I have been dancing for over 2 years now. I average about $400-$700 any given night, and I work about 3-5 nights a week. I am a full-time student at a 4-year university in Southern California. In 2005 I bought a much-needed new car (a Scion tC, nice but nothing fancy) and then had my boobs done. Other than those I have not really had any huge indulgences, at least not for myself (I spoil my parents, but they deserve it!). I mean I'm not a big shopper, not really into labels, don't take a lot of time off, etc.
*sigh* but lately I have found myself getting totally "caught up." For example, I had my boobs redone in May (bigger). I have become increasingly obsessed with designer purses (bought 3 in the past 2 months), and then today for no apparent reason I went and test-drove a [USED] Lexus. Now that I've had a taste of course I want one(!). My mom lives with me, and although she inherited a bit of money when her father died she has always lived pretty frugally, and she is against it, although she understands the appeal and knows I can afford it.
I guess I feel that I do work hard, in the club and in school, and for maybe a few hundred dollars more (one night's work) I could be driving a way better car. I want feedback from you guys because I am sure I'm not the only one who has gone through this. I don't want to be a label-whore, but as someone who has avoided the typical pitfalls of being a young woman with a lot of money (drugs, alcohol, pregnancy, etc), do I deserve it? Would trading in my reliable car be irresponsible? And for those of you who have succumb to temptation: was it worth it?
As always, thanks in advance for any & all feedback.



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I believe you Dottie and you have my support
still it is an indulgence.


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