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    Can you BELIEVE this?!

    http://www.dailytimes.com.pk/default...6-5-2004_pg9_8

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    A Chinese man has divorced and sued his wife for £55,000 after discovering she'd had plastic surgery before they met. Jian Feng, 38, was said to have been "horrified" when she gave birth to an ugly baby daughter. He suspected her of having an affair.

    His wife then confessed to having plastic surgery costing £70,000 in South Korea before they met and showed him a picture of how she used to look.

    He filed for divorce two years after marrying her following a whirlwind romance.

    The Heilongjiang Morning Post said Jian successfully sued for deceit.
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    Wasn't it China where I heard people were having leg-lengthening surgery to be taller and therefore more attractive and successful?

    This sort of thing flies in China because of their gender roles. If it had been the MAN who'd had the surgery, I'd bet my eyeteeth that lawsuit would've been laughed out of court. If it even made it that far

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    That is so sick.. what an asshole.

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    That's fucked up. I wonder how the baby is going to feel if she finds out about this after she is grown up.

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    ^^ Yeah seriously. But also, it was China where people were killing their baby girls, just for being girls. Females aren't very valuable over there it seems.

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    Maybe the ugly genes came from the dad?

    And maybe she'll grow up to be a hottie. With a PhD in biomedical engineering with a specialization in curing the world of shallow, asshole dads.
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    China is a huge country with a wide variance in culture. Yes, female infanticide does happen, but it's mainly limited to rural populations and the result of the one-child policy. China is also struggling because of its enormous population, and there are many poor folks there. There are plenty of Chinese parents that value their daughters.

    The problem is that the issue gets simplified to a "chinese hates female babies," when it's a lot more complex situation that involves poverty and many other factors...
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    Well, the culture that it's evolved from de-values women and fetishizes feminine pain. So, yeah, there's a ton of variation in culture and religion and great art and good people. But still. Some things don't go away in a few generations (or even a hundred generations).



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    actually, im going to be insensitive here. i find it pretty fucking funny!!!

    this woman spent $200k on her looks and didnt tell her husband. shes a liar. im glad he managed to sue for deciet. i feel bad for the kid, but ffs, what kind of woman lies to her husband THAT much,and expects to get away with it?!

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    Oh my God. I can't believe someone would stray like that bc of their child's appearance. That's insane.
    There's so many ppl out there who aren't even fortunate to have kids, & this ass is walking out of his child's life that. Disgusting.

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    In the immortal words of Buford T. Justice...

    "There is no way, NO WAY that you came from MY loins. First thing I'm gonna do when we get home is punch yo momma right in the mouth"

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    wouldn't you be able to tell that some one has had alot of plastic surgery?? like seriously you can tell when some one has had a face lift, boob job etc... but speding something like $100,000.00 on oneself would look overly fake??
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    Well, the culture that it's evolved from de-values women and fetishizes feminine pain.
    Corsets, anyone? I love corsets, mind you, but women used to pass out from vapors and ribs were removed for an unnaturally tiny waist. In the middle ages, women used to bleed themselves to dangerous levels (and suffered) because pale, translucent skin was fashionable. My point is, Western culture didn't always value women and they had their share of fetishizing feminine pain, so our culture, to a degree, evolves from a culture that de-values women and fetishizes female pain, and it shows in different ways. It's not *just* a Chinese thing, it's a worldwide thing- this issue that many cultures have had against women. If our current culture didn't de-value women, we wouldn't be seeing the shit that goes on during rape trials with all the victim-blaming that goes on, even in this country.

    So no, things are not very good anywhere for women in many ways. Again, in China's it's a rural issue that gets made out to be like it's the whole entire country... and also it's a complex issue, while people who really don't know the situation make it out like it's a nationwide and simple problem.

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    Now, now, we all pick people who are attractive to us. This, is spite of not knowing how ugly they, or we, will become with age. In the meantime we need to develop a long-term closeness with the people we choose, and this includes a strong sexual attachment. That is all I can say.
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    i just saw that story on mind of mencia, pretty disrespectful if you ask me.

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    Uh oh, Carlos Mencia got a hold of the story...LOL

    Not a threadjack, but I got the lion's share of looks from my dad, & he's not drop dead gorgeous. Yet I've been able to support my ass on money generated from my looks....So sometimes homely doesn't hold, some genes "flip" for lack of a better term....(This is making me think of Conan O'Brien's "If They Mated" segment where he Photoshops pics of celebrity couples to see what the offspring would look like..Usually awful...LOL)

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    ...genes "flip" for lack of a better term...
    I believe that better term is meiosis. My understanding is that this produces the randomness in offspring, so that all siblings of the same sex and same parents will not be the same. (But genetics is a bit tough to understand without taking a real course.)

    About this situation, some people including men marry to have offspring and this may be moreso in less sophisticated societies where women play a subservient role. Personally I think it is very RUDE, but I can understand where he was coming from. Say a barren couple wants a child and adopts but wants a kid that appears similar to them or has some feature or wants to avoide some features. If an adoption or sperm bank misrepresents (even by legitimate mistake) a particular child, many parents even in this country would be pretty pissed, thought they might go on, accepting their unexpected situation. This is not so far removed from the OP situation, seems to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kittenkat
    China is a huge country with a wide variance in culture. Yes, female infanticide does happen, but it's mainly limited to rural populations and the result of the one-child policy. China is also struggling because of its enormous population, and there are many poor folks there. There are plenty of Chinese parents that value their daughters.

    The problem is that the issue gets simplified to a "chinese hates female babies," when it's a lot more complex situation that involves poverty and many other factors...

    Though I understand their population issues, it still isn't right to limit how many children a woman can have. Forced abortion and infanticide are just as bad as illegalizing abortion. Neither extreme is good. Neither allows the person to choose what to do with their own body.

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    I did not say that I'm in favor of thier population policy, but again, you're missing the point. I'm responding to the simplistic "China hates female babies" comments. Just as the legal status of abortion is a complex issue, so is their population issue. It's a complex issue, and people comment without understanding the complexity of the issue.

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    yeah well surgery or not he should love her for who she is. obviously, ihe only loved her for her looks. Since they're fake, he now has lawsuit for deceit. He was decieved by her fake looks into loving her, and he only loved her for her looks.

    A personality cannot be decieved. That's not what he loved. Sad, huh.

    Regardless if you have surgery or not, there's still a chance you look hotter now than when you were, say, 13. dur.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittenkat
    I did not say that I'm in favor of thier population policy, but again, you're missing the point. I'm responding to the simplistic "China hates female babies" comments. Just as the legal status of abortion is a complex issue, so is their population issue. It's a complex issue, and people comment without understanding the complexity of the issue.
    Sorry, I didn't mean to give you the impression that I felt you agreed with their policies. I was just bringing up another part of the issue. You are right that people do oversimplify the situation.

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