Alrighty...so i have not had sex in 3 years...never cared too after i got screwed over a few times....simply enjoyed the casual dating scene...now i have found a guy that i have been dating for three months and i really want to have sex with him. I was diagnosed with the genital warts strain in March(i had first noticed them that previous summer).
Anyway, i got all my pap tests done and coloscopy...and i was not at risk for cancer...i was prescribed ointment but it took a LOT of time and i did not see fast results for wart removal. Also, I was not too worried because i had not been dating anyone.
Now, i am dating a guy I really like. I went to planned parent hood last week, they were WAY Better than my other gyno...i was examined and she told me all that i had was 4 small ones. They were on my right outer lip. She burned them off.
So far, i have talked to this guy and just said that i have not had sex in a while and need time for comfort(which is true as well)...I am serious about this guy and i would like any suggestions on how to bring this all up to him without scaring him away...Anyone else with similar experiances and encouragment? I felt weird and told him my last sexual encounter was a year ago...then he said his was 3 years ago...so now i wish i was honest about that as well....blah i am all torn up. With all the education, i understand the dynamics of H.P.V...but i just feel like he will hear std and warts or something and just be totally turned off =(. Figures when i never cared to have sex i could and now that i really want to i have this to worry about... any help![]()



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