Hello-
I would like your suggestions for finding a club that doesn't book through " the agency" for it's off peak times where I will fit in or at the very least not stick out like a sore thumb. A girl called me weird yesterday which I took offense to. Quirky, kooky, eccentric, I can deal with but WEIRD sort of hurts. Basically I want to get a job where that won't happen...as much because I AM rather odd. Also I dislike being solicited as a prostitute and would like for that to not happen.
Most times I'm at a very chill club that's basically a bar that happens to have dancing girls. The money isn't great, but I'll make that trade-off for a good environment. That's the good bit. Occasionally I am sent out to bars that are NOT my bag namely DV8 and The boom boom room at times when it's effing dead. Most times I am sent there at the last minute and on my day off!!! This is bad news bears and I am tiring of it rapidly. Here is a bit about me. I don't like 99% of all country or RapHop. Metal and industrial give me an instant headache. Yesterday I danced to Tom Petty, The Smiths and a friend's band. Oftentimes I pick the stones or zz top, some van halen, motley crue. Journey is sadly unavailable. I'll wiggle to whatever if need be but my preferences lie along those lines. I think this is smart in an environment filled with middle-aged men, because theoretically at least, this music can take them back to when they were young. Aesthetically I'm pretty decent looking, About 5'6'' and 130 pounds. I often hear that I'm beautiful from customers, even when I'm clothed. My attempts at looking "more like a stripper" were to dye my hair a much lighter blonde and give myself acrylic nails which I've filed into ovals and painted a nice slut red. The overall effect is of a fifties housewife fallen on difficult times. I have precious little "stripper attire" and don't and won't wear the big ol shoes. I'll wear some pretty high heels but I need something without much of a platform;I need something I can move in because I actually dance instead of gyrating languidly between pole gymnastics. Pole tricks are impressive but I lack the upper body strength,fearlessness, and imperviousness to bruising required for such feats.
I'd really like to find one club to dance at where I can be myself with a minimum of sneers from co-workers and sleazy come-on's from patrons. I welcome your suggestions.



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