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    Default do i look like a whore?

    while we're on the subject of getting propositioned for sex in exchange for money...

    does anyone else have this particular scenario happen to them frequently? it's happened to me a few times in the last week...

    here's the scenario:
    a guy is sitting with a dancer. a dancer who you consider to be attractive (on par with yourself) and who makes decent money. he leaves said dancer and seeks you out after eyeing you down for a bit. you might be on stage, or sitting somewhere else. he asks you for dances. you take him back to give the dances and he, almost immediately, asks you for a bj, hj, etc. for X ammount of cash.

    i don't know why this keeps happening to me. is it because i'm usually busy? are guys assuming i must be "doing something" back there? i don't do incredibly raunchy stage dances or anything... i think i'm at an average "raunch" level in that aspect i mean.... at least i'm making money off of them, so from that aspect i don't really give a shit. i just don't understand why guys keep leaving other girls in order to dance with me, when they are CLEARLY looking for extras.

    and no... i do not wear a shirt that says "i give great blowjobs" or anything.

    one concern i have with it (besides the fact that it's irritating trying to make money from someone once you know they want sex) is that if the guy is making mention of looking for extras to the girls before he seeks me out.. maybe they are pointing me out to him?? or maybe they arent, but when he leaves them for me they think i offered him something? i don't want that rep.

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    Default Re: do i look like a whore?

    I wouldn't sweat the small stuff. Guys find me in the club from time to time and want the weirdest things. You're probably their type OR ideal fantasy girl that they would like to do that with. Guys'll run over their grandmother to get to a girl they'd love to be with to proposition them for whatever floats their boat.
    It's sounds crazy and down right pathetic, but think of it this way...

    Guys are like Dogs
    Dogs are usually in heat
    Need I say more...

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    Default Re: do i look like a whore?

    Maybe it's happening a lot in your club by other girls and the customers are just assuming that all the girls in there do that. If this continues and if you find it hard to make money you might want to switch clubs. I work in a strictly airdance-no touch club and I'll get a sexual question like that every now and then but it's usually more along the lines of "will you rub it with your knee" but with them keep their pants on. I just flat out tell them "no, we don't do that in our club" and I leave it at that and don't spend anymore time with the customer.

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    Default Re: do i look like a whore?

    I've never been propositioned like that exactly, but whenever I'm up doing a podium, I'm usually always asked at least by one guy "So how much do you charge to be an escort outside of this place?" even though our website says there is no escorting and they say so in the club too. The club I'm at is very strict about these things. Yet without fail I always get asked how much I would charge for escorting. And once I said "I dunno" the customer was like "Well how much did you charge last time?" "Well I've never done it before." "You haven't?!" "I'm not an escort" "Think about it. I'm sure we could find a price you'd be willing to do it for."

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    Default Re: do i look like a whore?

    ...Maybe you're ovulating...? & They can smell it?
    Maybe it's the red hair. LOL Kidding.

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    Default Re: do i look like a whore?

    The reality is that guys want sex from girls they are attracted to. Many guys go to clubs looking for the girls who will give them sex. I wouldn't worry about what the other girls think. Their opinions are unimportant. You just have to accept the reality that guys want to fuck girls that they are attracted to, period. Some will be more forward about it than others.

    Clubs are a lot to blame because if they had a jivey and lively DJ who kept pumping up the tip rail and stage and the dances, and announcing periodically that the dancers won't fuck the customers so don't ask, then a lot of that bullshit would stop.

    Think of it this way. Fuckable looks is what gets us hired. Looking fuckable is what gets guys to buy dances from us. Many guys want the challege of seeing if they can get a dancer to fuck them.

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