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    I feel so bad about what happened tonight. Now I'm not even sure if what I did was right or not

    At my club about half the girls do extras and about half don't. The management has always "overlooked" it before. Whatever, I still make lots of money, I don't care what other girls do in the VIP. So last week one manager tells me, "It's very important that no extras go on in the VIP anymore because we're going on trial. If any customer asks you for sex, I will throw him out. If you hear of any girls doing extras, tell me."

    Then tonight at the beginning of the night, another manager reminds me of this.

    Later a dancer pulls me aside and says, "I've run out of condoms, do you have any?" and I say, "No, sorry... but with the trial and everything you shouldn't really be using them..." and she was just like, "This is my only job and I have to pay my bills!"

    So a little later I'm talking with the manager.. Urgh, now I sort of regret it... And I ask him how serious he is about all this stuff and he replies "VERY serious." And I asked him if he would want to know if I'd heard a rumor, and he said yes.

    So I told him that this dancer asked me for condoms, and that's it. Apparently she saw me talking to him from far away and guessed that that's what we were talking about. So when she sees me in the dressing room she starts screaming at me how I'm a snitch and how she's "gonna mess me up," key my car, etc.

    After she left, the manager told me that he talked to her about it and told her how important this trial is, and that I did nothing wrong and he expects the same behavior out of her.

    Now it's likely, but not certain, that she'll get fired if she keeps doing extras.

    I hate confrontation I wish I hadn't said anything. Was I right? What should I do about this? I'm just kind of scared of her..

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    Default Re: Scary drama

    Morally, it was the right thing to do. How that works out in real life is yet to be determined.

    If she keys your car, and you're willing to say what town it is, I'll see what I can do about recommending a body shop for the paint.

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    I don't blame you for being intimidated because some people take their pride very seriously. However, I am proud that you reported what you heard, that took courage, girl! The girls who give extras are what make the hustle harder for the girls who are trying to just sell dances, because who would want the illusion and fantasy of sex that a dance entertains, when they can have the real thing for a few bucks more. If no one offered extra's, people would buy more dances, and the girls who are selling their bodies and their safety would be able to pay their bills without having treatment for their various STD's be one of their bills. I know reporting one incident doesn't clean up the industry. But if more manager's stopped looking the other way, and more dancers starting reporting, then the Industry could be just honest adult entertainment that was fun for both the customers and the entertainers. I'm just rambling. But I think you did the right thing. Just be careful and find a few of your close friends to help you keep an eye out.

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    Well, look at it this way: our club has a similar policy, and it's enforced...strictly. Though, extras ITC aren't very prevalent, due to the laws here. Anywho, if Girl A does something illegal, and Girl B sees it, and doesn't report it, she can be fired. So, basically, if you were in my club, and another girl heard you two's convo, and you didn't report the condoms girl, you could get fired. Always better safe than sorry, gotta cover your own ass first.
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    Added thought:

    Plus, when you are in the VIP Room, how can you be sexy dancin around on a couch you know some nasty man and a skanky stripper had sex all over.

    "Um, can you hold on just one second.." ::pulls out emergency kit from g-string, lipstick? No...Pepper Spray? No..AH HA! Baby Wipes. {thank gosh I packed those) quickly swipes over couch while holding nose with other hand:: "Okay! Now I'm ready."

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    What you did is great. Good for you. Nothing wrong with keeping yourself out of jail and your club open. And if the bitch keys your car, have her tossed in jail.
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    Thanks so much for your support I think everything will be okay.. either she'll get fired or she'll accept that she can't find fault with what I did and just ignore me.

    Sometimes I wonder whether they're REALLY trying to clean up the club or not.. like, when I asked the manger if he was serious about this, was he lying to me because he has to say that if I bring it up, and secretly wishing that I hadn't brought it up at all?

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    You certainly did the right thing. I used to be a DA, and trust me, there are all sorts of ways to protect one's self from a threatening person. Yes, there are horror stories of them not working, but, on average, they work quite well.

    Also, are you close enough with the club management to get the bouncers on your side? The protect you in there, why not out there?

    In the end, protecting yourself from this crazed wench is just like protecting yourself from a custy that wants too much in the first place. Stand up, don't give an inch. You have stuck to your guns with custys, yes? No extras, and you've been dancing how long? Do the same with the evil wench.

    In the end, don't use this face: use this she'll get this you'll get this

    Siber

    PS Pooka was right on about you keeping the industry clean and real above. Props to both of you.
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    She thought nothing of doing what she "had to do" and neither should you. BRAVO!!!!

