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    Default This is really gross.

    Last night at work, I was doing a dance for this guy and it was the very beginning. As I started to get close he says, "Uh, you can't do that." Like an idiot, I ask why. His answer? "I have a colostomy bag."

    Can someone please tell me why a guy would go into a strip club and buy dances while he is wearing a bag of shit?

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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    i wouldn't want to give that guy a bad dance...i can only imagine what the tip would be. ick.

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    ewwwwwww nice to know

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    Once again, I am amazed at what you guys encounter. You earn your bucks!

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    I am guessing that he didn't ENJOY telling you he had a colostomy bag. Maybe it embarassed the hell out of him but he was most likely trying to save you from any ill fate.
    One of my relatives wears a colostomy bag and he's very embarassed about it and refrains from relationships with the other sex -all because he was dealt some lousy fate. I feel for him. Sure it's "gross" but tolerance and understanding go a long way, espescially when some people are unable to control the fate they've been dealt, are TRYING to live a normal life, and are being up front with you.

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    *Sorry to overuse the word "fate," I think I was just emphasizing how sometimes, you cannot control what happens to you, health-wise. If it's in someone's cards to have a colostomy bag, then that's what happens. As long as I'm protected from any spills or accidents, I'm happy someone less fortunate than me is enjoying themself and trying to live a regular life. That's probably why he came in into the club wearing a "shit bag."

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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    Yeah, he likely didn't enjoy that either. He is obviously sick. Just do the airdance.
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    This is going to sound terrible, and I'm not trying to be cruel to those who have to deal with these bags because of health problems...but wouldn't it be great to have access to such a bag when a crazy dancer tries to pick a fight with you?

    *Launch shitbag*

    p.s. I know they're attached to the innocent person. I am just weird....no offense meant towards owners of colostomy bags.

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    ewww that's gross and nast as hell

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    Compassion Please. Imagine if you had to have a colostomy bag.

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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    I don't think it's anywhere near as dirty as dancing for some nasty, super sweaty dirty guy. He was polite in telling you, and was probably embarrassed. It's not like the bag is going to spill all over you, I'm sure they're designed to avoid public breakage.

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    I don't see why you think it is so gross he is a normal person who wanted to pay to enjoy your time he acted like a gentlemen i told you his limitations. I am going to be blunt and say you are way insentsitive it is not gross its a part of life. Grow up please.

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    im sorry about my post earlier....i didnt realize how mean i was i guess....its not his fault, its just life and he was just trying to have some fun for one night....again i apologise to those who may have thought i was being inconsiderate

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    Oh its okay I am glad we could help you to understand sorry i was so blunt its just that i have a little cousin who has to wear one and he will someday be an adult male and your post just struck a cord with me thank you for you last post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaiyla
    Sure it's "gross" but tolerance and understanding go a long way, espescially when some people are unable to control the fate they've been dealt, are TRYING to live a normal life, and are being up front with you.
    I was definitely tolerant. Afterall, I continued the dance, but altered it accordingly. He had been at the club for awhile and had seen the dances going on...if he wanted to be "up front," he should have told me that he preferred a "no contact" dance or a "limited contact" dance. It would have saved us both that moment of embarassment.

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    My intention was not to be insensitive...I totally understand and exhibit compassion, afterall, I have been sick before. I was embarrassed by the situation--I am not a mind reader and would have much rather he had just left all the info out and told me to do an air dance from the beginning.

    Sorry to those who were offended.

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    I don't know about that...if a customer specifically asked me for an airdance without explaining why, it would definitely confuse me. Especially since I work in a club where airdances are nonexistent. It's a hard core grind club, at the very mildest.

    I feel sorry for the man. I'ts not his fault that he has that health problem, and I admire his courage. It can't be very easy to explain to an attractive woman.

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    I'm with the majority of the girls... I'm sure it pained him to tell you that. I truly cannot imagine having one. When I was first diagnosed with ulcerative colitis (at 14), the doctor explained that sometimes, when patients get older, they need a colostomy bag because their colon has to be removed.

    I looked at my mom and said plainly, "I would kill myself instead." So I can only be sympathetic for this guy. Also, they aren't going to burst or leak on you, and he was avoiding any chance by requesting an air dance.

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    And please, also excuse my ignorance for the medical condition(s) that may lead to someone having to use this device. Until today, I was unaware of the fact that someone can use these and lead a normal life. Other than my original post, which may have sounded insensitive (but was truly just ignorant), I believe I handled the situation with class and the utmost respect for the customer's situation.

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    I'm sorry for any offensive post too. Please disregard my previous one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    I'm with the majority of the girls... I'm sure it pained him to tell you that. I truly cannot imagine having one. When I was first diagnosed with ulcerative colitis (at 14), the doctor explained that sometimes, when patients get older, they need a colostomy bag because their colon has to be removed.

    I looked at my mom and said plainly, "I would kill myself instead." So I can only be sympathetic for this guy. Also, they aren't going to burst or leak on you, and he was avoiding any chance by requesting an air dance.
    i remember saying that too, when i was first told i might have to have my implant removed a few years back.

    i guess you learn to live with whatever gets delt. a colon bag would be pretty damn hard to live with. poor guy

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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    I made an insensitive post before, but I deleted it. At first I was grossed out, but then I realized I was being insensitive and the gentleman was probably embarrassed to say something. I realize that some people have health issues beyond their control, and I am lucky that I have a relatively easy life compared to a lot of people. I'm sorry for the thoughtless post I made earlier.

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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    Is just a way of managing a normal life... no reason not to enjoy a dance cos you have Crohns or another bowel disease

    I am well enough atm to manage without surgery thank god however if I had to would hope ppl wouldnt react so badly!!

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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    I once danced for this dude who's in the military and was shot in his kidney or something likt that and had a pee bag (I have no idea what they're called). I didn't think it was gross at all, though. Poor dude. He was super polite and paid me well, on top of it.
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    Default Re: This is really gross.

    I'm interested in Glam's post earlier and Anona's response about just asking for an airdance upfront (and what if he can't, what if air's aren't available, is it embarassing, etc.?) I'm not enitrely sure how colostomy bags work (I've been lucky enough to not need one) but I do know that each woman dances in her own way. Maybe his bag was out of the way and he was hoping a contact dance might avoid it? When it wasn't... and a situation had to be discussed...

    I ask because I recently was diagnosed not with a bowel disease but with epliepsy. Usually, I am fine. Sometimes, I have seizures that wrack my body violently for minutes on end. As a dancer, shit, as a doctor, there is no way you could tell that by looking at me. (luckily, I have never been in a SC, and these have never happened during a contact dance) (or driving)

    But seriously. As dancers, this and Glam and Anona and this above raise the bigger issue, would you like to be told upfront of the health pitfalls of your custys or not? I mean, do you think a custy owes it to you to mention, hey? I might have a seizure here? (If you've ever seen a seizure, heh, you might get hurt if you're on top of that....)

    Whatcha think? Ask up front? Or wait until something happens (or is about to happen) and have the custy tell you?

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