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    I know that this is a totally taboo subject, and I think girls do a good job of hiding any homophobia, but do you think there are strippers out there that are just grossed out about the thought of lesbian sex?

    I danced at a lesbian "bachelor" party on Saturday night, and the ladies tipped very well, and were a lot of fun. I ended up with the party becaused a LOT of other girls passed it over. I drove 150 miles (one way) to go do the party, so you can imagine how many dancers had to of turned it down before the agency asked me (in desperation) if I could go and do the party.

    Also, could latent homophobia be why female customer's get less attention at the clubs? Or is it just the fear of being labeled a "whore" by the female club goers that keeps the dancers at bay?


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    I've danced with a few girls who freak at the thought of lesbians. I dont understand why. Like one night I was looking for a girl to help me with a whipped cream show on stage... I was talking to one and another girl in the changing room freaked and started screaming 'your a lesbian I knew it! Thats so gross how could you do a show like that, you realise your making me look bad you dyke!' I was shocked and didnt know what to say.

    As for the female customer thing... I used to talk to female customers all the time and try and dance for them.. now I will only go up if they show an interest because I had one freak out at me once for talking to her man while she was in the washroom(I didnt know he was there with someone) she pulled the chair out from under me and was about to punch me when the bouncers jumped her... i've been a little iffy to go up to girls since then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    I know that this is a totally taboo subject, and I think girls do a good job of hiding any homophobia, but do you think there are strippers out there that are just grossed out about the thought of lesbian sex?

    I danced at a lesbian "bachelor" party on Saturday night, and the ladies tipped very well, and were a lot of fun. I ended up with the party becaused a LOT of other girls passed it over. I drove 150 miles (one way) to go do the party, so you can imagine how many dancers had to of turned it down before the agency asked me (in desperation) if I could go and do the party.

    Also, could latent homophobia be why female customer's get less attention at the clubs? Or is it just the fear of being labeled a "whore" by the female club goers that keeps the dancers at bay?

    Well, we had that one nut job chick on here not too long ago.... but I think she is an ultra minority in the business. I see a lot of openly bi dancers, bi curious dancers, or "gay for pay" dancers. Lots. Metric tons. Herds of em! I think I've only ever worked with a handful of Blissfully Straight dancers. No girl-girl shows... no dancing for female customers... nada. Very few of them. Sure, they're out there... but I think a lot of them are either not ignorant.. *cough* I mean homophobic, or they have the class to keep it to themselves.
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    I don't dance OTC but if I did, I'd be comfortable and feel safer with a lesbian bacherlor party than with a bunch of drunk frat boys. As far as dancing for women ITC, I've always had fun with it and made $$$. When I used to work nights, I had a few lesbian/bi regulars.

    I've worked days now for about a year and a half and I rarely see women custies during my shift. Once in a while, a group of lesbians will come in and sometimes they're ignored, other times they're lavished with attention. I've noticed that if they are being ignored, we have a lot of newbies/really young girls working. Maybe, they just don't know how to approach them? Now, before anybody gets thier panties in a ruffle, I'm not saying all young girls or noobs are afraid of women/lesbian custies, just an observation at my club.

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    It seems that is the case at my club also. It is the more experienced girls who usually approach women customers. If there are mostly new dancers working a certain night, couples and women can be pretty much ignored. I actually feel more comfortable dancing for women, because for some reason it doesn't creep me out if they touch me, like it does with men. Maybe I'm heterophobic? Haha. I am straight though, slightly leaning towards being bi.

    I think a lot of girls worry about their image too much in my club, and it keeps them from making money. "I won't dance for that fat guy, guy in a wheelchair, lesbian, etc." If you rule out half the people the in the club, then you're the girl in the back complaining about making no money

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    i'm a real honest to god bisexual, but i RARELY tell people in real life. why? because it's not any of their business. this is why i find it funny that when i do double dances with girls, 75% of the time the girl will tell me after that i shouldnt worry about her touching me because she's not a "dyke" or she's not "nasty like that" that it's "just an act".

    i usually bite my tongue.

    just the other day a girl told me i had a great ass and then followed it with "don't worry i'm not a lesbian or anything like that"

    ok.................... i won't "worry".

    it's funny the homophobic shit people will say when they don't know.

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    I'm not homophobic but I don't care to dance for women customers. In my experience they think it's ok to touch and do whatever, plus I feel like I'm crushing them. haha.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    i'm a real honest to god bisexual, but i RARELY tell people in real life. why? because it's not any of their business. this is why i find it funny that when i do double dances with girls, 75% of the time the girl will tell me after that i shouldnt worry about her touching me because she's not a "dyke" or she's not "nasty like that" that it's "just an act".

    i usually bite my tongue.

    just the other day a girl told me i had a great ass and then followed it with "don't worry i'm not a lesbian or anything like that"

    ok.................... i won't "worry".

    it's funny the homophobic shit people will say when they don't know.
    Oh, I totally understand. I am not bi, but most definately gay-for-pay. I will even clarify to other dancers that I'm not doing these girl-girl shows for any other reason than it is fun and pays well. I just don't want a bi and/or gay girl to get the wrong impression and leave me in a position to have to reject her. It was "only" work, not something I do regularly.