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    You did the right thing. How many people work for your club? Now think about that girl getting caught doing extras and putting all of those people out of work. All because she is too selfish to see past the end of her own nose? She had it coming, if you ask me.

    There are plenty of ways to work as a prostitute outside of the club, but it is a lot harder to work as a dancer or bouncer or DJ independently outside of the club.

    See yourself as not only doing the right thing, but as protecting everyone else's job as as well as your own.

    And who cares if the managers are just saying that they need the extras to stop because of LE and not because they have a personal problem. Whatever the reason, that is what they want done. They don't want to lose their jobs, either.


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    what she's doing can cause you to lose your job and maybe even worse, so don't feel bad about reporting it. you have to look out for yourself first.

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    "In the end, don't use this face: use this she'll get this you'll get this " -Siber

    Hahahahahhahaha! That's great, loves it!

    But, contrary to what everyone else on here seems to think, I don't believe in ratting someone out. I think if a girl wants to prostitute, that's her decision and I'm not about to report her to anyone who presumes to have "authority" over her and may fire/humiliate/endanger (by means of the law) her.

    And I do understand there are many potential negative repercussions of having prostitution going on in a strip club. I have experienced these repercussions firsthand. It is sometimes more difficult to make money just dancing when 75% of the girls in the club are willing to do more. However, I would never ever threaten someone else's freedom of choice. That is why I would never rat another girl out.

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    You could just deny saying anything about her to the manager. I'm surprised he didn't just fire her, though.
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    Anona, while I see your point, and while I agree with it on many levels, I must agree with Paris here. While I used to make my living in law enforcement, I do, actually, believe, as you do, that prostitution is a moral choice that should be allowed between consenting adults. I did not mean to imply by referring to said extra-giver as "evil" or "crazed" that what made her "evil" or "crazed" was the giving of extras. Far from it. What caused me to used such words was her behavior in regards to lola.

    However, regardless of how we feel about the morality or necessity of extras they are, technically, illegal. As Paris correctly points out, they can get a club closed, thus screwing up the livelihoods of many people who have nothing to do with the transaction. I believe the point Paris is making, and the point I would make with her now, is why must such a transaction be made in a club when so many other employees of the club want nothing to do with it and it would jeopardize the club itself?

    After all, Anona, I think most of us here wouldn't have a problem with extras, so long as they occured elsewhere.

    Siber

    PS (And especially PS to my fiancee) I do not go to clubs, or engage in extras, 'kay babe? sheesh.
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    Thanks for your support, Siber. I'm not against prostitution -- it's a personal choice -- but when it endangers my club, then it bothers me. I've been at this club for 10 months, and until the last week, everyone has been fine with the extras. I've been asked by the other dancers a dozen times if I have any extra condoms, and I've never said anything about it to anyone else, but this time, it was different. My loyalty is to the managers, not to any of the dancers.

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    I'm all with you, girl!! ^^^^^

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    ^^^Yeah, seriously, be loyal to yourself, not the managers. Many managers are nit to be trusted. You do have to ask yourself, if they wanted to clean it up so much, why didn't he just fire her? I also agree with the above post that is the club is in some kind of leagal trouble, it would be best to not be there at all, for every gril that is open about the extras she does there got to be some that aren't and what if they were to get busted and you were present in the building. Some clubs like to act like they're against extras to new girls but in reality they just want them to keep it to themselves and they'll allow it. Maybe they're required to tell you the rules, bu they don't feel strong enough about enforcing them.

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    This manager has proven to me many times that he's worthy of my trust. He's always stood up for me. If there's one person in that club I can trust, it's him.

    And I'm not a 'new girl' -- I've been at this club longer than 90% of the dancers that are there now, including the one I was talking about in the OP.

    I don't have a lot of options for clubs around here unless I want to drive more than an hour away. Except for one super shitty Spearmint Rhino, mine is the only nude club, and all the girls at the topless bars are making like $200 a night. There's seriously a lot of money at my club. Even with all the drama last night I managed to make over $600. So yeah, I have a lot of incentive to stay at this club as long as I can.

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    Hey, keep at it lola. Remember, everything really is magnified. Yes, Pinkkitten is right. There probably are more dancers out there that aren't as open about their extras as this one, but, on the other hand, there are dancers that want to stand up and do the right thing that don't have your guts and courage.

    There's a big difference between what a person would do and what a person wants to do and knows they should do. Stick to your guns here, lola. I have a feeling that many of your fellow dancers, your managers, and many of those that know you will not just thank you, they'll respect you in all sorts of ways. And you'll deserve it.

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