I have known many dancers over the years and become just "good friends" for various reasons with 3 in particular OTC. I am secure enough and try and not be jealous even though I DO REALLY CARE about these gals, but understand that it is BUSINESS while they are working and maybe a little PERSONAL while we spend time OTC usually out to eat, etc.. I am to the point where I don't spend any money for dances and definetely not labled a "regular" but more as a "friend" and have told them that I genuinely care about them more than just a "paid grope" and they all at least seem to believe and respect me... BTW, I don't get dances from anyone else while they are working either... My question for the dancers is if I was iterested in taking these "platonic friendships" to the next level how would you go bout it without risking losing these great "friendships"?![]()



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