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    First let me say I am very professional and I love my job.

    I've been dancing for about 2 years. I have always been bi, but I kept it under wraps at work, I don't like my business being all over the place. But, here recently, I am really attracted to women at work. I have a great boyfriend, it's not like he's lacking in any department, but I wonder why I'm so into the women at work all of a sudden.

    Is it just me? Or do other women go through this as well?

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    I go thru phases. I will develop various crushes on various other strippers... however I have never and will never go through with it. I don't want to 'shit where i eat' as the saying goes..... you're working in a sexually stimulating environment... it's only natural.

    My bisexuality goes thru phases. I am more hetro than bi yet I won't deny that I have my moments when I totally just love women


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    I call it... Open Minded as opposed to Bisexual.... I flirt like crazy with other dancers and we joke all the time and goof on stage..... but for the most part.... I never act on it. I have been with my man for 7 years (off and on) so, the girl thing would be a dumb reason to screw up my relationship... but... yeah, I can definatly relate.

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    I think something important to consider in your situation is whether your attraction to the other girls is a result of being in what GCG so aptly described as "a sexually stimulating environment," or if it is indicative of some aspect of your inherent sexuality. You say that you have always been bisexual... well, I suppose you ought to consider whether you would truly PREFER to be with a woman (I say this in the value-neutral sense and don't want you to think that I am implying that you should, do, or ought to feel this way. I'm also not implying that you should feel otherwise). Might your recent attraction to the other dancers be a result of your bisexuality that you haven't been indulging in recent years, perhaps due to dissatisfaction in your heterosexual relationship? Or might it be because the other girls are hot, and you think that girls are especially hot sometimes, and you get to see them at their hottest, and that's really rad, but when all's said and done you'd rather be with your man? In short, does your attraction FEEL like a passing thing, or like something you'd want to explore further? If the latter is the case, well then I would encourage you to proceed with caution, but by all means act in accordance with your sexual orientation.

    I'm maybe 20% queer, 80% straight, and am currently in a heterosexual relationship with the sexiest boy in the world. Prior to this, I was in a long-term homosexual relationship, so I can related to the issue of going both ways. Anyway, the last time I danced consistently, I had the pleasure of working with one of the universe's loveliest ladies, a circus performer who moonlighted as a stripper. She was killer on the pole, she had a beautiful face and the coolest handmade circus costumes. She yapped with me about the circus because she realized I was interested, fluffed my hair and loaned me her flashy rhinestone circus costume jewelry, and I stood there feeling like a tongue-tied middle-school boy. It definitely made work a more fun place to go. That said, I would pretty much break up with anyone if this girl wanted to date me, with the exception of my current BF. So I guess what I'm getting at is I realized the extent and limits of my sexual orientation in similar circumstances. Now, what are yours?

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    ^ I'm agreeing a lot with gcg today. I mean, dancers are supposed to be sexually stimulating at some level. If you're bi, you're just going to be drawn to them more than the men in clubs. There may well be the occasional sexy dude in a club, but if there are more sexy dudes in the club than sexy women, time to change clubs. Sexy people that we are attracted to, be we straight, gay or bi, get the juices flowing, and there doesn't have to be anything more to it than that. Isn't that what SCs are all about?

    Yeah, flirt, smile, admire, say "wow," then go home to loving boy. As gcg, and my Italian grandma used to say, don't shit where you eat.

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    I would call myselfe "Bi-Currious" *lol* I dont know what it is but sometimes Im atracted to sertin girls. Not oftin but sometimes..

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    yes I am Bi and I do flaunt it...........
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    Well, I've been into girls a lot longer than guys... and EONS longer than I've been dancing... but yeah, I get more Hit On Girlsat work. I think its the environment.
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    This is very very very very common. Even girls who start out their career "straight" often end up experimenting (if not dating and falling in love with) other dancers. I think it's a natural development when someone who is already open-minded enough to dance naked is surrounded by dozens of gorgeous, like-minded women.

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