I have known many dancers over the years seriously dated a few and am just "good friends" with others... A fair percentage of them are bascially asexual or use their toys as the JOB of a "stripper" has desensitized them to any meaningful sexual or romantic relationships with ANY MAN. I can understand how being groped all day by disrespectful men may make one very jaded towards ALL men, but when the JOB really affects your personal life this much is it time for counseling or another job even though the liklihood of finding a JOB that pays as much is slim to none for a lot of dancers?? Sad thing is there are a lot of guy "friends" who genuinely care for dancers and accept the just "friends" aspect, and there are "custies" who could give a flying fuc whether they live or die get more action (albeit paid) than the guy "friends" who genuinely care for them both ITC and OTC. Guess there are a lot of dancers that feel awkward giving a paid groping dance to someone they consider a "friend" instead of a "custie"? I always like to think if you have to pay for even just a groping lapdance the liklihood of sincerity for either party is slim, therefore if you have mutual "feelings" of just "friends" then you shouldn't pay directly for a false affection lapper... (it even feels awkward for me to). You will ultimately pay in several other ways though by being just their "friend".
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. You will ultimately pay in several other ways though by being just their "friend".
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This "desensitization" is an excuse to keep you from trying to get in their pants - or any guy they call a "friend".



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