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    Alright, I'm freakin out. I usually get my period sometime between the 1st and 10th of the month, but this month I haven't gotten it yet. What I have had is spotting for about a week now. After I have sex it always bleeds a whole bunch, but just for a few minutes. If I put a tampon in for it, the tamon's clean (or very close to it) when I take it out. In between having sex, there is either no bleeding at all, or just a really light pinkish (discharge almost) when I wipe. Oh I forgot to mention that there is an unpleasant odor too. It's the strongest when I'm having sex and start bleeding. Any ideas what this could be?

    I think the biggest reason I'm freakin out is cause I really really can't be pregnant. I'm soon to be 21 and already have one baby. I'm about to start school in two months and just started dating a new guy. Just before him and I met I had sex with another guy. I don't want to have any problems with whose my baby's daddy. I think if I was pregnant, as much as I am against it, I would have to have an abortion. I just don't want to have to tell the guy I'm with and him not want me to. Ahh, sorry. I know I'm just blabbering and half of this makes no sense, but could someone please shed some light on this situation?
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    Take a test!
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    Please go to a Dr. as soon as possible. Bleeding after sex and having an unpleasant odor could be a sign of an infection or some other type of medical problem. I don't mean to scare you, but it is important to have this checked out especially if you think that there is a chance you could be pregnant.

    http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/men...edaftersex.htm

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    Wow, I really hope none of that is the case. Now I'm really scared. I'm gonna call planned parenthood now to see what they say. Gosh, STD's or cancer??!! I hope it's just a yeast infection!
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    I am sorry, I did not mean to scare you. It is probably something really simple like a yeast infection or maybe even BV. Sometimes when you have a new sex partner it can throw off the ph balance off in you for some reason. Just go to the Dr. just to be on the safe side.

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    the doctor needs to be a priority like everyone else said....hope u figure out something soon

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    definatly take a pg test asap. in pg your blood flow is increased in your female "parts" when you have sex and you bleed a little afterwards, it's probably cervical irritation, meaning he's breaking a few capillaries, it's actually very common. And it is also very possible that the smell is from those lovely pg hormones.

    so i would go to the store and get a test, take it. if it's negative, then call the dr and go in for an exam.





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    Id say you have BV and the reason you are bleeding after sex is because of the infection, although it shouldnt stop your period.

    I would go to a doctor asap.

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    did u use any kind of birth control?

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    There's an accupressure point (Spleen 6) that will usually cause misscarriage - there's a picture of it here http://www.acuxo.com/meridianPicture...eridian=Spleen

    If you decide to use it just spend 5 or 10 minutes massaging it two or three times a day - both times I've used it (not on myself) it's worked within 2 days, but some people say it can take up to a week.



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    Sounds like bacterial vaginosis to me, and a possible pregnancy. Go to the doctor. Don't use Monistat or any of that stuff - if you have BV instead of a yeast infection, it'll make it so much worse.

    And for heaven's sake, be more careful from now on!

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    Ok yea, so I figured out what was going on. SOrry it's taken me so long but I just got my internet back after moving. So the dude I was dating told me he had been tested and yada yada, and me being the dumb, naive idiot that I am, I believed him. SO we're dating and then my ex comes back into my life. We sleep together. Oh and by the way, I wasn't pergnant and everything else went away once I got my period and I had an appt to go to the doc for testing just to make sure, but I was pretty sure I was ok cause the dude I was seeing always used a condom. So things are great. My ex(not the psycho one I've talked about before) and I were getting things back on track and I was so happy. So then I get my test results back......Chlamydia!! I just couldn't understand how, but the lady said it's one of the most contagious std's and that condoms don't always protect you from it, plus you can get it from oral sex, so I'm assuming that's how it happened. So of course I called my ex that I was seeing again and told him what happened. Well surprise surprise, he wants nothing to do with me now. He said he could never look at me again. The thing that gets me is, he knew I was with someone, knew there was a risk, and still continued to sleep with me and get things back on track, so how can he just stop talking to me when something goes wrong. I mean, I already feel like a dirty, terrible person and you're going through the same thing, so why can't we just get through it together. I don't know, it just sucks.
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    You will get through it. Chalk it up to experience and never take anyone's word when they say there are "clean". The guy who is upset with you is probably also angry at himself for not protecting himself... you and your partners each share half the responsibility for keeping yourselves safe.

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    Its amazing how some people assue that STDs just sorta happen on their own like no one gave it to you.

    I could understand him being upset..because its a shock but still he could have handled it better. at least now you know what kinda person he is.

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    I know, and that's what I also find unfair. It is just as much his fault as it is mine....but it's mostly the guy who lied. He said he was very upset that I moved on so quickly. It took me 2 months before I finally moved on, which he told me to do. He broke up with me, told me there was no point in even talking to me as friends, told me to move on, and then gets mad when I actually move on. He said 2 months was too short of a time, and that he wasn't with anyone else because he cared for me so much. That's not fair to me I don't think. Maybe one day he'll forgive me and realize it isn't as much my fault as he's making it out to be.
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    Well,you can treat the chlamydia,at least you wasnt pregnant since you didnt want to be.hope everything works out ok.

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    When a guy says he was tested ASK FOR THE PAPERS. I fucking don't care how much of a 'buzzkill' it is to ask for it.

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    This guy sounds very manipulative to me. I had similar things happen to me. Once it's over and it's over and to play mind games that "you shouldn't have been with someone afterwards" is bull shit, ESPECIALLY if he was the one who broke up with you! I unwittingly gave someone an STD a long time ago and he has never been able to forgive me. I was feeling very guilty for a long time, but then I hardened towards him. Sleeping with someone is always a risk and both of us were quite sexually active at the time, so blaming me because he chose to have sex with me was a load of crap. It's exactly the same in your situation. He's just looking for an excuse to make you feel bad.

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    So what happened with you if you don't mind me asking? See, I figured he was just really hurt by the fact I was with someone else. But seriously, two months? I mean come on, it's not that short a period of time when you don't talk to someone at all for 60 days. I mean, I was really freakin hurt and I was tired of it, so I said screw it and started having fun. Yeah, I ended up meeting someone, and yea I met a bad person and they lied and gave me something. Yea, it sucks, but the risk is always there like you said. He didn't know I had been with someone else the first time we slept together, which was the first time we had seen eachother since he broke up with me, but I didn't feel the need to tell him since we had used protection. I mean, its not like you talk about that stuff right away. He asked me right afterwards and I told him the truth. He was pissed at first, but then called me and apologized for it. Then we were working things out and things were great. We obviously kept sleeping together, but he knew the whole time that there was a risk, a small one, but it was there, and it didn't stop him. He was fine til I got the test back. I knew he was gonna be upset, and I figured he wouldn't want to talk for a while, but I didn't know he meant forever. It's only been a week and a half so I'm hoping that iff I call him in a week or so he'll be willing to talk and maybe willing to forgive me. It's just screwed up cause I know if the tables were turned, I would forgive him cause I would know its not all his fault.

    Lillith~ Obviously you live and learn. I'm just glad I learned at 20 and not later. I know not to trust people so easily, which is something I've always had a problem. But yeah, I could have gotten AIDS, except I used a condom every time, so the chance would have been as likely as everyone else who uses a condom.

    Everyone just be aware that there are diseases you can get when you use them.
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