Sorry this is so long I'm just at a loss and need encouragement/advice...
So I'm 5'8 130 lbs size 5-6. About a month ago I was 145 lbs and a size 6-8. I've been at this club a year and a half and have never had problems or caused problems. A month ago a manager at my club pulled me aside and with 4 or 5 others in the room told me I was getting fat. Fine but tell me in private and tell me more details about it right? I ask if I'm on weight restriction..no.
Ok, so I start eating better and working out anyways. Over the next couple weeks two more managers pulled me aside to tell me I was fat I tell each of them I've been working out and eating better and in these two weeks I had lost 7 lbs.
A week after the last manager talked to me(about 2.5 weeks after the initial talking to) I was leaving to go home wearing jeans and a sweatshirt walked by the main manager of all the clubs in our area and he sent a manager from my club after me. He grabs me in the middle of the floor and says 'youre going to fucking hate me' I ask why and he goes 'you know why' and I asked if i was fired and he tells me 'technically we can't fire you, you're breached, main manager sent me !running! after you to tell you'
So I'm pissed, I leave and call our general manager who tells me he had talked to the main manager telling him I've been losing weight he told him he 'didn't see ANY diffference'. He hadn't seen me on stage that night. He saw me leaving fully clothed carrying 2 bags. It was written down that I still had a week and a half before they were going to breach me for not showing improvement. General manager tells me to lose the weight and come back.
So a couple weeks later I've lost 10 more lbs. doing cardio 60 minutes a day+light weights and eating only vegetables fruits and lean meat. I call my main manager who is now sweet as pie and he sets up a meeting with him the next day. These clubs are 40 minutes away from my house. I make the drive am 15 minutes early and sit and wait an hour. He talks to me (nicely) for all of 5 minutes tells me he needs to see how I look on stage and tells general manager to put me back on the schedule and he'll see how I look on Thursday.
So I feel like I've gotten the run around. Nobodies told me anything but I'm a heiffer for the past month and nobodies told me exactly what needs to happen. I'm worried I'm going to go in on Thursday and he's just going to send me home again even though everybody has been telling me I look a lot better. If he does I'm out $30+ in gas that I don't have to spend and out a lot of time I could've been making money. Theres girls at this club who are larger than I was who carry their weight badly(all in their stomaches) and girls who look very unfortunate and look like they could use a few sandwiches. Theres girls who miss shifts skip out on fees and drink underage. I make money, I show up, I pay fees, I've always been porportional and I feel like he's just suddenly coming down on me from out of nowhere. It's a huge headache, nobody will tell me exactly what they want from me and nobody will tell me why it's suddenly me.
Is this normal of clubs? I'm having a hard time deciphering whether he's being legit with me or if he's just giving me the runaround some more. On one hand he wouldn't have told me to go back thursday if he didn't see a difference but on the other hand I didn't feel I had a problem and neither did the general manager (especially compared to some other girls) and I do look a lot better but I feel he'll still be overly critical of me since suddenly he's been cracking down on me.
Should I chance it or just go to another club? I'm sorry I don't have any pictures I'm sure that would help greatly.



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Well, I'd be glad to meet you!
or dealing with the 3-4 pounds of water weight I always gain during PMS and lose right after . . . I'm about 131 pounds. Muscular and curvy. This is a totally healthy weight.

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