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    Default Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    At my club, we're allowed to give lap dances anywhere on the floor. If there are empty tables along the walls or in corners, I usually walk my customers back there to give them their dances. It gives us a little more privacy, and it forces him to be more focused on me. Often this helps me sell multiple dances.

    However, I've noticed that lots of girls will dance wherever the guy happens to be sitting. This means that other customers will see them giving a dance, and we all know that custys are more inclined to buy dances from (and give stage tips to) girls that appear to be in demand. The drawback (in my experience, anyway) is that the customer getting the dance is more likely to only buy one.

    Which would you choose?

    I know the obvious solution is to dance out in the open *and* get the customer to buy multiple dances, but that never seems to happen. :] Any advice on making this work would be very welcome.

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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    I actually found that dancing in the open didn't get me any more dances because all of his friends got to see you up close. More or less, all of them got to get a dance for free. I always do my dances privately if I can, and if it went well, I might go back to the table and talk to the other guys and say something like, 'your friend really enjoyed himself, you don't want to be left out do you? or do I get to have my way with you now? etc.

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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    Why don't you do your first dance out in the open and then say 'would you like me to continue back there so we can be a little more private?' and then do your multiple dances at the back. Once you have finished with that customer, come back to the tables and find your next customer - dance at the table for one song and then try and get a second dance elsewhere.

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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    I agree with the girls... Not only does the guys friends see your dance, but so does any other guy looking in your direction. I have a hard time getting more than one dance unless it is in private. This makes the guys at your customers' table think "where the hell is he... and WHAT are they doing!" That way when you get back, you can just give everyone "the look." I always look like I've been bad or give my come-hither look, it almost always gets one of the guys friends to come in the back to see what we are smiling about.

    Also, the other guys in the club will see you going back and forth numerous times, therefore you seem in-demand. I have found that guys are intrigued by a girl who is really busy. If she is busy, she must be worth it! While walking back and forth to the VIP... I look at the other customers I pass by and give them a look too, once they lock eyes with me, oh yea, they are mine!

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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    If I know that they will buy multiples, I suggest a more private part of the club (assuming that the VIP is out of the question).

    "We're doing more than 1, right? Since we are doing at least 2, let's go over to that spot. It's more comfortable and that lets me give you my best dances."

    It works for me because my dances indeed are better in certain spots and I like giving dances.

    For me (and my money), giving dances out in the open is a free show.

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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    it's a free show anyway when you're on stage (at least it is at my club where stage tips are sparse.) I'm not worried about guys seeing my half-naked body for free anymore.

    If a lap dance was just a visual experience, then yeah, I guess all the other guys are getting a free dance. But we all know it's more than that. I've gotten a lot of dances off guys watching. Maybe he's part of their party. I look around and see if anyone is checking me out. I don't think he's thinking, "now I don't have to buy a dance from her because I've seen the goods." More than likely he's curious and wants to know what my dances are like, or just likes my look. Either way, I know who to go to next.

    I will usually ask the guy where he wants to do it. I know....such a tricky way of doing this. All else being equal, I prefer doing it in the middle of the room. it makes the VIP more special and I'm lazy (less walking around...we're already there!) I've closed the sale, now let's get too business. Plus he's less likely to try the, "oh nobody's lookin!" gropey move.

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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    I do it at the table whenever possible.

    It helps delineate the differences between a floor dance and the VIP room. If the man has the opportunity to pay $20 for a mostly private dance in the corner, it's harder to convince him that the VIP is worth it. If he's on the floor in front of six of his buddies, however, there becomes a marked difference between the $20 dances and the $100 dances... which, for my money, is how I like it.
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    Default Re: Better to do a dance in view or somewhere more private?

    I work on momentum, and often find that dancing in the open helps me sell more. Either that or making a bit of show about walking the custies back to the dance area.

    If it's a dance in the open kinda place, I'll scope out and sometimes wink/flirt at whoever's watching and it almost always gets me more dances because the watchers want some too. I do NOT let the guy I'm dancing for know I'm doing this - I do it very slyly while I'm facing away from him, just a fleeting glance/wink/mischievous smile as I'm turning around, etc. I still spend most of the song looking at the guy, but a couple seconds spent smiling in another guy's direction here and there pay off.

    In the places where you dance in a separate area, I'll skake my thing all the way as I walk the guy back to the dance area. And I'll throw some naughty smiles/winks at anyone I can catch eye contact with, all while holding my custy's hand or patting his butt, etc.

    It's about multi-tasking You set up guys for later while you're working on one. To me it doesn't matter whether I dance in the open or in private - I can work with it either way. But I prefer dancing in the open because 1) it's a little safer for me and 2) it gives me a little more time to work the next guy

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