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    Okay, so there's this guy who's apparently been coming to the club I work at for like three years or something. I see him there all the time and all the girls love him. There's one girl in particular who sits with him all the time so I've never talked to him. I saw him there this week when she wasn't working so I went up and started talking to him. He told me his story and how the other girl keeps him from talking to anyone else and she's really possessive and he doesn't like that about her. Well, he's been coming in to see me (she's been out of town. I think she has one more week before she comes back) and pays me well and buys me drinks and he's just really fun to talk to. He tells me how much he likes me and I'm telling him to keep it to himself so that he doesn't cause any problems with the other girl. I told him I've only been working there a few months and I really don't need any drama. I'm wondering if there are going to be some problems when she comes back. I don't see why I should stop spending time with/dancing for a good customer if HE wants me to dance for him. What do you guys think?

    One time, this girl (who's since gotten fired... and who was friends with above girl) got super pissed at me because I danced with some guy she'd been talking to earlier in the day (she was dancing with someone else at the time and he never got dances with her and had been trying to trap me into a convo every time I came around for my dollar). So, I don't want to come across as a "customer stealer" at this club. It just seems like all the girls freak if I talk to "their customer" for too long. UGH!
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    UGHHHH! I hate that bullshit! I never keep a customer from inviting another girl to sit with us or get pissed when he decides to get dances from someone else, too. It's his $$$ and his desicion on who and what he spends it on!

    As long as you're not swooping in and outright being rude and shady, deliberately trying to steal other's custies, then who cares? Girls who get possesive and jealous with thier custies only end up hurting themselves! It's just palin unprofessional!

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    There is one major rule I love about my club...

    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MY CUSTOMER!!

    Its a huge rule and I think it should be everywhere.

    This customer should tell the girl hes not interested in her anymore..

    As for drama fuck it. Your there to make money, not friends.

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    It sounds like he's a regular who understands the game. He needs to cut off the other dancer from his ATM before he can be one for you. Find out her schedule and let him know the times in your schedule when she isn't there.

    Or, just wink at him from time to time when she's parked next to him. Eventually he'll figure out a way to lose her.


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    ^ That's my plan. She's roomies with a waitress who works a lot there. He told me she calls him and tells him she always knows when he's there and if he's with anyone else and who he's allowed to talk with. He told me that before I ever talked to him, he was watching me on stage and she poked him in the ribs and told him not to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    ^ That's my plan. She's roomies with a waitress who works a lot there. He told me she calls him and tells him she always knows when he's there and if he's with anyone else and who he's allowed to talk with. He told me that before I ever talked to him, he was watching me on stage and she poked him in the ribs and told him not to.
    He needs to become friends with a bouncer or bartender to give him some power in the club.


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    Or.....since you're in SD and there are about five different clubs there, why not work there, but work at a second place as well. It's stupid and there isn't such a thing as MY CUSTOMER but this girl could make your work place a living hell if she puts her mind to it (and, if she's ignoring a customer's desires that much, she probably doesn't have that much going for her so she will spend extra time trying to make you miserable.)

    I'd say that if the guy is a career clubber and not one who's trying to get sex outside the club (oh so rare) then try OTC time where he pays you for your time. I'd even say you both should go to another strip club as customers and have him pay you for your time but you both get dances ???

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    whoa...this girl sounds kinda psycho, shes behaving like a jelous girlfirend; not a professional. anyway, i agree with your plan, a little wink, flash a smile. maybe when you are on stage look at him a little extra...and if she leaves just stop by..say hello..but keep it breif so neither of you get in trouble. its up to him to call of his relationship with this other dancer (kinda....his problem, not yours thing).

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    He said he'd visit me at the peepshow I work at... But I'm not there more than once every week or two.

    Do you guys think HE'S just a drama-starter?? I'm always suspicious of custy's starting drama... So I don't know if I'm just paranoid?
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    That irritates me big time! it's like the dancer is married to a customer or something. It is the custys choice who he wants, that dancer must be very insecure about herself to get pissed off if he talks to anyone else.

