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    Sad i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    i have worked a as a waitress in a strip club for a while now. after a lot of consideration and MUCH reading of this board i decided i wanted to try dancing. i spoke to my managaer about it a week ago and the general concensus was that i was to audition next week, although we hadn't sorted out a date.

    now last night when i was at work one of the managers tell me the main manager doesn't actually want me to audition because of my tattoos.
    i have a full half sleeve of tattoos, which i think are very well done, completely inoffensive and i have a sort of unusual look, i'm very tall and slim, but have had a lot of men say oh you shold be a dancer or commenting how much they love my tattoos.

    so i really need to call up my manager and argue my case but i don't really know what to say to him.
    i am sorta upset because i had been led to believe that i was basically going to be allowed to dance there and i was totally up for the audition and everything and now this?!

    any suggestions would be awesome. i wanna get it sorted as soon as possible

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    Some clubs are really anti tattoo... what I find strange about this situation is that you work for them already.... I am not sure if the same clubs that are anti tattoo on dancers would be anti tattoo on waitresses... but I would think that they would keep the same standards... My point... I guess is.... sounds like BS to me....

    Are there any other clubs nearby? Try auditioning somewhere else...

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    tell him if he doesnt let you then youll just go somewhere else.

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    i can't really threaten him because there is only one other club in the city, run by the same company (diffrent managers though)

    i can't travel out of my city because i don't have a car.

    i think it is so weird that they let me waitress but not dance?!
    i need to try and argue my case but i am not sure what to say so they will even give me a chane. apparently my tattoos are 'too much'.

    argh!!!

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    How about covering them up with makeup?

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    impossible i'm afraid it's a full blown sleeve of tattoos.

    the worst thing is i have had so many men complimenting them and saying how nice it looks. i'm so frustrated!!

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    Quote Originally Posted by Mia M
    How about covering them up with makeup?
    That would take a LOT of makeup for a half sleeve.

    Next time a customer comments that he likes your tattoos, ask him to talk to the manager about how much he would like to see you dance. The customer is always right ...
    Cheers,
    * Summer *
    Pretty lingerie, sexy costumes and stilettos always make me feel better.

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    i would go somewhere else after all that is what makes a club variety sounds like your manager is full of bs just my 2 cents
    GA PEACHGA PEACH GA PEACH

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    What about wearing gloves that run up the length your arm? or a long-sleeved bolero jacket? see if you can find one, then ask the manager if you can audition. items such as these can stay on when you're dancing, as most guys want to see tits and ass. not all clothing has to come off. i knew girls with leg tattoos that wore thigh high boots or stockings with garters. depending on the design of your tattoos, it might be possible to cover them with a costume or accessory. ebay might have some of these items. i hope it all works out for you....else, save up for a car and dance elsewhere if you want to.

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    this is a trick a friend of mine used and looks amazingly sexy:

    get a pair of stockings(pantyhose). Cut the feet off and cut a hole in the crotch; now its a mid-drift top when you put it on. rip or slash the 'top' or body bit, so that its pretty much all skin-if its sheer pantyhose just rip it open so you can see your boobs. I saw this worn with a black, cropped vinly bustier-style corset and it looked amazing... you can even pull sleeves over your middle finger so that you get that v-shaped glove look.

    i'd explain to your manager that you really love this club and admire the way its run. Tell them you understand that tatoos are a problem to them but if you can find an outfit that covers them adequately could they please reconsider auditioning you???

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    Well, you better love me, b/c I looked up a dress a friend of mine wears in my club



    She also has her full arm tattooed, and she bust keeps the sleves on, but pulls the front (torso bit) of the dress over her head, so only the sleves are on. This is the perfect solution.

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    Default Re: i REALLY need your help please ladies!

    thankyou to everyone who replied.. you know i had never thought about wearing clothing to cover it! doh!
    i called up the sister club and told them i had a large tattoo on my arm and they didn't seem too phased (haven't seen it yet though!!) and i have an audition on tuesday! all of this advice will certainly come in handy though... although i would love it if i didn't have to cover up my damn tattoos!! i guess time wil tell.

    i am SCARED!

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