. On the second time, I will pull her aside and let her know what she is doing wrong. Most just apoligize and go on working.

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    well im glad you stood up for yourself... some of these young niave new girls need to watch themselves... They DO NOT I repeaat DO NOT wanna go there.... my rule is 3 strikes your out.......

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    Default Re: My really long rant, no offense

    It just floors me that ANYONE would do what she did, new dancer or not, that's just f$cked up!!!! I consider myself still a newbie and will for quite a while, been dancing at my club for 3 months, I'll tell you, I would never even dream of any of that crap! When I work, I always try to live by the golden rule, do unto others as they would do unto you. I don't understand people. Some newbies may do things out of ignorance-they just don't know what the "unspoken rules are", I'm sure I've done some things w/o knowing it but that girl was doing it on purpose, was a vindictive bitch and obviously jealous. People that are jealous of someone want to be like that person and behave in that way, that's so obvious. Just glad that her ass is fired, nobody like drama!!!!! *rolls eyes* Sorry you went through that!

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    I don't think all young/new girls are like that... maybe just the tweakers. I know that I'd never behave that way if I was new. Like you said, respect!

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    Im new to this and ALL the girls at my club LOVE me. Mostly its because of this site. Im not as stupid and ignorant to the business as most new girls are. And the new girls that came in after me I pulled them aside and gave them a little help with how things run, the rules, the game, ect. I am no way a pro but im glad I had this site to help me out alot.

    One new girl wouldnt hear anything I had to say to help her out. ALL the girls that had been there a while were so pissed off at her. Come to find out she was a hooker anyway. She had this bathingsuit she wore for a outfit and she NEVER had shoes (she always asked to borrow them from other dancers). The girls felt it was disrespectfull since they spend all kinds of money to look decent and they thought she made them look trashy. I can understand that though...
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    I think what happened to you totally sucks, but it happens everywhere. New girls come in and think they have to compete with girls that have been there longer than them, so instead of trying to learn and give respect, they try to better. In the end, they always lose, which is exactly what happened to this girl. Good riddance!

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    I'm confused. Are you talking about creating a separate forum for "younger" dancers or just venting about this girl you worked with? As far a separate forum, I don't really agree with that. Just like you don't want to be judged/pigenholed because of your age (hey, I'm 29 too), I don't think it would be fair for any of us to do the same to anyone else. There are some very mature 18 years olds and some very immature 29 year olds. It's not a matter of age at all-it's how you act and present yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by virgoamm
    I'm confused. Are you talking about creating a separate forum for "younger" dancers or just venting about this girl you worked with? As far a separate forum, I don't really agree with that. Just like you don't want to be judged/pigenholed because of your age (hey, I'm 29 too), I don't think it would be fair for any of us to do the same to anyone else. There are some very mature 18 years olds and some very immature 29 year olds. It's not a matter of age at all-it's how you act and present yourself.

    No, No, No, she was talkign about a thread a long time ago that used to down the older dancers. This was just her rant about the younger dancers. That's all.







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    Oh, really?? I'll have to see if I can find that one...Sorry for getting all hufffy, Gemini_Syn-I completely misunderstood you!

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    I think that dancing is like driving a car... When you learn so much in so little time you get to think that you're very good at it, it usually brings up the feeling that you are so much better too because you learn so quickly. Well... and you start ignoring speed limits and traffic rules (is that a correct term?) because you don't need any rules because you are soooo good, but sooner or later you're going to crash some other car because you just ignored some sign.


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    Default Re: My really long rant, no offense

    I'm not really offended by your rant - just wondering if your rant might be better directed to bitchy or lying or rude or disrespectful dancers as opposed to "young" or "new" dancers. I am an 18 year old who just started dancing and I don't act like that. Its a generalization. Would it make sense if I were to start a thread about "tall dancers" and say there was a few tall dancers at my club who think they are better than me because I am short, and also they lie to mgmt and blame things on me, etc. It seems like every tall dancer I meet is like this so I don't like tall dancers. It just doesn't make sense to me. It doesn't bother me that you posted it or anything, because I know I'm not the type of dancer you were directing to. Just pointing this out.

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