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    Just beware, strippers aren't the only ones who start drama.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    Do you guys think HE'S just a drama-starter?? I'm always suspicious of custy's starting drama... So I don't know if I'm just paranoid?
    I think just about everyone likes a little drama when it's centered around themselves.

    Could be he's trying to play you against each other, or maybe not. This is why it's up to him to end the ITC relationship with the other dancer.

    You're not paranoid, but he's probably stalking you.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    Okay, so there's this guy who's apparently been coming to the club I work at for like three years or something. I see him there all the time and all the girls love him. There's one girl in particular who sits with him all the time so I've never talked to him. I saw him there this week when she wasn't working so I went up and started talking to him. He told me his story and how the other girl keeps him from talking to anyone else and she's really possessive and he doesn't like that about her. Well, he's been coming in to see me (she's been out of town. I think she has one more week before she comes back) and pays me well and buys me drinks and he's just really fun to talk to. He tells me how much he likes me and I'm telling him to keep it to himself so that he doesn't cause any problems with the other girl. I told him I've only been working there a few months and I really don't need any drama. I'm wondering if there are going to be some problems when she comes back. I don't see why I should stop spending time with/dancing for a good customer if HE wants me to dance for him. What do you guys think?
    Wow she must be laying some potent SS on him if he is putting up with that crap but it sounds like he really wants out of this dysfunctional dynamic.... she's probably a total psycho though so who knows how she'll react... sounds like definite drama at the very least.

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    bella21 if you were in houston & my money pit was out of town i'd think you were talking about me. you almost described my girl to a t. with her i get what i consider the hottest girl in the club & for the last couple of years she hasn't had any competition. there are two girls there now who could give her a run for her money looks wise but not with their dancing ability. she's also very economical with me, i get her from about 9 to close & only spend about $200 on her & $150 in drinks once a week at the most. but she can also be a real pain in the ass. she is very jealous & gets pissed if i get dances from anyone else & her friends call her if i come into the club when shes not working.

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    Bella, Hi!! I think I know who you're talking about.
    Bella, I've had the same kind of drama at this club, only it involved someone else. Some of the girls there do not understand that IT IS THE CUSTOMER'S CALL as far as who he chooses to spend his time/money/energy with. Don't these girls realize THAT THEY ARE NOT MARRIED TO THE CUSTOMER???! ARRGHHH!!! They are stuck in this negative mentality that there is not enough to go around, which is completely untrue. There IS enough. Don't these girls realize that bad vibes do not make money???!! Hellooooo!!!

    If she is with the customer, dont cause any drama, just collect your tip and leave 'em alone. If he is at the club and open to having you at his table, then by all means he is fair game.

    Some of the girls at that club need a reality check. Sheesh!!!!
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    By the way, does his name start with P? Is it P*$#s? Is his hair a frizzy poodle-mop mess?
    Watch out for him. He can cause drama. He likes it when girls fight over him. Boosts his ego or something.
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    ^ Right on the money, Sunshine. Okay, good to know! Whew!
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    the purpose of your job is to entertain men and to take their money. take as much of it as you can. the better you are at doing this, the better you will be at your job. if a man makes the decision to pay you for your entertainment, there is absolutely no good reason why you should not take his money. if you are professional and courteous and stay out of drama, nobody will give you any shit in the longrun. at least, that has been my experience.

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    Bella, Poodle-Hair guy has a reputation of creating drama between dancers in the club. Does it so that dancers "fight" over him. It's how he boosts his ego. Take what he says with a grain of salt. Ask some of the other girls if he has done this before (the girls who know him well), and I am sure they'll say yes.
    But there ARE girls there who are unprofessional and get mad if you chat with "their" customer. These chicks need a reality check. Seriously.
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    i hate that kind of drama........none of these guys that come in are owned

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