I just ended a relationship woth this guy who was immediately possessive from the start. He wanted to know where I was working and call him to make sure I was doing what I said I was. He would also get angry very fast and suspect of lying for no reason. I think from these signs this guy was probaly dangerous with hte potential of beign physically abusive.
When I couldnt lie anymore, since he asked me to call him from my place of work, I decided to tell him I was a dancer.
Ever since he has held it against me and treated me less than a person, and it finally ended since.
I know danicing is just a job and from the posts I read on this site, it is only a reflection of someones ignorance to look down on someone for choosing this profession.
Yet I can't help but feel conflicted, since there are so many customers and people on the outside who believe that only girls with no self worth or ambition.
I was just wondering how other dancers deal with issues like this on a regular basis in order to motivate them towards what they plan on getting out of this business without paying attention to these outside distractions.



Reply With Quote

Bookmarks