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    How many customers have you had fall in love with you - that you know of, at least? If anyone has seen that movie Closer - that one where Natalie Portman is a stripper who always wears wigs - there's a scene where the Doctor says to her something about customers crying their eyes out over her and she says its an "occupational hazard". That's what made me wonder so I thought I'd just ask.

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    Only 2...it's the smile I tell ya!







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    ^ Who could not fall in love with CK?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    Only 2...it's the smile I tell ya!
    I love CK more then I love air, bagels, and Spiderman Underoos.

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    Once. Sad sad thing. Sad guy. He didn't care for me, rather the vainglorious fantasy of having a street urchin f*ckdoll.

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    Which night of the week are we talkin'?


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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    street urchin f*ckdoll.
    That sounds like fun!
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    Many. Many, many. But I don't always see it as an "occupational hazard." More like giving some lonely people the sense of connection they seek... and maybe even using my influence to inspire them.

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    12. This month.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    ^ Who could not fall in love with CK?

    Seriously dude. That girl is gorgeous.
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    All of my customers fall in love with me.

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    None, but I get at least five a night who say they are. The best are the ones who say they love me before I can even tell them my name.

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    ive had a couple....its funny..........oh and btw i LOVE that movie "closer".....and im watching "derailed" right now that has the same actor in it...what a coincidence

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    Quote Originally Posted by FireTiger
    Many. Many, many. But I don't always see it as an "occupational hazard." More like giving some lonely people the sense of connection they seek... and maybe even using my influence to inspire them.
    Interesting take on things, FT. You're not alone in framing your influence this way; a few of the seasoned (olders, smarter) dancers I know express the same idea. Who knows: Maybe you DO help some of the hopeless romantic custies. Nice to think so.

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    Just One.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor
    Interesting take on things, FT. You're not alone in framing your influence this way; a few of the seasoned (olders, smarter) dancers I know express the same idea. Who knows: Maybe you DO help some of the hopeless romantic custies. Nice to think so.
    lol, maybe you're right. Maybe I tell myself this to justify taking their money... but I think I'm one of the few who DOES have a heart.

    Here's an example: I recently acquired a customer who is one twisted mf. I highly suspect he beats his wife. I don't know if he realizes I'm aware of this, but I've casually mentioned in conversation that I strongly disapprove of men hitting women because males are larger and intimidating than females. I may have also embellished some details of my childhood misery to drive home the effect that abusive homes have on children. I will never know for sure, but I hope that his family is a little better off because he values my perspective and takes more responsibility for his actions. Am I delusional?

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    Definitely happened a few times over the years.Made things very uncomfortable.

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    Only had 2 tell me they were. And only had 1 break into tears in the VIP.

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    Well of all the girls who have danced for me over the years, I only fell in love with one. I respected them all. But loved only one. Because she is as special with her clothes on as she is with them off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday
    Only had 2 tell me they were. And only had 1 break into tears in the VIP.

    Whoa.

    You go girl.
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    i think what THEY thought was "in love" i wouldn't personally consider "in love" but i'd have to say 2 people... and i've been dancing for a little over a year.

    seeing a guy start to cry during a lap dance is.................. uncomfortable. esp. when he's married.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    i think what THEY thought was "in love" i wouldn't personally consider "in love" but i'd have to say 2 people... and i've been dancing for a little over a year.
    I thought of putting that in the initial post. How many have fallen in love with you, or did something they called falling in love with you. I had to get schooled myself by a woman - not a dancer but a woman I worked with - that "we could be totally different people outside of here". I'm assuming that's why you don't consider it really being "in love".

    EDIT: just thought of something. Has this ever happened with a customer that maybe you might consider dating, but the fact that he talks about being "in love" with you before you've even been out on a date scares you away, because to "fall in love" with a woman that quickly, he must be clingy, needy, etc?
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    Before I moved to Vegas, at my old club, I had this guy come in twice a week for a VIP room. I think he was a little slow, he was in his 30's, lived at home, and his "work" was watching sports ALL the time to try to get on this game show.
    He would come in the club for his VIp, and he honestly asked me once if this was making love. As I would dance for him( no contact) he would say ohh, ahhh, yeah....like he was imitating sex he saw on tv. ANyway, when I moved, on my last day at work, he showed up, gave me an envelope, he had written me a 7 page letter. He also gave me a going away gift. a 10 dollar gift certificate.

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    Well, there are always the guys that say "i love you, marry me!!" but you know they're half kidding. I had a reg come in yesterday that I hadn't seen for awhile, and he was all depressed and apologizing. (and hard to understand because he speaks little english) Telling me he'd been dreaming about me and had fallen in love with me and that he was sorry....

    Totally creeped me out
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    I had one customer(Billy) back when I was 18 that did fall in love with me...hard. we did first develop a friendship, even hung out OTC. Billy really was a great guy, but just not my type to date. We were friends for years, he met my family and I met his. He was always asking me to be his girlfriend. Maybe I should have given him a chance in hind sight. But I was too afraid of fucking up the friendship if things didn't work out. He even came to my wedding when I was married the first time. It broke my heart when Billy turned to my Grandpa(who walked me down the aisle as I have no dad) and said "That should be me standing beside her."
    Needless to say he was the first one I called when the marriage was over. I considered him my best friend. Now we haven't spoken in three years since I have been with Troy. His heart was broken, and from what I hear still is. Okay, now I have just made myself feel like crap!
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