I love my job, and I truely have fun with the men that I encounter at work. But why is it so important to know my Real Name?
I love my job, and I truely have fun with the men that I encounter at work. But why is it so important to know my Real Name?
just make up a fake "real name" and everything is good still.....and remember ur fake "real name" when other people ask you
Yep, pick a fake "real" name and stick with it. Thats something you dont want to mess up on, cause if your caught in that lie, you've just broken the trust the custie thought he had with you... bye bye money...
Sometimes, I asked because we would have a interesting conversation or we just connect.
Sometimes they just tell me their real name. Other times I just don't care to ask or know, it all depends on the girl.
Either way it is no big deal to me.
I have club name myself.![]()
ive always wondered if guys that came in had "club names" too......lol ^^^^^ i have met a mike like every friday for the past 4 weeks ....... oh but one thing thats gets me is when i am introducing myself outside of work i almost say my stage name, then i almost say my fake "real" name, and then i just say my real name....but its always awkward cause it took so long to say my real freaking name.....lol its funny though
I usually don't want to know. It's dorky, it's like knowing who a superhero is..takes away the magic of it. A Cherry or a Candy or a Star is just a beautiful goddess, waiting for me to come in, to be amazing, and brighten my day.
Thinking and knowing that they probably sleep 'till noon, watch the same crappy soap operas I do and have a mere mortal's life, well, that's not the fantasy.
I've used a "fake" name when I'm out of town, usually my middle name or somebody I resemble. I'm too well known to give a fake name locally.
My real name is Luke. I don't think its neccasary to make up a name.
Blondi, who is that in your avatar?
^^^^^its me......
no just kidding its avril lavigne (i love her) lol




There are a number of things about a dancer that are absolutely none of a customer's business. That includes real names, where they live, their marriage/dating status, their sexuality, and how much they make a night/week/month/year. The "whys" are not really important, because the questions should not be asked in the first place.Originally Posted by Christion
And thats all I have to say about that.
i wish all customers were like u then....goooosh
Such a pretty pic of her.Originally Posted by blondi553
Ive seen it as avatars in other forums.



Just remember your fake "real" name though. I don't know how many times I have been caught in that lie!
"Ooooh, My dancer name's Bianca but my real name is Candy Cup-Cakes...........Honest!"
For some reason that makes them shut & change topics





Kitten, I'd wager some celebrity will name their child Candy Cup-Cakes soon enough!
It was an odd thing one time I found a comic site that insisted you used your real name, rather than choosing one. I did not tally long there. Yes I could have chosen a fake real name; of course I was there to sell so it would have been hard and against their rules.
I’ve been on the net long enough not to worry about some names. Between net exposure and D&D it just does not matter to me. In the end are you sure you want to know?
Do some think they can find the real you by having a real name? – A double-edged question, the real you being both metaphoric and literal. The results varying upon the intent of the one asking.
We all have our masks, and sometimes a name is a mask, it may inhibit, or it may liberate. That is for the wearer to decide.
Remember the fantasy leaves when you exit from the realms of twilight. The memories remain, but do you know what you bartered for those memories? When you two are outside, more than likely if you have a chance encounter you will be but two ships passing in the night. Perhaps a smile exchanged, but usually not more. Understand the fantasy, and you need not a real name, for the name that is chosen is real for that night, and may just show you something others that know the 'real' name do not see.
Last edited by cherryripeboy; 08-09-2006 at 05:25 AM.
One more cup of coffee for the road,
One more cup of coffee 'fore I go
To the valley below....
Slowly moseying my way to the exit.
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Well, of course the questions should never be asked. That's rude, pushy and obnoxious. It's also a prime violation of SC etiquette.Originally Posted by Prester_John
On all personal issues, the dancer takes the lead, of course. So if she volunteers any of this information -- including her phone number; how that got excluded I'll never know! -- then I would disagree that it's "absolutely none of the customer's business."
As you know, there are those of us who socialize with dancers outside the club, visit each other's houses, throw parties together, have our kids play together, do birthday parties, etc. As long as the dancer wants you to be part of her life, and you want to follow her lead, I see nothing wrong with that.
Law #2: Dancers always do the choosing.



Not to thread jack... but I am actually thinking that I am just going to start going by my real name... Do you guys think that is a really bad idea? I
My ATF has changed her name three times since I've been patronizing her; I never use her real name (though I've long known it) and not just because I wish to keep her name private, but because I've never had her permission to call her by her given name.
It's just basic SC courtesy lost on 90% of customers.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.

my name is Katrina, everybody in club is : "just like the HURICANE?"
fuck.. i should chnge it to something else then i guees!
any ideas?



Originally Posted by moonmind
Keep it and play that song..... "Rock ya like a hurricane."
Course... I am an insensitive bitch sometimes...
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LOL!
how about Debbie Do Dick?




how about calling yourself Xylophone Carbuncle?Originally Posted by moonmind



Definetly agree with the other guys. I think asking a dancer for her real name is very rude and I really just don't get why so many guys feel the need to ask. For most random dancers I meet I don't even wonder what their real names are let alone feel the need to ask.
I've learned the real names of several dancers over the years. When the fav told me her real name and gave me permission to use it I felt and still feel very special in a way. When I'm in her club though I use her stage name; well maybe not during some really hot private dances.
How do you find out if a dancer is dancing a certain day? If she has a fake name wouldnt it be hard to ask?
Many of the guys who ask just don't understand the reason why it's necessary. Mostly it's curiosity about a "rule" they don't understand.
Then if they ever meet a guy or gal who is a potential stalker they will immediately understand. Then again, for a few guys, it's because they are mild stalkers.
It took a while, but I now realize I'm no longer even interested in the dancer's personal details. A few have told me them, but I have developed a natural response to blank them out. How freaked out would she be if I ask her a question about her neighborhood and she had forgotten she told me where she lived? I was really embarrased when a dancer who I got to know pretty well started discussing the latin construction of her real name out of the blue - I guess she'd told it to me a few times, but I naturally blanked and couldn't bring myself to ask her what it was.
And I don't expect any of them to remember my name. I've considered adopting my own "stage" name for the club and jokingly ask gals what I should use.
"Life is not about the number of breaths you take.
It's about those moments which leave you breathless."





After the auditioning and paperwork, everyone from the busboy to the GM uses your stage name. When people find out what I do where I work, they always ask me if I know so-in-so. I always say, "if it's her real name, no."Originally Posted by Sperkzy
I do have a couple of customers that know my real name. One I've known for three years and he's one of those guys who's everyones regular and has been comming to the club since it opened 25 years ago. The other one is a hair cut client of mine as well as SC patron.
Other than them, I don't give out my real name but I don't give a fake one either. I'll either say, "I answer to Mia" or "Luscious".
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