    I don't see it as making a homophobic statement, I see it as comunicating to the other dancer that I am only acting, and to not get the wrong idea. I am like this now because a few different times I've had other dancers think I was into them, when really I was into the "act" on stage or at the party or whatever. It sucks to say "No, sorry, I don't swing that way". I lost a good friend who couldn't get over that it was just an act, and she was convinced that we could have a great relationship. I just got tired of telling her no, really, I was just acting for the pay.


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    oh, i don't mind when they say they aren't gay. i just think it's homophobic when they say it in a way that implys to be so would be "gross". i think if they knew, they would say it differently.

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    I'm in Penny's situation. I'm a 'real honest to god' bisexual also (hehe)--As in, have/had relationships with women, etc. But I never ever tell the girls at clubs I work with. A lot of them think it's fun to get wasted and hit on chicks and kiss and stuff but... It's kinda like, if they find out I really like girls (not just on liqour, hah), they freak out and think every thing I do is some overt lesbianism.

    I love the girls I work with, but none of them are my type haha. I don't want to do double dances with them and have them worrying that I'm trying to cop some feels along with the guy. If anything, being bi makes me a little more afraid to be too close with women at work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl
    I'm not homophobic but I don't care to dance for women customers. In my experience they think it's ok to touch and do whatever, plus I feel like I'm crushing them. haha.
    I agree! And I always worry, "Am I crushing her"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by funlatina82
    I agree! And I always worry, "Am I crushing her"?
    I worry about that, too.

    Other than that, sometimes, I have nights where I'm like, "I just can't dance for one more woman." Not because I'm homophobic, it's just that I prefer to dance mainly for men. But I give a killer dance to women!

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    Quote Originally Posted by funlatina82
    I agree! And I always worry, "Am I crushing her"?
    Haha. Women always make me feel big too. When it's a guy you can jump on them and not be gentle at all, women make me feel like a giant. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt them! Plus I always think they must be grossed out by the fact that my boobs have been all over a bunch of people. I might be a little paranoid.
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    I just really don't know HOW to dance for women. I mean, I have danced for them, but I always feel self-concious. I use the same moves that I use on a man, so I don't know if that's what women even want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by funlatina82
    I just really don't know HOW to dance for women. I mean, I have danced for them, but I always feel self-concious. I use the same moves that I use on a man, so I don't know if that's what women even want.
    well, you -are- a woman, so think about what turns you on and try to work that into your dance. the most obvious thing is to pay more attention to your brushing your breasts against hers. also, it depends on the girl. you have to determine wether SHE is turned on by the dance or if she is getting one to turn on a guy she might be with. those are two completely different dances.

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    hmmm, good points!

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    Whilst I have bi-sexual tendancies (not really a true bisexual... just fancy girls every so often.. yes I go thru phases)... I am also "gay for pay" as well. Honestly, I would have loved to do the lesbian party... it would be hell fun! As for female patrons, I'll only approach them after they have made it clear to me in some way that they want to be approached.... stage tips, body language, etc.

    The women who sit v.close to their guy and not with open body language ... yeh.. I will avoid you. As for dancing for them in and of itself... delicious! The women usually smell lovely... and they have soft skin.... and as to how I dance for them... I dance for them as to how I would like to be danced for: sensually.

    Alot of up-close contact unless and not any floor work and/or "pussy shots" (moves where they see my pussy) unless they have indicated as such. You definately can't dance for women like you dance for men...


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    I'm in California, so maybe it's just the state in general, but two girl shows here are just as common as one girl shows. I'm one of those "blissfully" hetero girls who's not even tempted. I mean, when a guy screws me over, I REALLY REALLY WISH I COULD BE GAY OR BI. REALLY. But when faced with a girl there's just no sexual or intimate love urges. -shrug-
    I wanted to clarify something: gay for pay is mock stuff, right? Or are you eating out select partners? I've worked with a few girls who really were gay for pay. they'd only work with one partner and they'd get tested before eating each other out in front of the crowd.
    As for me, I'm grind on my female dance partner, caress her breasts, slow dance with her and act like I'm about to eat her out (or pretend that I Really do by putting my hair over that area so they can't see what I'm doing--not a prefered practice for me.)

    As far as the female custies go, I love them. I've never had a bad time with any of them at either the club or the parties. I used to dance with a partner who stayed away from them because I guess she always got the ones that would call her "whore" or what not. However, my dance partner was also very easily recognized out and about town so I wonder if the negative attention was once the female patrons got outside the situation where it was okay (or encouraged) to love the stripper.

