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    Do you guys think it's appropriate to approach a couple (male/female couple) when another girl is dancing for one person and the other half is watching?
    The reason I ask is because the other night, I was in the dressing room and this one girl who is not much of a hustler or money maker asked me if I wanted to go work the floor with her. I let her know that I don't work in pairs; I prefer to fly solo. Not 15 minutes later, I was dancing for this lady's husband, and the same girl comes up to the table and asks the lady if she wants a dance! I felt like she was almost trying to make me work with her by "following" me to this table and I thought it was kind of rude to approach someone who was enjoying watching their partner get a dance.

    Or am I being petty and sensitive?

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    i think she was trying to "one up" you or something. you didn't want to work with her and maybe she felt offended so she decided to tred on your space to prove a point. maybe she's just a bitch. avoid her.

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    Ugh I would smack her. When entertaining a couple its supposed to be you and the couple unless they ask for another girl. I find when its two girls it usually makes the wife/gf really uncomfortable. The fantasy is best with one dancer and the couple.

    I would just nicely tell her somehow that what she did is considered rude.

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    Did you agree ahead of the time with the couple that she would watch? I think the woman probably didn't appreciate that much. That girl was dumb to do that... But it probably wasn't malicious.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    Did you agree ahead of the time with the couple that she would watch? I think the woman probably didn't appreciate that much. That girl was dumb to do that... But it probably wasn't malicious.
    All of the dances at my club are on the main floor...we have a VIP area, but that's by the hour. I don't think the girl was being malicious, but I do think she was trying to somehow ride my coattails...I have a rep of being a hustler at my club.

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    Ahhh. Remind her to back off then. Grrr. Got a can of stripper repellant?
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    i would tell her .. i agree if its you and the couple.. its just you inless they ask for another girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    Ahhh. Remind her to back off then. Grrr. Got a can of stripper repellant?
    I think it's gonna come to that...I always feel like she in particular is up my ass at work (she doesn't work often, luckily)...in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable. For example, I'll be counting my money at my locker (with my hands in my locker and everything, trying to keep it to myself) and she'll make a comment about how it looks like I've been making money. I'm sorry, but I'm not gonna feel guilty about making money at work. I'll help out the other girls, when it calls for it, but I'm there for ME, and I just don't see why someone needs to be on my ass about it!

    That same night, when I went to my locker to freshen up, she was at her locker and complained how she wasn't making any money and I said, "Well, you're definitely not going to make any money if you're in the dressing room!"

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    I don't know - I wouldn't do it myself, but ultimately, it was two customers, so she is, technically, "allowed".

    Don't bitch at her, or try to make her feel bad. There is no point, and that just creates a relationship between the two of you that will either deteriorate and get bitchy, or get "made up" and make you friends. Do not engage her at all, and give her answers as short as courtesy will allow (don't be discourteous - again, it creates a relationship). If she says "You've been making money" give her a "retail smile" ( you know, impersonal, like you're behind a cash register) and say "Yes." or "It's been okay." If she says she is not, same smile "That's too bad" or "I'm sure it will get better". And then - "I've gotta..." and make a vague gesture about something you have to do elsewhere and walk away. Even if you are nto ready, go to the bathroom, whatever, just cut it off. In a few days it will all disappear. Trust me - I'm an EXPERT at not having relationships with people.
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    Let it go, don't let her know it bothered you. She wanted a reacton, smile big and friendly when you see her, but otherwise ignore her, work at work you don't need unneccesary drama.

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    Ugh. That's an awkward situation. I'd just let it go unless it becomes a habit. And when she makes an unnecessary comment about your making money I would just say "I've been working really hard tonight" and let it go at that. Boo to that whore though. Stripper thumbs down.

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    Is she new? Maybe she needs help and realizes you are one of the better hustlers at the club?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PookaShell
    I would just say "I've been working really hard tonight" and let it go at that.
    Wow, that's great! From now on, that will be my canned response to anyone who says something to me about the amount of money I've made.

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