i have this big thing about manners.
i cant stand a person who doesnt say excuse me, sorry or shoves to signal someone who is in their way. i generally expect that people should have some basic manners.in a strip club, im not so sure this is the case.
im sick and fucking tired of dancers and other employees walking right in front of me,cutting me off when im waiting to book in dances (we have like a desk, and a first come first book basis to put dances thru the computer. these girls shove in randomly to get their dance put thru first) never ever saying 'excuse me' or even sorry.
i consider myself a nice dancer generally, i say thank you constantly, i think im polite, i stand back and not push. i dont think it helps me get anywhere. unless you kiss ass in a sc, being polite means nothing. people dont notice that, they notice dancers who suck up 'omg! thats dress is soooo hot!' (omg like your so freaking fake!!!) sometimes i just feel invisible,it sucks.
should i change my attitude towards politness in order to make more money like the other girls? im really not seeing any other solution to this, and ranting will get me nowhere either!


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