    I like females because they smell good, soft skin, their hair is fun to play with. I too worry about what they think about my germy breasts (because sometimes it's just too busy to clean every couple of guys.) I've only had one or two girls that kind of grossed me out for the typical reasons: sweaty, drunk, short skirts with scary underwear.

    I find that women at parties tend to tip less than men, and that they aren't very intrigued by the pussy.

    My tips for dancing for a woman:
    -lots of eye contact, biting your lip
    -lots of caresing their neck, and ears
    -breath on her cleavage, finger her neckline.
    -run your palms over and around her breasts
    -run your hands down her ribcage and put pressure there
    -run your fingers above her waistband (sometimes hard if there's extra weight)
    -if you can, run your fingers through their hair and as the dance gets more sexually tense, tug at it a little bit more.
    -if she likes that, then for the second or third dance I would use her hair to "force" her to move her head so I could run my nose up her neck and ear while breathing hot air on her.
    -I'll also do the same thing that I occasionally do for the guys (and only some guys) which is run my face up and down their thighs (if they're in pants. wouldn't do it if they're in a skirt) put your mouth over different parts of her thigh and blow a concentrated patch of warm air. Even if she's in jeans she'll get a hot spot. Also, you might bite her thigh gently but enough for her to feel it.
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    There's always an iffy moment when you do a two-girl dance with a girl you don't know too well. Even if both parties involved like girls, there's a big difference between what you do at work for money and what either of you might do on your own time. I can see how a strictly lesbian dancer would be more freaked out by casual girl-on-girl contact in the club than she might be dancing for a man... it's all about boundaries, and I think that work boundaries get more complicated than simple sexual orientation in these situations.

    I'll molest a female customer or another dancer all night long, but I am definitely terrified of crossing a line with them. Just because the last thing I'd want is for anyone to be uncomfortable around me.
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    There's definitely a subtle homophobia that happens in the dancing world. I've had girls do duo shows and double dances with me and then later find out that I'm a lesbian and freak out.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    There's definitely a subtle homophobia that happens in the dancing world. I've had girls do duo shows and double dances with me and then later find out that I'm a lesbian and freak out.
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    I have done some very hot double dances with other girls, and I was once with another girl, that being said, I am definatly NOT bisexual. I firmly believe in trying everything once, and it is through thoes experiences I have decided girls are just not for me. I love going to strip clubs, and watching the girls dance. My boyfriend loves the fact that if we see 2 hot girls walk past, I will be the first to say, wow, did you see that ass? But at strip clubs, I do nto like getting dances from girls. It just does nothing for me. Working in a strip club, the most money I ever made was off a couple. I find 2 different types of couples in strip clubs, the ones who are actualyl haing a great time together, and the couples where the guy begged his girl to go, she is very insecure, jealous, and practcially sits in her guys lap the whole night. This is the couple where if the guy is actually lucky enough to get a dance, she will insist he holds her hand the whole time and give him hell afterward. I have gotten pretty good at telling what couple is what and I will go up to the couples who look comfortable, because I know I will make money off them.
    I dont mind giving dances to other girls, it can be a bit uncomfortable, not knowing what to do, but when you are dancing, you are acting, and its just putting on another show. You are not actually interested in every guy that you dance for, you are pretending. Same goes for the girls. I can put on one hell of a show.

    There are the female customers, Ive had a few, that wore a skirt with no panties, and then I give them a dance only to discover their stuff hanging out. That is just as gross as the guys that wear basketball shorts to the club.

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    i never really understood a dancer being homophobic. i mean we see the dregs of some men and thats ok.she may even have a male gay hairdresser. however if a women has a female lover and works with her thats not?

    years ago i was in a longterm (3 years) committed relationship with a women. when a girl overheard me talking about my girlfriend (who did not dance) she was like ewww now im going to be uncomfortable undressing around you. i was like first off, trust me i dont want you and just becasue im gay doesnt mean i want any pussy thats near me lol.

    i just dont understand how you can work in the sex industry and have such a closed mind.
    no one is making you participate.

    i've been with my husband for 8 years now. i'm still attracted to girls and enjoy my little play for pay times. it gives me my cheap non cheating thrills hehe
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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet

    i've been with my husband for 8 years now. i'm still attracted to girls and enjoy my little pay for play times. it gives me my cheap non cheating thrills hehe

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    homosexuality has such a predatory stereotype in the media, whether it's alfredo cutting your hair with his pee pee touching your arm (bobby collin's standup) or a gay guy on tv getting a crush on every hot guy around them.

    Seriously, ya'all aren't dogs in heat, but until there's more mass media represenation of gay people dating and in couples, heterosexuals are going to feel that it's still okay to discriminate by acting like any same sex gay person wants to get in THEIR pants specifically and will take advantage of any ability to do so -major eye roll-

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