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    Default How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    This may be a really stupid question, but when your done dancing for a customer, if they dont just give you the money, what do you say or do? Also have any of you experienced a customer who tries to play it off like you made the dance sound like it was free to get out of paying??

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    "That'll be $20 for the dance, unless you want to keep going".

    We do 2-4-1's at my club andI've had guys say that I danced only one song when it was two. I think they just weren't paying attention.

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    I get mine upfront...

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    i always get my money before i ever dance for them!! that way i already have their money no matter what!

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    susan maybe they just wanted to see you dance again for free!!

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    Quote Originally Posted by Aspiringdancer
    susan maybe they just wanted to see you dance again for free!!
    You mean with the 2-4-1's? Our DJ's usually do them by saying it's by one get one free and then they announce at the second song "here's your free lap dance".

    I did have one guy buy a 2-4-1 and about 30 minutes later flagged me down and said he was ready for his second dance from the 2-4-1. Had to tell him that the two songs are one after the other.

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    Quote Originally Posted by Aspiringdancer
    This may be a really stupid question, but when your done dancing for a customer, if they dont just give you the money, what do you say or do? Also have any of you experienced a customer who tries to play it off like you made the dance sound like it was free to get out of paying??
    i always just go "10 dollars baby" unless they ask to keep going...if he gives me trouble (never happens honestly) i would tell the bouncer and it will get handled very quickly!

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    When it's time to settle up--"It's $xx minimum please, darlin"

    If for some reason I lost track of the number of dances, "Let's go talk to the pretty girl behind the bar and see what the damage was. " (The bartenders track our VIPs)

    You earned your money and you can't be shy at all about getting it.

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    I just pull out my garter and say "why don't you put the $20 (or whatever amount they owe) right in here" and give them a sexy, cute look. I've only had a problem 1 time and I ended up getting paid. It was the beginning of the night, the only time we do the 2 for 1 dance. This guy called over like 4 dancers and we were waiting for him to pay us and keep telling him. I did the pull my garter out thing and he just stuck his hand in there but didn't put any money in it. I was getting fed up really quick and at that point I was ready to get the bouncer over to kick this guy's ass and right as I was thinking about getting the bouncer, this girl/date? that he was with paid all the dancers with a scowl on her face. We were talking about them in the dressing room and we were all like wtf? They called us over and then were going to try to get away with it? Don't think so!!!!! So we told all the girls in the dressing room and nobody gave them any attention for the remaining time they were there! Hahahaha!!!!

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    leogirl876.....sounds like that guy made her pay for all of you! I would've been pissed if i were her too lol...but it's nice that she payed you all! It could have been worse...could have been a loser with no cash and you all never got your money!

    Sometimes i get my money up front and sometimes I don't...it really depends on who i'm dancing for and what feel i get from them. I've never had a guy stiff me...and if he did i'd most likely get even with him myself. (One time a guy was being a complete disrespectful jerk....he was talking smack to me and acting really retarded and wouldn't get a dance.....I walked off and left him alone and then noticed he had left his cell phone on the floor...it must have fallen out of his pants!.....I picked it up and showed it to him...he was like...oh thanks...and I said..you can't have it back until you get a dance lol)
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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    I've never worked in a club where you don't get the money up front. I've had guys ask "can I pay later?" and I say "do you drink your beer and pay for that later?" Australians don't do credit.

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    I always ask for it upfront i wouldnt want them to give me half or say oh shit i forgot my wallet

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    Money upfront is the only way... buy your voucher.. get your dance.. simple!

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    big dilemma is.........a purse or a garter?! I find the whole bag thing a bit odd!!

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    I tell the customer at the end of a song " ok thats the end of song one do you want me to keep going?" If the answer is yes then I'll dance one more and at the end of the second song I'll say " ok babe how about you pay me for those two before we get in to the next dance" and I've never had a problem. I always get my money after every 2 songs.

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    money upfront is good idea but then negates the concept of tipping a bit.

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    Default Re: How do you get the money from customers after lap dances??

    I just openly clarify how many songs we did/how much it will cost. "So we danced three songs, so it will be $30. And tips are always appreciated!" *cutesy smile*

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