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    Hey girls...I have some random ?'s and I apologize if I am submitting this in the wrong place or if this is to many ?'s at once.

    I just started dancing...have worked 1 night so this is all new to me.

    As far as names go are these stupid one's.... Aurora, Mia, Elektra, Jewell, Laila....I've danced under Elektra theoe ight I worked but I am not sure if it is stupid or silly because alot ofthe girls have really ' real ' ames..if taht makes any sence.

    As far as dancing and pole stuff....is it better to take classes at a gym or dance studio or just to watch and learn?...I'm a veryvery slow learner. Any fast easy tips on what to do and what NOT to do.

    A good lap dance...how the heck do I give oe? My first one I almost stepped on the guys foot ....these are the rules..Both feet on floor, 6 inch rule at all times, no grinding, no sitting on lap, no straddeling, no contact from knees to shoulders....I'm so confused!!


    I am veryvery shy, I have read alot of the tips o how to approach me but is there any trick to fake self confidence or swallow shyness?



    I apologize again if this is not ok to post but I have to work tonight and im so nervous. I know this is what I want to do cause afterwards I realize how much I enjoyed myself its just the initial. Thanks girls!!

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    Default Re: Random newbie ?'s

    My answers = My opinions. May or may not be right.

    --Aurora, Mia, Elektra, Jewell, Laila....

    Personally, I'm not feeling Elektra. It sounds too fake. Probably not a big deal, but I find I get a lot more 'real name' questions and 'strippers are liars' debates when I have a noticeably fake sounding name.

    --I'm a very very slow learner. Any fast easy tips on what to do and what NOT to do.

    I would say just watch, learn and try unless you are so paranoid about it that it will effect your confidence. Besides, if anyone notices, you can always use the 'new dancer' line on guys, they love new girls. Pole tricks aren't necessary, guys don't seem to care 90 percent of the time. Otherwise, just move slow, I mean, make a CONSCIENCE DECISION while you are dancing to dance slower.

    --A good lap dance...how the heck do I give oe?

    I found this post to be very helpful: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...545#post538545

    --I am veryvery shy, I have read alot of the tips o how to approach me but is there any trick to fake self confidence or swallow shyness?

    I always tell new girls... Remember. The club is YOUR home and YOUR place of employment. The men who come in are visitors. You already have the confidence to get nakes and talk to strangers after you do it.. So embelish it and live it.
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    Thank You Thank You Thank You!!!

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    Mia's a fuckin' rockin' Name!!!

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    Choose a name that YOU feel comfortable with, do you feel like an Electra? We have an Electra at my club and she does really well, but there aint nothing shy about her and her stage shows are jaw dropping. You say your shy and your prob really cute so go with a name that represents that.

    As far as dancing goes just watch other girls and practice at home in the mirror, go slow and use your hands on your body, think 'sensual'. You will pick up pole dancing in time and build up the strength you need to pull some of those moves and positions..... just start out with moving around it, swinging around it... it's kind of like your dance partner on stage.

    Lap dances again you will pick up and watch other girls. Go slow and remember where your hands and eyes go on your body, his will too. Practice makes perfect babe, Goodluck x

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    Thanks girls!!!! I deceided to stick w/ Electra...guys seem to love it. Tonight was sooo much better!!! I'm slowly but surely getting better and im a watch and learn kinda girl so its helping. Thus far private daces are going great! Thank you all for your reponses...You girls ROCK!!!

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    I like Jewell as far as pole tricks.. lol if u can take classes AND watch or get tips from other girls.. if you can.. i dont know many pole tricks because no one would teach me ( some of the girls ive worked with werent verry nice ) I have been looking for a strip class.. i would also take belly danceing lessons if u can they come in handy i loved it.
    + The S factor book is awsome!!! i got it because i have heard so much good stuff about it on the forum. As for lap dances.. just stand a little away fromt he guy and shake what yo moma gave ya!! hahahaha.. just feel the music. good luck girly u sound verry sweet! dont be afraid to ask questions because i found this forum SOOO great. I love it and all the girls! <3

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    Just random update....thigs are going very well, the shy timid p[art os me usually oly is there for about an hour or 2 compared to half the night a week ago. i bought a pole for my house to practice on and I am going to look into belly dancing, I danced for yeeaarrss as a kid from 3 till 16 but that seems like forever ago so a refresher course is in need...hehe. I keep hearing about the " s" factor...where can I get it?Thank you all again for your imput and kind words!!!

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    U can get " the S factor" Book and DVD from amazon.com thats where i got mine

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    how much did your pole cost you to put in your house?????

    elektras hot!! good for you!!!
    "Tell people whatever they want to hear, then do whatever you want"

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